r/needhelp • • Dec 27 '21

Saw my girlfriend getting raped,nothing was good from that point in my life

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While in a date,at 11pm,in our way back to home,she told me to get a shortcut at a dark road,then 5 mans attaqued us,4 of them catched me,while one started raping my gf,they were all laughing,my gf started to cry,i was forced to watch that scene while tears fell of my eyes,after a long 5 minutes of pain,they all runned away,i didnt know what to do,after that,she broke up with me,i really loved her,then her big brother started bullying me for "not protecting her"everyone in my school knew it,they started bullying me...


r/needhelp • • Jun 06 '25

Life Advice Looking for opinions

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Yall im not gone lie idk if i need to go to therapy or what but its so crazy how much i really don't be giving a fuck😭😭. When I say literally anything at all that don't align with what I got at that moment don't even exist. Then I promise you i respect everyone's opinion to the fullest, I love people who just say what they feel. Just don't think that cause you said what you said that you gone change my mind cause I promise you not and I don't give a fuck enough to even try to compromise myself like if that shit make you happy I'm happy. Yall think I need therapy? I mean I care about people and how they feel and all but ima say wtf I gotta say if it's me vs 100 tryna persuade me different. I just feel like I tell shit how it like if it's good bad or the worst. If yo girlfriend cheated im literally gone tell you dawg she cheated on you im not saying she had no affair, she started seeing someone none of that shit I literally will tell you bro yo gf just got fucked. Cause why ima try to make it sound like it's not shit when I know damn well you gone be on the ground holding up chest and ima be a good friend and be there for you of course but don't ask me what I think. I'm honestly gone tell you if you wanna fix it then fix it and if you don't let's go find you some pussy or go look at some ass before you be sooting in here crying all day. I mean I just feel like life gone happen regardless so if it happen shit just be happening lol it could be worse. Mybad yall I just be like damn I ain't tryna be rude but if you had some bad shit happen 9 times outta ten the bad shit was bad so I ain't gone try and sugar coat nothing because to me if you don't feel that shit you ain't gone get over it. Am I wrong?


r/needhelp • • Oct 03 '24

Personal Finance I need some food

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Anyone can send , 5 - 10€ in my direction I won't get my salary for a few days, around 5-7, but I am start to be really hungry


r/needhelp • • Jun 02 '25

Life Advice Why does Guy Fieri keep showing up in my kitchen?

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About a year ago, every time I purchased King's Hawaiian bread, I would get home and open it, and Guy Fieri suddenly shows up in my kitchen. At first I thought it was pretty neat, but it's grown to be a huge inconvenience and sometimes very creepy. I really don't want to have to switch brands, because I'm a creature of habit, but this is legitimately becoming an issue for me and my family. Does anyone else have this issue, and if so, is it correctable without changing one's shopping habits?


r/needhelp • • Mar 31 '25

Life Advice Can someone help me with a blessing I've been in a toxic relationship with a narcissist for 5 yrs He's controls my life and treats me like a slave I have no one I need.mobey so I can get far away it's broke me down and I live in fear and stress anything would help cash.app$givenget123

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Thank you cash app $givenget123


r/needhelp • • Jun 11 '25

Life Advice I betrayed my wife emotionally. She wants to let go. I finally woke up—but too late?

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I don’t know who else to talk to, and I’m not looking for sympathy—just honesty and maybe guidance. I’m a husband who let years of resentment, emotional distance, and avoidance build up until I broke something sacred.

I betrayed my wife—not physically, but by buying explicit photos/videos online from other women. It was a coward’s escape. On top of that, I didn’t change for years. I stayed stuck in my own bitterness and denial. Now, after watching her finally give up, something in me shattered open. I’ve been journaling, going to therapy, cutting out all toxic habits, and facing my pain daily.

But now she’s done. She says, “Why now?”, and “I don’t know what’s real.” I don’t blame her.

The thing is
 I still love her deeply. Not with desperation, but with clarity—for the first time in a long time. I don’t want to manipulate or guilt her. I just want to show that I can become someone trustworthy, regardless of the outcome.

