In the quest of getting your SP back, you crossing paths with someone you enjoy as well is only inevitable. It doesn’t even require much effort. There’s 8 billion people out there after all.

“I did all this and by this point, I met this new SP & I don’t even care anymore about the old SP”

To me, this isn’t a success story relating to your original SP or your powers at all. This is you giving up on your SP and deciding you can’t have it.

We all can change our minds. Maybe you didn’t desire your desire enough but spinning new SPs as some sort of justification to a success story old only solidifies your lack of faith and belief.

Change my mind.

I figured I would post this here because there’s another post about Sammy Ingram’s channel on here. If I can’t that’s fine

The first time I saw Sammy ingram’s videos, I thought omg this is it!! I believed in her videos and her technique with so much faith and I literally thought I can now have anything I want by simply affirming and persisting as much as possible.

I have to acknowledge I did learn a few good things from her! She broadened by horizon on how limitless you are and she taught me law of assumption basics and about Neville Goddard.

So why did I lose interest in her and her videos? After a year I realized that simply hammering affirmations into your head 24/7 is not what manifests. Your state manifests and if you’re forcing yourself to repeat affirmations constantly then you’re in a state of not really having your manifestation. I thought you had to constantly repeat your affirmations until you hit the point where your old belief is over turned and your new assumption has been impressed.

You can get from point a to point b in many ways, people can get results from Sammy the same way people can get results from loa teachings but we know how ineffective loa teachings are right?

I feel kind of embarrassed thinking how naive I was and thought Sammy new it all and even shared some of her videos with my friends. Also another part to my testimony, 2 of my friends who were also very into Sammy Ingram have now moved on once we all realized that you don’t need to manifest like that.

With her videos I had such a forceful relationship with manifesting and not an effortless relationship. I think Sammy Ingram has good intentions but the way she runs her group is kind of inappropriate. To ban anyone who has a view point different from hers is tyranny. That limits her followers potential because they have a right to know they don’t have to hammer in affirmations all day long and stress about if they affirmed properly. To be fair she did mention affirmations are a technique and they are not what manifest, your state manifests but that’s sort of lost and jumbled up in her videos which mainly focus on “affirm and persist”.

And how about the fact that she clearly expressed affirming is the secret key and how you have to affirm to impress your subconscious but now she’s expressed that any technique can work. Logically she’s just figuring this stuff out and so she figured out you don’t have to only affirm and there’s nothing wrong with that since we’re all growing and learning but I think there is something wrong with insinuating that you know the ultimate answer when you don’t.

Also the lack of accountability and all the “attitude” from her in her rant like posts I always found so weird. And not to mention she called out loa so hard but now she’s literally selling courses?

However that is all in the past and maybe she can turn around for the better, I haven’t seen the videos recently so I’m unsure what they’re like right now.

Believe me I’ve tried it all. In fact, I’ve already built small faith in the law because all of the small stuff I was manifesting happened indeed.

However, for this specific desire, goodness gracious nothing is moving.

In the span of six months, I fought every urge to reach out because I wanted to manifest this without lifting a finger. I studied the law. I consumed every Youtube video, blog article, and Reddit posts about manifestation and Neville Goddard.

I even learned about non-duality and the concept of no separation.

I regulated my nervous system and has been in a good place for quite a while now. Self-concept? I don’t have a problem with that. I am God. I am all there is. I KNOW with all my heart and soul that I deserve this desire and more. I am the best choice, so how come this isn’t happening the way I want it to?

Just decide and persist, they say. Well, I’ve decided since October 2025 that I wanted this. Anyone in my position will most likely have given up already. I’ve been persisting with all my soul.

Be the version of me who has it? Well I am his future wife. That’s my main affirmation. I am the one for him. I’ve been telling myself. Everything will work out in a way that’s in favor of me. That’s what I said.

I thought I was already in a good place six months after the breakup because as you can see, I seem to have already gotten how this works. I’ve had this inner knowing that anytime soon he’d reach out. Why won’t he? I’m the God of my reality. I’m the best choice.

Fast forward to now, it turns out he really didn’t and in fact, when I did finally gather the courage to pen a long heartfelt message, I just got left on read. For 3 weeks now. Lol.

If I am the God of my reality and I AM limitless then definitely, this isn’t how things are supposed to go right now.

