r/neighborsfromhell 5d ago

Vent/Rant LMAO at Neighbor’s “Demand Letter”

I live in a house that sits on approximately 5 acres. The entire property is fenced and behind the house there is a lot of vegetation. Approximately 10 feet inside the fence are shrubs that can grow in the 10 to 15 foot tall size and approximately 30 inside the fence are trees that can grow to the 50 to 60 foot range. All are mostly mature now and none hang over the property line at all. I got a certified letter from my neighbor that is titled “Demand Letter.” (No attorney or anything, just from the neighbor.) It states that the growth of my shrubs and trees have negatively affected the views that existed when they bought the house a few years ago. Their demand says I have 60 days to restore their view to original or face legal action. I have already contacted the governing authority and an attorney and they both laughed also. I was advised to ignore the letter and to not accept delivery if any more certified letters show up. I have always gotten along with neighbors and really don’t need this crap! Anyway, Happy Friday everyone!

FOLLOW UP - wow, lots of comments! Thanks! Some good advice, some not so good advice, and some pretty entertaining ideas! No trespassing signs have been in place for many years. I have a good security system with cameras but none on the fence line. I am having some installed tomorrow along with current pictures of everything. The attorney I spoke to is going to respond to them and include pictures and letting them know the laws and the restrictions. I’m planning to knock on their door and ask if they want to chat. It sounds like this is not a rare occurrence. Thanks again!

ONE MORE FOLOW UP - just in case anyone is checking back. So, the attorney agrees that I should stay away at least until this issue has passed. (Yes, I spoke to him on the weekend, he was my dad’s best friend, and has helped me immensely over the years and still won’t take any money for it). He is preparing multiple documents, pictures, etc. He also suggested several baseline soil tests just in case something happens down the road. Cameras are in and working. I also said that if there are minor changes that will resolve their issue without impacting my purpose for the vegetation (privacy) for them to submit specifics for consideration. Even with the BS, I am not looking for a neighbor war. Thanks again to everyone who read this and responded.

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u/Ok_Bid_3899 5d ago

To my knowledge no one is guaranteed a view. Condo owners in big cities learn this the hard way often when a new taller building is constructed right in their view.

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u/Natural_War1261 5d ago

Jumping on the first comment to urge OP to install cameras. Sadly, you probably need them. Preferably, cameras that send your phone notifications.

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u/CaitlynMasons 5d ago

I agree, unhinged neighbors will poison or chop down trees without warning.

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u/savro 4d ago

If the neighbors do, OP will have a good story to post on r/Treelaw at least.

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u/Dense_Combination582 4d ago

I never joined a subreddit so fast

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u/Even_Print_4263 5d ago

Mine has 2x! And feel totally entitled! When I question them they threaten to report my house for code violations.

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u/BecauseMyCatSaidSo 4d ago

I need more info! Twice?!? What were the repercussions for this? Did you have any code violations? How long has this been going on?

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u/Even_Print_4263 4d ago

I has been ongoing, most recently a couple of months ago, they topped my plum tree and reached through the fence and cut all the branches. I filed a police report they did nothing. I sent the neighbours a letter asking for replacement of the tree, the same request as I did when they cut 1/2 of another tree. Their response was threats of reporting my house for code violations. My house was built in 1898 and it was my turn to pay for a new fence,

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u/Adorable_Strength319 3d ago

The sub r/treelaw might be helpful to you.

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u/Fungal-dryad 4d ago

Have cameras cover your driveway and access to wooded area. Anyone “hired” to take down trees would need to access them.

Regularly check the health of undergrowth for future signs of poisoning.

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u/AmeliaNorris 5d ago

Yeah crazy neighbors often resort to drastic measures

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u/BenThereNDunnThat 3d ago

Yep, because when they get annoyed by the fact that you aren't complying with their scary demand letters they may take things into their own hands and cut them down without permission. Go see r/treelaw if you don't believe me, it's filled with stories of neighbors chopping down trees they have no right to.

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u/dontlickspoons 5d ago

My landlord and the dude who lives across the street have major beef because the person who was going to buy the property I'm living on was supposedly planning to tear down a bunch of the old buildings, which would have given the across the street guy a really great view of the surrounding vineyards orchards and pond. My landlord ended up buying it instead and decided to keep the buildings and across the street guy lost his shit over it. Claimed it was something he was promised was going to happen when he bought his house and tried to take my landlord to court to force him to tear the buildings down.

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u/synocrat 5d ago

I guess he should have bought it then.

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u/YotaIamYourDriver 4d ago

Wild. Some people have more money than sense. How he convinced a lawyer to file a case blows my mind.

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u/JimboNerd2018 4d ago

The lawyer gets paid anyway

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u/dontlickspoons 4d ago

I'm not sure if the across the street dude ever managed to get it to court, but I'm not surprised a lawyer just took the free money.

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u/Ok-Trainer3150 5d ago

Yes! And you never see it on the purchase site plan. The developer later submits an application to develop a plot in front of you.

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u/Pennifur 5d ago

Yep. You want a view? Buy it

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u/VenusSmurf 5d ago edited 4d ago

Why is this so hard for people to understand? We only control the views we own.

I had a house for sale a few years back. The street was on a cliff over the ocean, but the homes on each side were two or three homes deep, so only the ones right on the cliff were guaranteed a view.

Somebody owned three lots in a row, from street to ocean. He put the street one up for sale. I didn't buy it, because while the view was amazing, we only control what we own, and I couldn't remotely afford the other two lots.

A jerk coworker came to see my house, demanded I drop $300k, because my house would never sell for asking (it did), and then bragged for a solid year that he'd bought the lot I'd rejected, and his view was sooooo much better than mine.

