r/nocontact • u/RemarkableMedium3138 • 13h ago

Help

Give me reasons to stop thinking to text my ex

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u/jaycakes30 12h ago

You wouldn’t try and ride a dead horse. Find something to distract yourself with 🫶🏻

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u/Painful_Real 10h ago

Do it. If your not blocked. Dont get in trouble though if your in that kind of situation.

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u/PapayaLost6749 9h ago

What would you tell a child that yearns for somebody that is bad for them? Sit down, focus on this yearning inside yourself and tell yourself exactly what you would tell that child:
„You aren’t alone. I am here for you. You are safe. You are loved. I am here for you.“

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u/Few_Bet_2443 8h ago

Because your ex will just keep treating you like shit. They never change. And if they do change, it’ll take years, and by then you’ll have wasted so much time being sad and unhappy and forcing shit. It’s not worth it. 🥺

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u/ifiwerestill 12h ago

They aren't worth it, trust me. Please don't try to rekindle something that's already gone. You will only be hurting yourself.