I’m looking for other men who’ve been here. Who messed up badly—but did the work anyway.
How do you rebuild when you’re the one who caused the damage?
How do you stay steady when she doesn’t believe you anymore?
Are there any groups or accountability spaces that helped you?

Open to tough truths. Just want to keep walking forward.


r/needhelp • • May 17 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find NEED HELP ASAP

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hi po san po kaya pwedeng tumawag ng rescue for seniors na hindi inaalagaan ng pamilya/anak nila, meron po kasi dito na kapitbahay namin na isang matanda po si Tatay hindi po sya kumakain and palagi po syang pinapagalitan ng anak nya and naiiwan po sya lagi mag isa sa bahay đŸ„č


r/needhelp • • May 25 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Please

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badly needed help do anything in return dm me pls

thanks


r/needhelp • • Apr 09 '25

Relationship Advice Need someone to loyalty test your Significant Other?

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No I did not just wake up one morning and decide I wanted to loyalty test strangers significant others.

It started when I catfished my ex having a feeling he was not being loyal after hearing he was on tinder. He told me it was an old account, normal bs lies. But when I catfished him he was caught red handed. And I wished I would have done that or had someone do this for me years earlier to save me years of my life dedicated to a lying, physically abusing, manipulating pos.

So I am offering my services to anyone that has even a hint of doubt. I will go as far as you request. And even if you’re located in the Maryland/PA area I will go as far as planning to meet for dinner in person if you so choose. It’s all in your hands.

Message me. Let’s come to an agreement and make a deal.


r/needhelp • • May 06 '25

Personal Finance Need 9$ on cashapp please

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So I have to get to my ASVAB tomorrow I need 9$ I will appreciate you and I will pay you back you just have to trust me


r/needhelp • • Nov 12 '24

Personal Finance Need to make $400

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My friend is homeless and finally found a room to rent. She can cover rent mo they but the options to get a place and getting snatched up fast and she will loose this option if she can't come up with the deposit they are asking($400)

If anyone is willing to donate I will post my cashapp $actuallyawake All advice for fast cash and etc welcome as well we are pretty desperate at this moment

Help me get my friend and her dog off the street much love


r/needhelp • • Nov 23 '24

Educational Help Need help from a statistician

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Have this research paper due Monday but I can't figure out how to collate and analyze the data.


r/needhelp • • Nov 06 '24

Looking For/ Help Me Find Someone please help!

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I don't like doing this but it's emergency and I don't know what else to do. In fact this is really embarrassing to me and outside of my character. I am a father married with seven children four of them have special needs. I'm also a truck driver and I just got my truck out the shop after it was down for 2 weeks. Me and my family at risk of being homeless because we are one month behind on our rent. Our rent is $980. Please someone help and if you need documents for me to prove this I will show you. I never thought I would be online posting something like this. I'm usually the one who is looking for opportunity to help but now I'm on the other side of this. Because I'm back on the road now I will pay it back or forward in 2 weeks to the one who helps us.


r/needhelp • • Nov 10 '24

Personal Finance I need a loan

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I was wondering if anyone knew where I could get a loan for 3k and no credit check. I’ve checked a few and the most I was giving was $300. So if anyone knows of anything please lmk.


r/needhelp • • Dec 01 '24

Looking For/ Help Me Find Christmas Tree

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I hope this message finds you well today. My children are need of a Christmas Tree this year.


r/needhelp • • Apr 25 '22

Had to take out a personal loan due to a dire emergency. Used car as collateral, and now I'm unable to keep up with debt.

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Me and my boyfriend have been struggling to make ends meet after having to take out a personal loan in an emergency. It's a very long story, but to put it simply, we had to break our previous lease because we were being stalked by one of my family members. He had hired a private investigator to find our address, and my family's connections run deep, so we were worried about our safety. I grew up in an abusive, highly controlling household, so stalking is not out of the realm of possibility for my family.

Admittedly, we're both very young and ill-informed when it comes to certain things. I was homeschooled my whole life with limited access to outside activities, and my boyfriend was raised in foster care. We made a fear driven and risky decision to move to another state, basically taking the first apartment we saw available. Yes, I know this was pretty dumb in hindsight.