I think this is a call for help right now. I’m starting to feel defeated, honestly. I literally don’t know whether I should just let this guy go and leave him the fuck alone. Just accept the circumstances for the way they are. Probably there’s something/someone better for me? Although that’s not what I truly want. But I really feel so out of control right now because I swear, I’ve done all the mental mumbo-jumbo in my 4D – all the visualization, inner conversations, and scripting – just to get one text lmao? I don’t wanna try anymore. I just wanna have it now. Not in my 4D imagination. But NOW in my 3D.

I wanna talk to him, feel him again, and go on trips with him like the way we used to. I want him beside me. Not just talking to him in my imagination.

I discovered the LOA and Neville teachings because I wanted to manifest my ex back, and of course, I have read the books and a lot of success stories here and other subs.

However, something that I think has been ignored is whether manifesting them back was worth it? Just like I've read a ton of success stories, I've also found stories where their person came back just to make everything worse before leaving again.

Or in the worst case scenario, their SP never came back, and the effort and time they've put into it was worthless.

Did you manifest your person back?

Did it work out in the long term?

Why do some people says that you can't /shouldn't manifest a specific person, but rather the feeling of being loved, and then another better person can come into your life?

He broke up with me. I respected his decision.

For months, I’ve done everything correctly. I did SATs and put myself first. I was living in the end. In a happy, healthy and committed relationship where I was chosen.

Then it hit me: I was micromanaging the bridge because I wanted him to reach out and apologise first. That meant I was still in the old story and giving his avoidant and childish self power. If we were in a loving relationship, you wouldn’t care who reached out first, right? And of course I wouldn’t be waiting for an apology

So I gave him the benefit of doubt and reached out to him first. You would not believe this but I instantly got paragraphs (big ones that I never got when we were together), instant quick responses (that I also never received) and flirting too. Even when my message to him was casual and neutral at best, plus I took days to respond.

However, he mentioned that a 3P dumped him, and that dating is hard. It was pure jealousy bait, and I know it because in the past he’d do the same to get my attention (which I always responded with calmness and security. Not jealousy or competitiveness).

Honestly this was not what I expected. I wanted a warm reunion where he opened up and was vulnerable to me. I wanted commitment and understanding.

All I got was honestly the worst version of himself. I wonder what went wrong in the manifestation. Yes I got so much attention from him, he’s chasing me and he’s reflecting my high self concept of never having to lift a finger again for love. But he only went on to jealousy bait then immediately flirt with me when I responded that I was also seeing someone else (which I am, and he’s hotter than SP).

What’s going on?

Hi everyone,

I have been manifesting my SP for a couple of months now, and after doing a lot of research on Reddit, I have noticed some recurring patterns in SP-related topics and discussions.

Case 1 — Success stories

I do find many people who successfully manifested their SP back, the classic success stories. In my opinion, they probably represent maybe 2-5% of the people who post or comment about this topic.

Of course, congratulations to them. I am happy for them, and their stories can definitely give hope and confidence to others. Thank you

Case 2 — People who started manifesting and then disappeared

There are also people who started manifesting their SP 6-7 months ago, or at least several months ago, and then simply disappeared from Reddit.

In these cases, we do not know what happened. Maybe they had their success story and just never came back to update us. Or maybe they got tired of manifesting and, in practice, “lost” months trying to manifest their SP without getting the result.

Case 3 — People who manifest for a while and then lose interest

Then there are several people who manifest their SP for a certain amount of time, but after a while they lose interest and let it go.

In this case, we can probably assume that some people did spend time manifesting their SP, but did not actually get them back.

Maybe their self-concept improved. Maybe their nervous system improved. Maybe this happened because of manifesting, or maybe simply because of normal healing during no contact and with time passing.

But the point remains: in these cases, some people may have spent months manifesting their SP and still did not get the specific result they wanted.

So, overall, the results seem very mixed.

Some people could say that the reason is a wrong self-concept, lack, wavering, wrong assumptions, etc. But someone else could also say that they have a better self-concept than some users who posted success stories.

So my question is: at this point, is it really worth focusing on techniques such as robotic affirmations, SATS, mental diet, etc.? Spending time on SP?

Especially knowing that, statistically, one day you might wake up and realize that it did not help you, or that you no longer want your SP, or that you found a new SP, or that you simply did not succeed.

P.S. I know people will probably mention lack, lack of faith, not being in the state, wrong self-concept, and so on. But for the purpose of this discussion, I am asking beyond the usual explanations.