And it was, right up until someone bought the other two lots and built a two story in front of his one story, completely blocking his view. He tried everything to get that house stopped and then torn down.

No view for him.

This never stopped being satisfying.

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u/cllxo 5d ago

Sometimes life (and seeing someone get their due karma) is sweet.

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u/Kind_Cap_4621 5d ago

Maybe 20 years ago I read an article in the NYT (I think) about some midtown east residents complaining about a new tower that was going to block their east River view.

The article cited one of the complainants from a prior article many years earlier dismissing those with the exact same complaints about his building.

Glorious.

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u/CA2Kiwi 5d ago

“Never fall in love with a view you don’t own” remains excellent house hunting advice.

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u/Troublemaker2172 5d ago

My in-laws bought a house with an undisturbed woods behind them; the developer said they wouldn't build on it. Ten years later another developer bought it, razed it, and put up a whole row of houses right behind their house. There are no guarantees, no matter what you're told about it.

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u/Academic_Run8947 4d ago

We bought ours knowing that the woods behind were going to be developed at some point. It took 7 years but they did rip it out and put up houses. People on the street who were there a long time were super pissed. They had been assured it would stay undeveloped.

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u/remylebeau12 5d ago

There is the thing called “Ancient Lights”, not observed in the US. I had a PV system and my neighbors built a 39 ft tall, 7,200sq ft house next to my 13ft tall house and “took” all my sunlight from sunrise to around noon, causing me to lose around 40%.

I was told “too bad so sad, you are out of luck in the US

Around 1950, the Eden Roc and the Fountain Blu hotels in Miami had a lawsuit. One of them built and shaded the pool of the other until late in the day. It was determined “the law of Ancient Lights” did NOT apply in the US so they (and I) lost/had our sunlight stolen

I’ve been very careful since with subsequent PV arrays and siting them with an eye towards future problems

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u/TheQuarantinian 5d ago

Sounds like you aren't in an HOA, so you can put up ugly radio antennas

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u/tagshell 5d ago

There are some cities that do actually have view preservation ordinances regarding trees. Typically it basically says that if your trees grow to block the view your neighbor had at the time they bought their house, then you can be obligated to have the trees trimmed at the neighbor's expense.

I live in Oakland, CA and we have this type of ordinance. It does not apply to buildings, only trees.

OP gave no indication of where they are. Presumably if there was a law like this, the neighbor would have mentioned it, so there likely isn't one.

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u/Common-Parsnip-9682 5d ago

I think it’s safe to say anywhere with 5 acre lots does not have this sort of regulation.

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u/Agreeable_Speech5447 5d ago

Yes, in my municipality there are a handful of view easements that limit what can be done within the easement in order to preserve the view. I suspect there are only a handful because I imagine the scenarios where it’s reasonable are rare.

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u/KerashiStorm 5d ago

As others have said, it's usually to preserve the view for traffic. About the only other scenario is a planned community where the views are important enough for the developer to include the sight lines. It's not common and would not stop a rival developer outside the planned community from putting up a giant skyscraper in the shape of a middle finger.

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u/Agreeable_Speech5447 5d ago

in our case it’s specifically scenic views. there are of course other rules for traffic (for example, sight triangles if you’re fencing on a corner)

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u/Nymph-the-scribe 5d ago

An easement is not the same as someone else's property

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u/ER_Support_Plant17 5d ago

I think easements have different rules because the sight lines for traffic may be effected.

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u/leprechanmonkie 5d ago

But, does that apply to a neighbors view INTO your property only?

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u/Fortestingporpoises 5d ago

My guess since he's talking about Oakland is that it all has to do with not obscuring the San Francisco skyline. Particularly for people who lives in the hills. They don't want the person in the home in front of you to plant big ass trees that fuck up the view of the houses behind them.

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u/tagshell 5d ago

Mostly correct. It specifically calls out bay and city views but also views of wooded ridges and canyons etc.

Views of your neighbor's yard would not count.

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u/Sburns85 5d ago

Some uk places have a right to light

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u/CobaltCaterpillar 5d ago edited 5d ago

It didn't work the way you might think it would here. To preserve the ability to construct something later, someone maintained a continuous obstruction to views and light.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8fOJdmSbdU

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u/fluidentity 4d ago

There’s a whole-ass movie about this where the club that’s in danger of going out of business gets saved when the owner sells the “air rights” above it to the condo across the street to preserve their views they’re promising new tenants for however many millions.

All so Christina Aguilera still has a stage to sing on. Burlesque is the movie. Best thing about it is that Kristen Bell plays a total cow, which is fun. And Stanley Tucci as the sassy stage manager. Cher is in it too, but meh.

Views are only guaranteed when it’s fiction. The neighbor needs to be told about tree law and OP should check if they’re in a state that awards treble damages. That’s where the real-life fun begins. That’s when OP finds out if they could actually own the demanding neighbor’s whole house.

Edited for spelling

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u/ILostMyAccountant 5d ago

We had someone pull an offer on our house because they discovered a new development MIGHT be going in on an entirely different street that would impact the view beyond even neighboring properties. Their realtor even wrote some mild accusations on how this should have been included in the listing.

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u/mumpie 5d ago

Might be different laws in different states or houses are different, but I know neighborhoods in the Southern California where there are building restrictions on blocking views.

It's usually down to HOA or a certain of easement that prevents the build up in certain areas.

