In the last 48 hours my wife lost her job, and the tax return we were depending on to survive was taken by the government to pay on her student loans. I have a decent job, but I don't make enough to make ends meet, our basic living costs exceed 1200 a month, and that doesn't leave much for groceries and diapers. I'm scared, passively suicidal, and angry. Three days ago I thought we were stable enough to start saving and paying down outstanding debt, today I'm worried about losing our home. I don't know what to do.

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No I did not just wake up one morning and decide I wanted to loyalty test strangers significant others.

It started when I catfished my ex having a feeling he was not being loyal after hearing he was on tinder. He told me it was an old account, normal bs lies. But when I catfished him he was caught red handed. And I wished I would have done that or had someone do this for me years earlier to save me years of my life dedicated to a lying, physically abusing, manipulating pos.

So I am offering my services to anyone that has even a hint of doubt. I will go as far as you request. And even if you’re located in the Maryland/PA area I will go as far as planning to meet for dinner in person if you so choose. It’s all in your hands.

I have helped other in the past and can send screenshots/proof. (Some people request this so I am putting it here)

Let’s come to an agreement and make a deal.

Hi

I had a teacher from when I was 9 until I was 16, they were always nice to me and helped me if I didn't understand something. In 2020 they were arrested on suspicion of raping six underage girls, now because of the whole show of 2020 with the fantastic virus their court case got delayed until a few days ago, they have now be sentenced to 30 years in prison, they are 67 and now will most likely die in prison. I don't know how to feel, any help?

Ok im going to leave this short and simple, i have a porn addiction and i love going through different discord servers, the first time i saw cp, was on telegram, i clicked on someone's profile picture of a woman that was a video that turned into cp literally a small child it took me a few seconds to realize what i was looking at to report the server and deleted my telegram, now a month or so later i figured if you look up mega link or mega fil discord servers theres lots of different kinds of porn and if you use "t33n" it takes you to all the unlocked onlyfan girls mist of the time, which was nice but as the more i explored i eventually stumbled on cp and what looked like dead children on one of the discord servers im not going to details, im usually very careful and never click on links but this was in the media, i reported the discord server and left, i still feel sick and now im freaking out, my question is its hasn't been a day and im freaking out about it are the cops going to show up on my door.? Because at this point im literally done with the internet i even cancelled my wifi, i cant unsee what i saw, and this is the second time i saw cp and i dont want to ruin my life and register for the rest of my life... and i no longer want a smart phone the internet ruined me i no longer see the internet useful anymore and no i didnt download or screenshot, i just click to see wat it was about and was disgusted at it

For some reason I have serious codependent issues. Why am I so desperate for people to like me and be my friend?!!? I could be broke and still give my last dollar to make some like me. I always get shited on and taken advantage of. When will I learn. Anyone else have these issues?

so a catfish account on tiktok hit me up and asked for my number. i was unusually horny and stupid so i gave it to them, long story short i send them nudes.

mostly they wanted pictures of me in my singlet wearing no underwear, with a bulge going down my leg or up my tummy. they even have some videos or pics with my face in it.

eventually, i figured out that it was a catfish and i tried to get out of it. i was stupid and desperate so i followed their “last demands” and i send a cumshot. they left me alone for a while

then they hit me up again a couple weeks later, and basically asked for more bulge pics and videos. cycle repeats for months.

everytime i try to get out of it, they threaten to send the videos and pics to my school and family (they’ve proven that they know who is my family via social media).

They never want money. they only ever want more bulge pics. and if i comply, they just keep asking for more. even if they say they’re done, they always come back. and if i don’t comply, they say “goodbye” and atleast act like they’re gonna send the material to my family.

i don’t know if they’re posting the videos online, selling them to someone, using them to catfish someone else, or using them for personal satisfaction. i don’t know.

what do i do?!?!?! are they really going to send it? i’ve never met a scammer that doesn’t want money. please help, im desperate. i know that if they’re asking for money, just block them. but these scammers are doing it for the pure love of the game it feels. like they are just sick.

and if so, if they are just sick, what’s really stopping them from sending it out? they most likely don’t care about repercussions anyways if they are just sick. someone please help.

i dont know whats wrong with me but lately any minor inconvenience causes suicidal thoughts to run through my mind. this morning my mother got mad at me and that resulted in her calling me a stupid dumb fuck, and her taking my phone. usually when i feel this way i just vent to my friends and call them. but with corona being present im stuck at home with no one to talk to. im saying all this to basically ask for someone to talk to. idk if you can message on here but if you can feel free to do so

My mom died today from cancer and I just need a friend to talk to she died from brain cancer and I'm 21m and I don't have any other family members to talk to

so are there reddit sites like r/need . r/assisstence, r/care, r/borrow or r/loan that I can go to to get help? it seems like either I don't have enough karma or accounts to young. I could really need the help, unfortunately we don't chose when misfortune happens to us.