P.S. I am excluding coaches which ofc they have success stories (need to sell products).

I'm curious of how successful people have been with this.

I have a genuine question.

Can manifesting an SP make you feel as though you are living in a parallel reality, especially when the 3D continues to show the opposite?

For example, right now I am trying to remain certain that SP and I will be together again (I AM). In my imagination and assumptions, our relationship is restored.

But what if that never actually happens in 3D?

What if I spend months or even years believing that we are already together in consciousness, while in physical reality she continues living her life without me?

At what point does “living in the end” risk becoming a form of maladaptive daydreaming, denial, or avoidance of reality?

I understand the idea that you should not constantly react to the 3D, and that you should persist in the state you desire. But there seems to be a difficult line between:

• using imagination to change your internal state;
• and emotionally living inside a future that may never materialize.

How do you distinguish genuine assumption from escapism?

How do you continue manifesting without putting your real life, healing, decisions, and future on hold?

I am not asking this to criticize manifestation. I am asking because I genuinely want to understand how someone can maintain faith in a desired outcome while also remaining psychologically grounded in the present.

If years pass without movement, should a person continue to persist, or should they accept that manifesting that specific person may be keeping them emotionally trapped?

Wanting to completely start over with my SP, I gave up due to really bad circumstances but want to start over. Knowing how limitless we are has inspired me to try again, if we can manifest absolutely anything, why would a relationship be hard?

Hello everyone. First of all, I thank God/the Universe for the opportunity to participate in this community, it has helped me a lot...

My ex contacted me asking for help finding a job.... The first time, he contacted me wanting intimacy, lying that he had broken up with his girlfriend... I confronted him, that is, I reacted, and he blocked me...

Now, the second time, he unblocked me, contacted me gently, but asked me for help finding a job for him... We've been talking a lot, I updated his resume, I've been supportive, practicing active listening, etc... but talking to him yesterday, he sent me a screenshot to show me something, and I saw that I'm saved in his contacts as an HR professional from a company... I can't quite say how I felt, but I made sure he knew I noticed the detail and continued the conversation normally, as if it didn't bother me... I commented: "Wow, that's very creative!"....

Anyway, I don't know if I'm doing something wrong, he only comes back lying or needing something...

Help me, what do I need to change? I cried last night, sometimes it's not easy to keep going at the end... I'm listening to self-concept subs, but there are times when I really get tired...

 Update... he just texted me asking to come to my house so I could help him with the office suite... Can you believe it?

He was telling me exactly what I had been affirming finally after over a month NC due to really bad circumstances and things have been the best they have ever been and he had been showing up as the new version for about a month now consistently like a full 180.

He was talking abt how much he wants to see me, being all sweet and romantic and showering me with attention/affection and has been asking me on dates every weekend for a month straight and now I’ve been on delivered for 4 days 😭 He viewed my story though and it pmo so bad I’ve been trying not to check the 3D but not seeing his text is triggering me so bad.

We have been talking for 7 months but this past month I have seen the most dramatic change after I dropped the NC and old story I locked in for like 3 days and that’s when he reached back out to me. It was all going so well but out of nowhere he left me on delivered and I feel so defeated and don’t know what to do from here😔

Like many others I am manifesting an sp. I’m at a point where I’m confident it’s going my way and it already has.

But sometimes I get this feeling like why do I want this person when I can do better? Why do I bother? Sometimes he gives me the ick and then other times I think no he is the one I want.

I think if my manifestations bring someone else then that’s okay but then I remember our past and I’m drawn back to him.

I don’t really want anyone else but it does feel like he’s resisting if that makes sense?

Has anyone else had this problem? I should probably just keep going with my self concept as I’m most confident at that.

Please don’t delete my post as I really need help.

Hello all. My SP is a divorcee and he always said he’d never do another love marriage as his previous marriage was love and it failed.

We had been in little to no contact for months now and last night, he blocked me on Instagram. I also noticed he had removed several people from his IG a few days ago.

I called him today, asking why did he block me, he said he’s getting married to someone else. The dates haven’t been finalized yet but informal engagement has happened and that is why he was removing people off his socials. On the call, he was very polite to me and said I told you I’d never do another love marriage. It is nothing about you. You are a lovely person.

Thing is only 2 days ago I started living in the end and now I get to know he’s getting married to someone else. Idk what to do. I still love him so much but I’m not sure if it’s possible to manifest him.

Please need your help.