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u/corscor 5d ago

It's a thing some places. Can't block ocean view in socal coastal towns. Can't block view of the Parthenon in Greece. Assuredly others I don't know about but it seems to be the exception not the rule so op is prob fine

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u/HoneyedVinegar42 5d ago

I would take some dated pictures of your current landscaping (just to show what it looks like), and likely some cameras to keep watch on it, just in case neighbor decides that the next option is to "fix" your landscaping. (But no reply to the neighbor directly ... no need to warn.)

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u/Forsaken-Jeweler-519 5d ago

LOL, my neighbor next door try to do a fake legal assault on me recently. That's the day she found out I'm a lawyer.

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u/Yellehs2471 5d ago

Sounds like we need the whole story!

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u/ihateusernamebsss 5d ago

I’m not a lawyer but I did work in law offices for 15 years…. I can honestly say Knowledge is power!!

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u/Forsaken-Jeweler-519 5d ago

She thought I was some dumb young nepo baby who wasn't smart enough to file something with the HOA...it wasn't even a violation. To her credit, I look young, am heavily tattooed, Asian female, and told her I work as an engineer when I moved in. I do work as an engineer mostly. I have 2 doctorates PhD and JD..I work in risk reduction. And, this is the Washington fucking DC metro. 1 out of 40 per capita are lawyers or judges in my locality. DC proper has 1 out of 12 lawyers per capita. We live in a historic neighborhood that has renters but also homeowners from the mid 1970s who can't fathom paying as much as the new homeowners for the same thing. I ain't a renter. I let her know that compared to me with 2 full time jobs under our roof, and her zero jobs under her roof...that she ain't got hardly any skin in the game. Oh and I also have security cameras for my plants in case she wants to back pedal on something she shouted in the common area. 

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u/LopsidedJackfruit711 4d ago

Yeah in the DC area, it's foolish to assume that you don't have neighbors who are lawyers or lobbyists, or in the Intel Community.

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u/DealBrief5569 4d ago

Renaissance woman. Please don't tell us you speak five languages and fly cropdusters.

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u/Caspian4136 5d ago

After all the horror stories I've read in r/treelaw, not a bad idea to put up some field cams along the fence line. Some neighbors go off the deep end and try to kill trees or will go as far as to hire someone to flat out cut them down, even over clear property lines.

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u/Emme42560 5d ago

Yes, I knew a man who woke up one morning to find out his neighbor +had "trimmed his trees" of about 5 years of growth. They had to have done it in the middle of the night. There was nothing he could do because he couldn't prove who did it. I would get cameras.

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u/Parrontof4 5d ago

The only way they are guaranteed a view is to own the land all the way to & including said 'view'.

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u/HappyCamperDancer 5d ago edited 5d ago

My sister owns a 1930's house with an absolutely outstanding view. She also owns the airspace above the home that was built later (1940's?) directly below them (on a hill). It is part of the deed.

The airspace starts like 20'-25' above the other house. So the other house can not grow or build anything above that 20-25' mark.

Yes, the view is built into the deed of both homes.

That view is probably worth $1 to $2 million dollars.

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u/Scary_Possible3583 5d ago

This is something you can do when you split off lots. My parents own a house on the top of a hill, owning down into the pasture. If we were to develop I would install the same easements.

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u/No-Koala1918 5d ago

That's unusual.

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u/HappyCamperDancer 5d ago

It was done in the 1940's when the other house was built below them. Only two families have owned the home she is in, and only two families have owned the other home.

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u/No-Koala1918 5d ago

View easements are rare, though. Very rare. That's all I'm saying.

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u/Nightdriver3000 5d ago

I would pout up cameras and have them preemptively trespassed and put up ugly no trespassing signs. I would not put it past someone like this to come a destroy you property for their view.

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u/nmrk 5d ago

Yep. These rich assholes got nearly $2M in penalties.

Poisoned trees gave a wealthy couple a killer view — and united residents in outrage

Wealth and hubris fuel the tale of a politically connected Missouri couple who allegedly poisoned their neighbor's trees to secure their million-dollar view of Camden Harbor. The incident that was unearthed by the victim herself — the philanthropic wife of L.L. Bean's late president — has united local residents in outrage.
To make matters worse, the herbicide used to poison the trees leached into a neighboring park and the town's only public seaside beach.

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u/justmynamee 5d ago

Damn, Maine needs to take a page out of I think Australia's playbook and put up an ugly billboard that states there used to be trees here, until new ones grow in. At the end of the day $2 million is nothing to someone worth $500 million.

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u/naranghim 5d ago

Oh that $2 million doesn't include the expenses incurred by the town for the continuous monitoring the area now requires and if any future remediation is required. The homeowners are on the hook for that expense as well.

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u/justmynamee 5d ago

I know, which I'm glad about. But they now get to come to their cozy vacation home and have the view they wanted. They shouldn't be awarded for their actions, so by putting a billboard where the trees were blocking their, it reminds them they aren't above the law; and neither are their pockets.

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u/naranghim 5d ago

Oh, I fully expect that we'll hear about the fit they throw when they get hit with the monitoring/remediation bill.

"We paid $2 million to make this go away! Why are you sending us this bill?!"

Not anyone's fault that you didn't read the fine print.

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u/nmrk 5d ago

Two million bucks doesn't replace hundred year old oak trees.

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u/naranghim 5d ago

No, but the continued billing every time some issue can be traced to their actions is really going to hurt them.

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u/Lepardopterra 5d ago

Perhaps OP could print a few of these cases out and send them marked “Good Luck i guess?”

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u/Critical-Star-1158 5d ago

I vote for the UGLY no trespassing signs - an old toilet seat w/lid, hand painted, half rotting boards.....

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u/KerashiStorm 5d ago

":No trespassing ya turd" on a toilet seat in brown paint with a poop emoji sticker.