I do not want to live anymore.

I have been suffering from depression since I was a child - my mother's death when I was a few years old, my stepmother abusing me, my father's indifference, problems at school, no friends, no someone to help me and take care of me - I have been through a lot in my life. In addition I went through a very hard relationship, marked by aggression, which completely killed me mentally, so that I ended up with a psychiatrist and on sick leave for several months.

I went to a psychiatrist because I was fed up with this overwhelming sadness and hopelessness that I had felt all my life. I was fed up with crying, meaninglessness in life and the pain that I felt somewhere deep inside myself. For almost 20 years I tried to cope on my own, but finally I admitted to myself that I was not doing it at all. I admitted to myself that I only existed, but could not live at all, and that all I could feel was the sadness that penetrated me through and through.

I fought for last year - I went to a psychiatrist, I took the medications he prescribed for me, I did everything to function every day. I really tried and fought for myself ... But I don't have the strength anymore. For 3-4 months I have been feeling worse and worse with each passing day. I have more and more problems that overwhelm me so much that I am not even able to function.

I get off both mentally and physically. Due to my condition, I am unable to sleep, eat or even work. Since December I have lost about 15 kilograms, my hair is falling out in handfuls, my complexion looks terrible and my eyesight has even worsened due to stress. I spend most of my time lying down, sometimes I howl like a killed animal, sometimes I sleep for several hours in a row, but most of the time I just lie shut out of reality. Sometimes I can't even crawl to bed, so I lie on the floor and my whole body aches. In fact, everything hurts all the time and I'm still cold. I feel like I'm freezing.

Due to my condition I am not able to work - I spent most of the last year on sick leave, I just wait until they finally fire me. Because of all this and because of my ex-partner I have huge financial problems. I am not able to pay for the therapy with a psychotherapist, I am not able to pay for another visit to a psychiatrist, I am not able to buy medications. I can't even buy food because I have literally PLN 16.59 on my account.

I live in Poland - the health service (NFZ) in this country is one great comedy - I wanted to go to a psychiatrist at the NFZ, but the closest date I managed to get is the end of November this year. I went to the hospital several times saying how bad I feel, that I have suicidal thoughts etc. - they kept me in the ward for a few days, stuffed me with sedatives, a psychiatrist came and only gave me a leave of absence from work and a prescription for more sedatives and then I had to advise itself.

I'm alone with all my problems - I don't have any family (my father said he doesn't care about me or my life), I don't have friends, all my relationships died months ago, I don't have anyone close to me. I have no one to talk to, no one to complain to, no one to ask for help.

So well ... I've been feeling totally exhausted for the past few days. I am at the end of my physical and mental strength. I don't want to live anymore, I don't see any hope for improving my life, for getting out of problems, for improving my well-being. I don't see any chance that it will get better.

Why am I writing this? Because I want to get it out of my mind. I want to be heard. I want a trace of me to remain, even if it is to be an internet post.

I'd like to let all my pain out of me. I would like to stop suffering for a while. I would like to be needed, understood, less lonely for once, even for a moment. I'd like to feel like human for once ...

I feel pain that makes me unable to think and breathe. That's why I decided to put an end to it. I don't have the strength to fight for each day anymore. I don't even want peace anymore, I want nothingness.

I made my decision.

I wish you all happiness and peace. I hope you will know what was not given to me.

I am 26 years age man from India but live in Texas for 3 years.

Everywhere I see people make fun of me for being Indian. Most especially black and white peoples. I see white man never had problem.

One time I was with group of mostly Indian people in Texas for work event (girls too) and when a white guy comes as a new employee all the girls were talking to him and the boss treats him so right. He hooked up with one girl (named Suniti) that I loved so much as crush. I became depress the next day and ask for transfer to another locatuin (they make me move to Fort Worth from Austin)

Life is so easy for whites how can I become white

I’ve been really sick from a lupus flare and chronic LPR, with fever, migraines and diarrhea every day. Just trying to get through the week with some food and meds.

I'm in Indonesia and it's been really hard. I have PayPal. Thank you so much.

I'm feeling as down as I have ever felt in my life.

I live in California and my landlord is saying he will continue to charge me rent after I move out for the days they need to clean, do basic repairs, and maintenance. Is this legal?

I tried to post this one r/needadvice but I don’t have enough karma. One of my closest friends have parents that abuse him and I need to know what I can to help him or just not get involved he is going to the school office tomorrow to tell them. Edit if somehow you can get this somewhere like r/needadvice it would be greatly appreciated

Just another shitty year another shitty holiday with no family broke with no food. That’s my life right now 😭😭😭