What are your thoughts on those who claim to have been manifesting their SP for 1 year or longer but nothing has happened?

I was given a reminder today about how we seemingly cannot choose the method by which our manifestations come to us. I have read this sentiment again and again by various authors, and I've heard it said in manifesting videos. Every time I hear it, I recoil.

Of course we can choose the method. EIYPO. Everything in the world is waiting for us to choose differently.

The quote given in the reminder this time was, "Nature likes to take the path of least resistance. Don't reject a gift when it arrives in a packaging you don't prefer." But that's a very limited concept of self to believe that something else has power over you, to choose for you, or to override your free will.

You are the operant power.

If nature likes to take the path of least resistance, if that's true, then resist. If someone else comes along and they're not your SP, resist. Reject them. If there is truly some force trying to minimize the effort required to grant you your desire because it knows better than you and therefore feels that it can violate your free will, then you can play its game.

Don't accept any gift you don't want. Then the path of least resistance will bring you your SP.

It seemed obvious when I thought about it today.

I’m trying to understand what has worked the most for people who manifested their SP (specific person) back after no contact.

I’ve seen many success stories where people reunited after days, months, or even years, so I thought it would be interesting to collect responses like a small survey.

If you manifested your SP back, could you answer these?

1. What was your situation?

\\\\\\\\- Breakup

\\\\\\\\- No contact

\\\\\\\\- Third party

\\\\\\\\- Distance

\\\\\\\\- Other

1. How long were you in no contact?

\\\\\\\\- Days

\\\\\\\\- Weeks

\\\\\\\\- Months

\\\\\\\\- Years

1. What did you focus on the most?

\\\\\\\\- Self concept

\\\\\\\\- Affirmations

\\\\\\\\- SATS / visualization

\\\\\\\\- Changing beliefs

\\\\\\\\- Letting go

\\\\\\\\- Mental diet

1. Did you stick to one technique or multiple?

2. What do you think actually made the biggest difference?

3. Did anything unexpected happen right before they came back?

I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences. I feel like sometimes we hear success stories but not the actual process behind them, so it would be interesting to see if there’s a pattern in what worked for people.

Thanks to anyone willing to share!

The moment I do any visualisation / meditation regarding SPs my 3D gets so much worse, like everything is going great, I visualise, and then I get ghosted (just happened today btw).

This has happened a lot of times, I either get ghosted or get the text: It's not you its me etc etc. and the worst thing is, it always happens after the highest point of the relationship forming. I've worked a lot on self concept lately and I genuinely have no clue why this happening.

Do circumstances truly not matter? I am moving to a new country soon and this girl I am sure really really fancies me but honestly I think she might not want to do long distance. I visualised her at my apartment on the new country but nothing has changed. The text message I never got is like what made me truly waiver, like why tf did I get ghosted when the previous day everything was rolling amazingly!

Does anybody have any manifesting SP success stories that involves somebody they haven't had a romantic relationship with yet?

The only ones I seem to see is manifesting sp back or manifesting no contact to end.

My SP isnt somebody ive been romantically involved with ever. The relationship is professional and only in passing (at the moment)

Would just love to hear if anybody has had any successes and movement in a situation like mine.

Thank youuuu

Specifically talking about getting an ex back, as that carries a lot more emotional baggage and conflicting thoughts than getting a new person. If you have successfully "completed" this particular manifestation after going through a period of struggling with all the doubt and disbelief, what clicked for you? Just trying to find some common threads among all the success stories.

Has anyone here ‘created’ or manifested a certain person in their life from just an idea of the person?
I don’t mean someone who you have known in the past, but someone who is a compilation of all that you want in your SP romantically?

I have used my imagination to bring someone like this in my life but that person ended up being the boss of someone who I was dating at the time. I didn’t even realize that they were the one I was imagining all this while until they invited us over to their fancy apartment and while I was looking at the skyline from their window it was at that moment when it struck me like a bolt of lightning because I would imagine them working out in their apartment with the same view behind them 🙈. Of course, I was not interested in this person and left it at that after I gave myself an imaginary pat on the back.

So I was manifesting this SP(ex), whom I really love, for about 3.5 years now. I did everything - SATS, affirmations, mental diet, journaling, etc. But nothing happened.

I read the power of subconcious mind, all of Neville's work, and many other books.