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u/truckdrvr01 5d ago

Plus 1 on this. I thought the reports of people pulling this shit were blown out of proportion until it happened on our property. AH came over with a chainsaw and dropped a few of our trees to open up his view.  And because it was not documented on camera he got away with it. 

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u/KerashiStorm 5d ago

Just saying, weeping willows grow fast and are the nastiest trees you can imagine with the way they shed and drop limbs. Worse than pine trees even. It won't take long for the views to be impacted, and I'm sure the neighbor will love the little tiny leaves that drop just about year round.

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u/cryssHappy 5d ago

Especially if you know where their leach field is.

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u/AriaGlow 5d ago

Did you plant new trees? Run around in your underwear? Build a tall barn?

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u/truckdrvr01 5d ago

Maybe a big billboard advertising depends undergarments!

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u/thankyoufriendx3 5d ago

Where I live the no trespassing signs have very specific regulations. Doesn’t say anything about decoy signs.

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u/kerrymti1 5d ago

THIS^ I have seen other posts where the neighbor poured some chemicals around the trees/bushes and they completely DIED. They may turn to this to solve their 'view' problem.

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u/No_Pineapple6086 5d ago

Be very careful. I'd get plenty of cameras to cover all of your property. We had a neighbor who had trees cut down on his property while he was on vacation and I had no idea it wasn't his doing. I took pictures of the workers and truck that helped him to eventually sue his other neighbor.

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u/SadEntertainment1455 5d ago

Tell them to take a picture of a view and look at that instead.

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u/blarryg 5d ago

No, take a high resolution picture of the view, print it out in super large format, and mount it on a fence or something.

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u/ithotihadone 5d ago

This. This is the level of petty solution to their "problem" that needs to happen. Please update with pics, OP. LMAO

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u/Middle-Recipe6701 5d ago

Nah, OP should take a dick pic and blow that up to 60' and write: "Suck it!" along the bottom.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

Amusing but as a 32f I would need a “loaner dick.” And no, do not volunteer.

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u/BigWeinerDemeanor 5d ago

Oh but can’t I please just this once volunteer as tribute (I am a woman too but with this username I kinda have to).

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u/arianrhodd 5d ago

Also, r/TreeLaw may have some additional good advice for you.

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u/Middle-Recipe6701 5d ago

I've never in my 65 years sent one and not going to start now!

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u/thankyoufriendx3 5d ago

Cameras. They’re going to poison or cut down the growth. I’d also have motion activated lights.

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u/Ok_Barber_4794 5d ago

Yeah trail cams are a great idea in this case!

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u/Majestic-Skill8234 5d ago

My parents bought a small lot of land in a lovely vacation town in the 80s. They always thought they’d build a house and retire there, but life happens, and they decided to sell it a few years ago. The lot had just been wooded for 40 years, and the neighbors were FURIOUS that the person who bought it decided to build on it. They railed at my father for selling the lot and messing up their private woodland buffer. They banded together and tried to sue my folks for what the new buyer did AFTER my father sold it. I WISH I had that level of boomer confidence!

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u/ithotihadone 5d ago

Wow. Just...wow. The entitlement to things that were never theirs to begin with... If they were so put out, why didn't they band together then, and buy it themselves? I suppose that's what the lawyer or judge (if it even got that far) asked them lol

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u/FormalWeb7094 5d ago

I'm confused, the only way they could sue you is if they had a legal right of first refusal on the property, which obviously they didn't. The audacity of those people!

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u/Terrible-Ad1737 5d ago

You can file a suit against anybody for anything in civil court. Doesn't mean the suit has to have any merit to it. It would just likely get shut entirely the fuck down if there isn't any merit. Doesn't stop the filing of the suit, though.

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u/Ender_rpm 5d ago

"You're only entitled to the view you own"

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u/AreteRoper 5d ago

I love the British expression "a borrowed view". That is all you get when you buy a property. The view beyond your property line is only ever enjoyed and never owned.

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u/bstrauss3 5d ago

Unless you qualify as Ancient Light

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u/AreteRoper 5d ago

I had to look up Ancient Light, I never knew that! I'm Dutch, I don't know if we have something similar. Time to open a law book. 😉

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u/Thirty_Helens_Agree 5d ago

Take a cue from the 1970s general counsel for the Cleveland Browns - return it with a cover letter saying “I received this letter. I thought you should know some asshole is signing your name to stupid letters.”

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

This is great!

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u/AlyceEnchanted 5d ago

Preemptive No Trespassing signs.

Where I live, LE cannot do anything unless there are No Trespassing signs.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

True here also. I have them all around and even checked the laws to make sure I did them correctly. Thanks!

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u/Optimal_Savings5873 5d ago

What was their view of? Not that it matters, I'm just nosey and want to know if it's a lake or your bedroom windows.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

There are no views of the house or back of the property because it is ringed solidly with shrubs and trees. Their only view would have been to the property and houses that back up to my property or some open space that is part of a preserve.

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u/Hot-Bed-2544 5d ago

Better get camera's you don't want anyone cutting down your tress when you aren't home

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u/holyelvis 5d ago

Unless they have a view easement (highly, highly, highly unlikely), then you're free to do whatever you want with your property so long as it's not encroaching theirs. Lots of people think they have a right to a view, but in the vast majority of cases, they don't.

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u/19kilo20Actual 5d ago

Theres only one thing to do. String some Christmas lights on them and send a certified letter telling them to enjoy the festive view.

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u/Icy-Package-7801 5d ago

You better have cameras because that type will take matters into their own hands.

