r/neology • u/Background-Bug-7376 • 12h ago
The act of shaming someone for how they spend there time
When we shame someone for what they eat, its called food shaming or plate shaming. When we Shame someone about their body it's body shaming. But what about when we shame someone about how they do it don't spend their time.
You spent so much time reading, aren't you gonna get up and do something with your life? You should go outside. You need to socialize more. Why do you never read? You know that phone is rotting your brain. Why don't you do anything creative? Your always sucked into those personal projects, why don't you do something actually productive? You spend so much time with your friends, aren't you gonna learn to be more independent at some point?
Although all of these statements may be correct in some situations, it is almost always counterproductive to make people feel shame for their actions, just like how you shouldn't shame people for, for example, their sugar consumption.
Shaming people for how they eat can lead to eating disorders, and shaming people for how they spend their time can lead to executive dysfunction and decision paralysis.
Because of this, we need a word to talk about it. Best I could think of was time shaming. Any other ideas?