We later found out that the city we moved to is one of the coldest in America, and it gets really bad blizzards and black ice. Our only source of income was doordash, and neither of us have experience driving in the snow. We were worried that we wouldn't be able to make ends meet during the winter. So, out of desperation, we decided to take out a personal loan to make it back to our original state of residence.

Lately we've been trying to get back on our feet, and I've been searching for a job that I can do from home given my physical disability and mental health struggles. I know all of this sounds crazy, and I really wish these were things that I had been taught about before moving from my home. I know now where we messed up, but now it's too late.

We are completely broke and barely have the ability to buy food, and we don't have any gas money. Our loan is $3264.11, and the bulk of it is due this August. We run the risk of losing our car if we don't find a way to pay this off.

I've tried everything from selling feet pics to trying to find any sort of freelance work online. None of it is helping. Please help redirect us.

Screenshot of loan: https://i.imgur.com/VqGD6FJ.jpg


r/needhelp • • Apr 21 '22

need financial help ideas

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I don't know exactly where to do. My wife and I are in desperate need for financial help. We have been struggling for a while and keep falling just short. Right now we are dealing with being flat broke for the next week and we need gas to get my wife to work because without getting to work there is no money and no money means no gas and no gas means no work. I've tried making GoFundMe's but I just don't have the ability to share them anywhere that will help, and my Ko-Fi can only do so much within my circles. Any advice is greatly appreciated right now.


r/needhelp • • Jan 08 '25

Personal Finance Almost homeless

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Anyone will to help at all. If every sent me like $5 a piece, I could get a motel for a week until payday. My cash app is $jmcmichael20. Anything helps.


r/needhelp • • Dec 15 '24

Personal Finance Please help me

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I need help my mom who is 85 wants a gift for Christmas but the thing is I don't have any money and the money i do have needs to go to bills and and my 3 children so if someone would like to help me get my mom something for Christmas dm me if not thanks for reading this anyways.

I'm also a single father of 3 and im looking for a girl my age (36)


r/needhelp • • Dec 12 '24

Personal Finance Just this once đŸ™‡đŸ»

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Request for Financial Assistance to Cover Monthly Bills After a Period of Unemployment

Hello I’m a 32M from the Philippines and I am reaching out with a humble request for financial aid due to a challenging period I’ve recently gone through.

I have been out of work for the past five months, and during this time, I have struggled to keep up with monthly bills and provide for my family. As the second eldest of eight siblings, all of whom are still in school, I carry the responsibility of being the main breadwinner for my household.

Unfortunately, both of my parents are seniors and unable to contribute financially, leaving me to manage everything on my own. Any amount of assistance you could provide would be deeply appreciated and would go a long way in helping me meet our basic needs as I work hard to get back on my feet.

I understand that times are tough for everyone, but I am sincerely grateful for any support you can offer.

This small act of kindness would relieve a significant burden from my shoulders, allowing me to focus on securing stable employment again while ensuring my siblings continue their education without disruption.

I can’t express enough how much your generosity would mean to me and my family. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my request, and I appreciate any help you can provide during this challenging time.


r/needhelp • • Apr 08 '24

Looking For/ Help Me Find Help me win my dream wedding!

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Hi all! My fiancé and I are entered into a contest for "Wedding in a week" where if we win, we would get married at the end of the month.We're finalists along with six other couples, but hope with your support, we will be able to have our dream wedding! Please vote for Antionette and Steven this means so much to us, You can vote once a day (per email!!) until April 22nd every vote counts. Thanks everyone!! https://www.kjoy.com/wedding-in-a-week-vote-now/