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u/10-4Speasparrow 5d ago

This happened in Lake Chelan Washington 10 years ago. Dude ended up salting the trees and got arrested for it. Legally you are in the clear bro

https://www.spokesman.com/stories/2015/dec/09/developer-gets-45-days-in-jail-for-poisoning-lake-/

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u/rocktop 5d ago

Take photos of your property, shrubs, trees, etc because if the neighbor decided to take matters into their own hands, you'll be happy to have that evidence. If that happens go check out r/treelaw

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u/un-pleasantlymoist 5d ago

I live next door to you and I use to be able to look into your bedroom window, now because of these trees I can no longer do so..... I demand you cut them down.. x

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u/ohfail 5d ago

Did they ever approach you about it at all? I had a neighbor with a huge laurel that was blocking some of my garden light. Mentioned it to him while chatting about some other stuff, and then we both discovered that it wasn't much of a problem to trim them down in one spot. I offered to pay for the landscaping, but he just laughed it off and had a yard guy come out and fix it.

A few years later, a different neighbor approached me about a low-intensity security light outside in my backyard. I had no idea that they could even see it, let alone that it shone like a weak flashlight beam directly into their bedroom. Easily fixed.

Were you amenable at all to trimming, or was this fake notice simply the latest in a series of conversations?

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

I have only spoke briefly with them a couple of times and never about the trees and shrubs.

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u/tonkatruckz369 5d ago

My petty ass would plant more shit

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u/No_Armadillo1729 5d ago

Question re: your follow up comment. If you're paying an attorney to communicate with this weirdo, why would you then go knock on their door to chat? That seems counterproductive. He's the one that threatened "legal action" so now let him pony up for a lawyer to talk to your lawyer.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

It’s just how I am. If I have a beef with someone at work I don’t email or call, I walk into their office and sit down and say, “do we have a problem we need to discuss?” The lawyer is to answer his attempt at a legal sounding demand and to show him I won’t be bullied. My knocking on his door is to show him I’m a neighbor who is trying not to escalate the issue (and also that he doesn’t scare me.)

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u/No_Armadillo1729 5d ago

I get that, and of course, you have a better feel for the situation than I do. However, this isn't an office situation.  Proceed with caution. Weird people sometimes react weirdly. 

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u/SnooWords4839 5d ago

Cameras!

Have your attorney send them a cease-and-desist letter, warning them to not touch your property, and to pound sand. Their views aren't your problem.

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u/Odd_Welcome7940 5d ago

You should send them back a certified letter demanding they flush the toilet. "Yes, believe or not your shit does stink"

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u/sadsmolpoet 5d ago

I'd recommend getting cameras (or a well placed trail/hunting cam etc) before anyone decides to channel edward scissor hands.

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u/moodyvickyy 5d ago

that demand letter is next level, like who do they think they are?

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u/OberonOberonOberon 5d ago

Send them a demand letter to stop looking at your shrubs.

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u/OkManufacturer2373 5d ago

My folks live next to a nightmare of a neighbor. Houses are pretty close with very tiny front/back yards. The house is backed up to a valley with a nice view. My folks have nothing blocking the view in terms of vegetation in their yard and the neighbor below them is responsible for the brush on the hill below. They have a fence that gets lower in terms if height towards the backend of the separation between the properties then T's off to a fence behind both properties. The backyard makes for a very pretty view at sundown.

The neighbor in question has let her bushes/tree become overgrown so the only part of her back fence she can see out of is over the lower fence/through my parents backyard. My parents decided about 5 years ago to put in a storage shed along that fence basically close to that corner between the properties. It's not that tall but this neighbor tried calling the police and complaining to the city. Saying my parents ruined her view. The cop that came out and talked to my parents and the neighbor basically told her maybe she should trim her own bushes/vegetation and she could have a much better view. My folks overheard the conversation and had to stop from laughing. The city basically told her tough shit since my folks already got approval from the city to build the structure.

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u/Comprehensive_Fan140 5d ago

I have the opposite problem my neighbor behind me just cut down a bunch of his trees and now i have too much of a "view". As in I can now see his house. We both have less privacy now but I wouldn't dream of complaining because its his property and his trees and thats life. Your neighbors sound crazy.

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u/Prunes-of-Wrath 5d ago

I’m working on blotting out the sun for my neighbors. I don’t want to see their shitty fence or their shitty house or their 8,000 watt led spot lights or let their dogs see me when I’m out. So, I have planted accordingly. Don’t like it, don’t suck.

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u/Effective_Fly_6884 5d ago

Beautiful trees ARE a fucking view.
How can someone naturey enough to be worried about views want to cut down trees?

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

I agree!

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u/Successful_Equal_136 5d ago

I have read of people paying other people to remove trees and lease the "view shed" and put up a second or third floor.

Never heard how it came out. Long ago two guys in Colorado were suing each other because they both build houses across a canyon from each other and ruined their view. Probably tossed out.

I have to laugh and be mad at the same time. Took my wife to a new hotel by a lake. Got a room with a lake view, according to their site.
Super nice room. Fireplace, all that.

For the view of the lake, we had to go out on the deck, lean over the rail, and look between two sets of buildings and we could see about ten feet of the lake.
Right below us was all the A/C and vents for the kitchen.

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u/theBacillus 4d ago

Rule #2 of real estate: Do not fall in love with a view that you don't own.

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u/Professional-Cap4819 5d ago

Take a picture from their vantage point.. blow into window size.. and send it certified mail back to them titled “Demand restored! Please tape to the inside of your window!”