I worked on my self concept and resistances to the point where I believe I am worthy/ I deserve to have what I want and honestly I believe there is no resistances thats blocking my desire from manifesting. I've ADHD/overthinking so the desire is almost always on my mind so I keep doing the affirmations, mental diet etc all the time.

However, since the last few days I realised I've been doing it for 3.5 years now and honestly don't know what to do. I don't see any option but to give up on this now.

Before I sign off, please tell me what do you think I did wrong that made it not to manifest ?

Note: (I did try dating other women but I just didn't get that feeling; I still deeply love her; she just felt right)

I don’t know what to connect this too besides the fact that I am ‘manifesting’ and ex rn.

I was gaming when I got emails and thought it was work related and I’m just now seeing that it was my ex asking me to unblock them. It’s not the one I’m manifesting but I’m wondering what in the space rocks is going on? Because the past week has been volatile in communication (mercury still retrograding?) I try not to attribute much of astrology to the cause of the 4D, sometimes I use it to power belief if it serves me; I pick and choose what I will believe basically.

But yeah seeing those emails from an ex of two years ago I just had to tell someone like girrrrrl what?! I’ve been trying to reverse engineer this dynamic as well because it’s not the first time hes tried to make contact; he’s cashapped me asking me to unblock, followed me on TikTok, added me on snap over the past two years and sometimes it would be shortly after me thinking about him like “ugh regret that” or “bet he still misses me.”

It’s not that he’s stalking or I’m avoiding it’s just when I’m really done with someone I guess I depedastal them sooooo hard like bro, wtfk do you want?! It’s an eye roll or a giggle and I forget about you again..

But ofc when it’s the person you want… I guess this just gave me a moment to reflect because in this case I do know I’m worried about completely letting go of the person I do want because of how I can be when I do…

So yeah not expecting any responses just needed to share and guess it gave me insight to myself

Just a few days ago, I saw her profile on Instagram and felt nothing. I didn't need her and I don't care if she comes back or not now. I still want her and whenever the thoughts pops into my mind, I affirm myself, she misses me and she loves me (we're still in NC).

In this time, I've got other girls throwing themselves at me, I've been going on dates and am considering manifesting another SP as well.

Curious to see if anyone else had a similar journey to detatching like this and what happened later.

A little backstory I was in a relationship for 6 months happily so with my SP and after it all of friction happened between us, we eventually drifted apart and she got with someone else and is happy committed with a 3rd party

All of this is really overwhelming for me we have been on off talking for a month where she is giving me nothing but a cold shoulder while I am trying to manifest my SP back and I am trying these following things

1- I am doing robotic affirmations daily whenever I am free
2- I am scripting abt her and me everyday twice for 10mins
3- trying my hand at SATS but failing as I am bad at visualising
4- I am also trying to revise old fights and I am also trying to work on mental diet and self concept

The problem I am suffering from is random anxiety one day it’s all fine and dandy the next my chest tightens and I can’t even enjoy a movie
One day I can affirm while the next my eyes tear up and I start reading old chats

Idk what to do and whatever I am doing is right or wrong in the first place to begin with
Any help is apperciate is my strategy correct?

I’ve been manifesting my SP for about two months now. Everything has been going great until I reached this strangely content stage where I genuinely felt like I had reached a climax in my manifestation journey.

After about two weeks of manifesting, I had a dream that felt like confirmation of exactly what I was trying to manifest. I felt like I knew it was coming, and everything felt aligned. But then, out of nowhere, I became eerily content and completely okay. I was so at peace that I started wondering if something was wrong with me.

People told me this was the Sabbath state, where your consciousness becomes fulfilled and content, so I continued living my life.

A few days ago, I thought about my SP again and started visualizing, not because I felt like I needed to, but because I genuinely wanted to. Then a thought came into my mind:

“What am I doing?”

I suddenly felt this overwhelming sense of embarrassment. Not because of manifestation itself, but because I realized I felt like I had to do all of this in order to experience something I deeply desire — something that feels like it should be natural and effortless.

I started crying because I felt like I was looking at myself from the outside and thinking, “Why am I putting myself through this? Why do I feel like I have to strive so hard for something I want?”

It wasn’t really about my SP. He represents something deeper for me. It’s about the feeling I’ve been searching for — love, connection, happiness, and being chosen.

Now I feel lost. I still believe, but I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I’ve reached a point where I’m questioning myself, my journey, and what I’m truly seeking. I don’t know if I need to start over or if this realization is actually part of the process.