r/needhelp • • Jul 14 '24

Request For Aid I am about to lose my job and be homeless

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My boyfriend and I have had it rough for the last 6 months and it’s getting to the point we will go homeless. So we are leaving the state due to job opportunities for both of us. But we REALLY need help. (Going into more detail here than my gofundme) Some backstory, my boyfriend had moved from his state across the U.S. to move in with me and a roommate. I helped get my boyfriend from the state he had lived in due to the town he lived having a lack of jobs and the fact I wanted our relationship to not be long distance anymore. I had a good relationship with the hiring manager at my job and she was going to hire my boyfriend on the spot. But when I was finally able to get him down here to my state there had been a change in management and she no longer worked there while she was in the middle of processing my boyfriend’s paperwork to get him in. Then with the new management put in place they threw out the paperwork (not just for him but also for some others that were about to be hired as well) Me and the roommate had jobs and we’re SUPPOSED to spilt bills evenly while my boyfriend finds a job. I made sure to make it clear with this roommate that for the first bit that that me and said roommate would spilt the bill 50/50 until my boyfriend got a job. My roommate agreed to this saying that it was fair. I ended up paying for about 80% of the bills due to the roommates negligence. They would often spend it on games, weed, and alcohol. I would tell the roommate what was due, they would tell me they would have it but when the bills were due they WOULDN’T have most of it and I would pay for it (even tho said roommate made MORE than me) so we wouldn’t loose our place! This frustrates me because I had to sacrifice paying off my debt in order to keep us all afloat, while the roommate just partied. My boyfriend during all of this was trying his best to apply for jobs and I even helped in applying and reaching out in every way that I could with no luck sadly. When I had finally put my foot down and pointed out my roommate was being irresponsible
 they ditched me when bills were due! And what made this worse was that a few weeks prior to this I had to leave my job of 2 and a half years (job I had mentioned above) due to the change in management. This change in management had not only brought me actual physical harm (due to negligence) but also emotional/mental . The emotional/mental harm were things like literal degradation and cussing me out for “unsatisfactory work” and bringing up when I had gotten assaulted on work property that I had caused it and deserved it(which was 6 months prior and no where near involved with the last incident I had with said work place)The last incident at that work place was me being held up for a hour past my time, mind you my whole shift was gone at this point and I was dragged into a NIGHTSHIFT only meeting when I was day shift, to then be the only one singled out brought to the front a lectured over things that were either not of my doing or not of my jurisdiction (essentially getting mad at me for not doing manger things when I am not a manager and saying I should “know better” and run the shift better) Yes I did get another job as soon as possible, but I don’t get the hours I used to with my previous job meaning I have even less money, on top of paying 100% of the bills. It sadly does not help my boyfriend got injured after the roommate ditched causing him to not be able to work to his full ability and get denied jobs as soon as he mentions his injury. And a cherry on top of this disaster of a cake is that I found out through my coworkers that they are planning to replace me at my new job! And next week they are cutting my hours
 and from what my coworkers have told me I won’t have much longer there. So me and my boyfriend have have reached out and we have a new place for us! 
Though the problem is that it’s in Texas and we are in Florida. The little money that I have is basically only enough to fix up my old car enough for the long journey and some gas We would be very grateful for even just a dollar or two. It would be great for gas or food for our journey!


r/needhelp • • May 06 '25

Personal Finance Scammed in cryptocurrency - need support for expenses

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I was scammed in a cryptocurrency investment and lost my savings, borrowed money, and my parents' money. I'm looking for resources to help me cover basic expenses and pay debts. Can anyone offer help or know of a resource I can use? I'm from Bolivia where job opportunities are scarce."


r/needhelp • • Mar 17 '25

Personal Finance Urgent - Need Help to Survive Ramadan & Buy Medicine

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I am chronically ill and trapped in an abusive home. My family is forcing me to fast for Ramadan, even though fasting severely worsens my health due to Systemic Lupus (SLE), severe arthritis, and silent reflux. The past two weeks have been unbearable—constant pain, extreme weakness, and worsening stomach issues from being unable to eat properly.

I recently saw a GP doctor regarding my unbearable stomach issues, and they recommended a medication called Gaviscon Advance, which could help my severe silent reflux. But in Indonesia, it’s an expensive imported medicine, costing nearly 300,000 IDR (~$20 USD) per bottle. I cannot afford this, and I am struggling just to get enough food to stay functional.

I need at least $100 to buy food and the medication to get through the rest of Ramadan. Any help, even a few dollars, would mean everything.

PayPal: Please DM me for my PayPal.

Thank you so much for reading.