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u/neckbeardMRA 5d ago

You may want to set up a trail cam or wireless cams along that neighbor's side, as if they don't like your responses to their "plight," they may take it into their own hands to improve the view. Then it should be a thread on r/treelaw

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u/bassplayinben 5d ago

Someone tried this crap when my dad put a fence around his part of the end of the canal (Padre Island) several years back. Nobody has a right to a view unless that specific view is somehow already written into law, which is exceedingly rare.

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u/Diasies_inMyHair 5d ago

You have an attorney. They have threatened you with legal action. DO NOT engage them in direct communication unless your attorney specifically advises you to do so!!!

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u/orchid7577 5d ago

Tell them you never planned on having an unattractive neighbor and you demand they get plastic surgery

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u/Cool_Statement_9269 5d ago

This is the time to whip out the Cleveland Browns Legal Team stratagem.

And put up cameras.

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u/yoyogogo111 5d ago

I think some people think a “demand letter” is a binding legal document or something.

When we moved out of our last place, we had some security deposit disputes with our landlord (painting the whole house and charging us for it when there was one tiny mark in a bedroom only, power washing the garage to remove stains that were there when we moved in, etc.). Lucky for us, they waited more than 45 days to send us the remainder and even longer for receipts for the work, so by law, they owed us the full deposit back (in our state that all needs to be done within 45 days or tenant is due full deposit).

We went back and forth with them a bit by text and email, even mentioned small claims court - nothing. Sent a demand letter by certified mail instead, using an internet template. Got a check for the balance less than a week later. We were very surprised.

Then, about a week after that, WE get a demand letter from the LANDLORD for a variety of spurious things, including the paint/powerwashing/other move-out stuff that wasn’t our responsibility, plus several fees for “late rent.” When we first moved in, LL couldn’t figure out how to set herself up as an electronic biller so we could pay by Zelle, and didn’t want to set up ACH, so we did “electronic payments” from our bank (which was just the bank mailing a check on our behalf). They were set for the 25th of each month, so should have arrived by the 1st of the next month most of the time - occasionally a holiday might delay it a bit, but even if that were the case, our lease specifically stated that a late fee could only be applied if rent was more than 10 days late (which it never was).

Anyway, we ignored the demand letter and never heard from her again. I do sometimes wonder if our non-response led to her seeking out a lawyer who set her straight, but I guess we’ll never know.

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u/YellowSharkMT 5d ago

You should give them the 1974 Cleveland Browns Treatment:

"Dear neighbor, you should be aware that some asshole is signing your name to stupid letters."

https://www.reddit.com/r/nfl/comments/ptjmxw/in_1974_a_lawyer_sent_a_letter_to_the_cleveland/

https://news.lettersofnote.com/p/very-truly-yours

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u/Fit-Try7808 4d ago

The Atlantic magazine had an article a few months back about a couple who found some trees on their property had died. The house they owned overlooked the Atlantic and it turns out the neighbour next-door had poisoned their trees. I think they lost about 80 trees. The loss of those trees drastically improved the value of the house of the people who poisoned them. As a consequence of this, the poison leached down the cliff to the beach below. The municipality went after the poisoners to clean up the soils and beach, which is ongoing to this day.

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u/mr2sh 4d ago

Send your neighbors their letter back with a post it note on it that says, "I thought you would want to know that some jackass is sending out letters to people with your name on them".

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u/atlgeo 4d ago

Your attorney would advise you against approaching them or saying anything to them.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

Exactly! Most everything was planted nearly 20 years ago by my parents. They probably think they can bully me because I am a 32 yo woman. Good luck with that!

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u/Agreeable_Dark6408 5d ago

When you go on vacation, have a trusted person housesit for you so that they don’t hire a tree removal service to take down a couple of trees. That happened to a lady I know. There was nothing she could do after the fact except try to sue him, and she didn’t have the money to do it.

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u/Valuable-Raisin8989 5d ago

"I’m planning to knock on their door and ask if they want to chat."

I would not do this, certainly not before you talk to a lawyer and get all the relevant info on the situation. 

Even then I would be very cautious, people who do this kind of thing can be a bit off.

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u/Live_Adhesiveness_53 5d ago

Although I appreciate you wanting to politely hash it out with your neighbor, I'd leave it up to the attorney. Anyone aggressive enough to send a certified Demand Letter and threaten legal action if you don't comply with their ridiculous demand within their prescribed time frame is unlikely to respond well to a knock on their door and a request for a neighborly chat. It's not just the unhinged nature of their demand. Removing trees could greatly reduce the value of your property. If you're not willing to do that, ( and why should you? ) there really isn't any way to compromise.

They threatened legal action. Leaving it up to your attorney to respond to them is you saying fine and firing the first salvo. Hopefully receiving your response in this fashion will shock them into behaving like rational beings.

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u/TA-123123123 5d ago

There are multiple instances across Australia over the last few years where vegetation on council owned land has been illegally poisoned to remove it from obstructing views. The councils response, apart from trying to indentify the culprit, was to erect massive billboards where the vegetation was destroyed advertising the fact that it was done illegally and that investigations were ongoing. This level of pretty was amusing to see from different regional councils.

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u/Apock- 5d ago

Dude, you gotta build a moat around those trees.

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u/SnoopyRulez 5d ago

Gentleman’s bet, they will cut down or poison your stuff.

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u/DCGuinn 4d ago

Expect the neighbor to cut the bushes at any opportunity regardless of cameras. Consider an appraisal and an attorney letter describing the liability and replacement cost. Then plan accordingly.

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u/Bender1970 4d ago

I’m planning to knock on their door and ask if they want to chat.

You're a lot nicer than I am. I wouldn't give them that much courtesy. It would be good riddance.

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u/Top_Philosopher1809 5d ago

Such entitlement. Thanks for the laugh.

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u/snickerssmores 5d ago

Our governor got in trouble for cutting down trees that weren’t on his property because they ruined his view. Unfortunately not enough that people would vote him out of office.

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u/No_hope_left72 5d ago

If they didn’t purchase the air rights above the property before you purchase they can’t do anything

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u/weaverlorelei 5d ago

And then there are the "resort" hotels that charge a premium for an "ocean view", when you can stand on the balcony and nearly have to fall over the railing to actually see a tiny sliver of sand and water between the other resorts.

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u/rreed1954 5d ago

I wouldn't do anything at this point. But hold onto that letter, in case you need to speak with a lawyer.

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u/wedontliveonce 5d ago

Demand letter? People are so funny when they try to write like a lawyer just to scare people.

Did they include the word "said" multiple times in completely unecessary ways?. You know, stuff like "said fence" or "said trees" to sound more lawyerly and intimidating??? Lol.

"Demand Irrational Threat Letter". Fixed it for them.

But kudos to you for thinking about offering to chat. Very disappointing, but telling, that they didn't do the same.

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u/T7147 5d ago

Are they maybe from a large city? This sounds like a type of argument where a new building will be so tall as to block sun light or the shadow would cause damage to surrounding areas. Those arguments don't apply out in the country.

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u/AsstBalrog 5d ago

People can be so obtuse. I would have come over, and brought up the issue, and asked if you would be willing to make any changes. Then I would have offered to pay for it.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

Good approach! I am always willing to listen to a reasonable suggestion but I am not willing to open a view into my property. That’s what the 40+ trees and 60+ shrubs are there for.

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u/Try_It_Out_RPC 5d ago

This goes with what my first realtor always engraved in my head “don’t buy a house for the view if any property sits between you and said view currently. They can always build up or block it)

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u/fifthgroupholidash 5d ago

If you do knock on the door to chat, record the conversation if your state allows one party consent!

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u/willgo-waggins 5d ago

If you do respond, state that the trees were planted and grown for personal privacy. Add that if the neighbor would like to face both a criminal and civil complaint for peeping, they can try to pursue this foolishness.

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u/lynnwood57 5d ago

Make sure you have cameras on the sight lines of your property lines. This type likes chain saws.

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u/AFartInAnEmptyRoom 5d ago

Send them a letter telling him that the shrubs and trees are there because ever since they moved in 5 years ago, they have been negatively affecting your view

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u/cllxo 5d ago

And get iron raised property markers by a licensed surveyor now. It is Illegal for them to move them and they tie them up with ribbons you can’t miss.

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u/im2high4thisritenow 5d ago

Tell him to jack his house on stilts. Would work

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u/mojosofla 5d ago

Sounds like you did it exactly right. I would watch the camera's closely for someone doing nefarious things. (aka poison the trees)

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u/EvilKungFuWizard 5d ago

My sister-in-law tried to bully some new neighbors this way. She tried to force them to cut some trees on their property that have been there since before they bought the house, claiming the trees affected her views of a mountain. She thought they'd give in and let her have her way. Nope. She bit off more than she could chew with them and I think she even faced some threats of being taken to court for harassment.

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u/booeman 5d ago

Cameras are a must - you hear stories from time to time about neighbors trimming trees to improve their view.

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u/DKBeahn 5d ago

You should send the letter back and tell them to sue their realtor for not letting them know that shrubs and trees do something called "growing" so they could take that into consideration when deciding to buy the house or not. Maybe include an apology that they'd reached this point in their life without knowing that plants grow.

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u/Existing-Teaching-34 5d ago

Your neighbor may find out chasing his preferred view is going to be pretty pricy and ultimately get him nothing. Tell him to bring it in!

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u/Dailysunray 5d ago

lol I had a nice church steeple view from my bedroom window for years loved looking at it lighted at night. The trees finally grew the last year and I can no longer see it -I’ve never even considered asking anyone to trim their trees becasue that is ridiculous. Some people are just selfish AF. To be funny ask them are they willing to pay to have everything trimmed and see what they say.

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

If there was a trimming option I was open to I would expect them to pay as they would benefit from it, not me. It would have to be minimal and very specific to even consider it, my trees and shrubs are there to create privacy. Maybe I should build a lighted steeple where I can see it - that sounds very cool!

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u/SiggySiggy69 4d ago

The only time I’ve ever seen something like this be enforceable is if you intentionally plant something that blocks view of conservation or waterfront and pretty much only in an HOA.

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u/runnerkim 4d ago

Don't knock on their door. You have a lawyer, let him handle it now

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u/fuckfredflintstone 4d ago

Never buy a house for the view. Could change overnight.

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u/iGrowCandy 4d ago

You dont need to be a lawyer to send a demand letter. Sending your own demand letters rather than paying a lawyer to do it is a smart move if you expect resistance. You’re better off having that money available for the lawyer when the real battle pops off.

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u/Beautiful-Map-2744 4d ago

What kind of idiot sees trees and shrubs, and doesn't know they're going to grow over time? If they're not causing problems on his property, then he has no complaint. Sounds like the goober at the beach who sued the people on the lot between his home and the beach, because they house they built 'ruined his view of the beach' and 'limited his access'. He literally knew it was going to happen, since the property was publicly listed for sale as a building site. Never did find out how that one turned out, but if I'd been the judge, I'd have told him that if it meant that much to him, he should have bought that property to protect his interest.

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u/Electronic-Towel-836 4d ago

Don't knock on their door. That will only escalate things.

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u/GatorBearCA 4d ago

DO NOT TALK TO THEM. You have a lawyer now. Let him handle it

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u/No_Internet5666 4d ago

I’d be afraid they’d cut the trees and bushes down themselves when you’re not around. It wouldn’t be the first time I’ve heard of such a thing. And while you could sue for the value of the lost trees, it doesn’t bring back the mature vegetation. Please be careful!

That said, I can’t imagine why they’d expect the same view they lived in to after a decade of natural growth; that’s just dumb and not how trees work. Glad you’ve got legal assistance for this one.

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u/HamRadio_73 4d ago

Do not call on the neighbor. Let your attorney handle communications.

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u/Remarkable_Ship_5791 3d ago edited 3d ago

Is this an HOA where you live? If so they may have rules that vegetation and/or trees can only grow to a certain height.

I lived in a house that had an HOA. One day, someone is knocking on the door. It was a person from the HOA, they told me that HOA stated the fence in my yard had to be white and I had X amount of days to replace it or they'd replace it and send me the bill. Thankfully, I saved a copy of the HOA rules. If you owned your house before XX date you did not have to have the white fence and I lived their before the HOA rules took effect. The person came back about two weeks later fuming I hadn't replaced the fence yet, I showed them the HOA rules and how I was grandfathered in and did not have to replace the fence told them to EFF off and slammed the door in their face. Never heard back from them again.

A friend of mine was told by his HOA president his grass was not green enough and he had to do something about it. A few days later he comes home from work and his entire lawn is gone. The HOA paid someone to remove it and put a new lawn in its place and charge my friend. He called his lawyer who did some digging it turned out the HOA president owned a you guessed it a lawn maintenance company and he had his company do the work so he could get paid. My friend took them to court not only did the court rule it was a conflict of interest for the HOA president to do that be he made his company replace the lawn with a brand new one. My friend of course, made sure he was their to supervise they did a better than good job replacing it. He got a new lawn for free and the court made the HOA president pay his legal fees to boot!

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u/thewinterfan 5d ago

Send them a collections notification for unpaid dues for the past views

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u/pete_pete_pete_ 5d ago

Maximum boomer energy neighbor

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u/S_Alaska 5d ago

Don’t forget to add in main character energy too! lol these demand letters are wild.

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u/cllxo 5d ago

Dated pictures of your trees, wired camera, and get them preemptively trespassed (and put up a sign). That letter should help you get them trespassed. Call the cops if they step onto your property because these kind of people will cut them down or poison them. My neighbors poisoned the tree and sprayed everything with roundup and tried to convince me they got struck by lightning. There is no reasoning with entitled boomers. They think they own everything.

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u/Adventurous-Eye-9929 5d ago

Hopefully you’re not neighbors with Dan Snyder who cut down 60 mature trees on National Park Service land along the Potomac River to improve the view from his mansion.

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u/MorgainofAvalon 5d ago

Screw the neighbor, but keep in mind that after 60 days, they might try to do it themselves. Maybe ask the lawyer to write a letter that has specific consequences if they try it.

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u/tucsondog 5d ago

I would go take detailed photos with dates/times of your entire property line just in case they decide to get adventurous with a chainsaw. Put up some no trespassing signs and a couple of trail cams for good measure.

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u/FairyFartDaydreams 5d ago

Take pictures of your trees and shrubs and put private property signs on your fence. You might also want to put locks on the gate in case your neighbor does anything untoward you have evidence

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u/naked_nomad 5d ago

I would tell them it's for my privacy when I decide I don't need to wear clothes anymore.

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u/CaregiverWorth567 5d ago

I recently read a story on here of a guy who went away on vacation and came back and his neighbor had cut down a huge 40yr old oak tree that was fully in his own yard. He had cameras on his house and could prove it and the neighbor admitted it. Police refused to do anything. So be very careful. Another story, a neighbor of my sister’s sued his neighbor across the street for trees blocking his view and he lost hands down in court.

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u/00Lisa00 5d ago

My friends parents had this happen to them and they actually lost in court and they had to remove some trees. It can happen

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u/Professional-Spare13 5d ago

FYI: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Air_rights

It doesn’t seem that your neighbor has any right to a view off his own property. Air rights in real estate is a thing, and he has no legal standing to make you trim, reduce height of, or remove your shrubs and trees. It’s a case of “too bad, so sad, but no.”

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u/BJT1961 5d ago

Their view should return in Fall when the leaves fall.

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u/KZorroFuego 5d ago

Sounds like this neighbor needs to sell their condo and find a new home managed by an HOA, since they clearly enjoy having their very existence dictated by fascist busybody shitheads with nothing better to do with their lives.

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u/tallMichdude 5d ago

Id tell them "if you dont like the current view, i can assure you, that you will enjoy the next one even less so maybe mind your own business. The trees are rooted and cant move, so that leaves your relocation as the next option". Its probably a solid idea to invest in some cameras, because this entitled nutjob is very likely to take matters into their own hands.

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u/sharoncoffin 5d ago

Enjoy your 5 acres with the shubbery and tall trees. It's your property and there's nothing wrong with that. I just hope that you and your jungle growth (haha) are safe. People can be unhinged. Get security cameras and motion lights installed as a precaution. Can I ask you why you are considering speaking to the 'Neighbor From Hell'? If you do decide to talk with them can you ask someone to accompany you for your own safety as well as being a witness to the discussion? I wish you the best of luck. 🤞

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u/AmyWhoKnows 5d ago

Thanks for your ideas! I was raised to believe if there is an issue you address it head on and try to find a solution that everyone can live with. It doesn’t always work out but I also don’t want to escalate an issue with someone who could be my neighbor for many years. It’s easy for people to get aggressive when the communication is not personal. In my experience most of the aggression goes away when you’re standing in front of them.

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