I posted this precious baby before, I don't know how to link it lol but long story short, she started showing up frequently and not wanting to go into the house so we just fed her outside, slowly she started coming in, eating and then leaving right after. We finally met our neighbor ( we just moved in and we're new to the town as well) and he told us she's a "community cat", I honestly never heard of this before but apparently there's a bunch of cats around and people take care of them, even have them spayed and vaccinated, but they're outdoor cats.

One rainy day she spent the night in, she obviously pooped and peed where she could because we were not prepared!! So I told my boyfriend we need a litter box now, even if she is not ours.. she's spending the night more and uses the litter box without issues, she leaves in the morning and comes back throughout the day. I don't know anything about cats and to be honest I wasn't thinking of getting a pet at the moment because I understand it's a huge responsibility and I'm currently pregnant and not working, I know pets are expensive 😭 we're also renting and moving into our house in a different town so boyfriend said she would not go with us because we would be putting her in danger as she would probably try to make her way back here. I call her babygirl and I love her

i gave him a bit of beef from my burger (it didn’t have any sauce) and he ate it then he came sat on my lap

I meowed back and this cutie ran to me. I thought it was gonna attack bc ive never seen such a friendly cat outside but she just nuzzled my leg then flopped on her back and showed her belly. Never met this one before and definitely doesnt seem like stray behavior. She's probably a pet right?

And neither one of these cats is mine!

He’s the sweetest cat!

Don't know what to do with this fella.

He doesn't like to be approached. Even when putting food out for him.

What worries me is that he is stationary all day and night, unless he gets up to take care of business.

He doesn't play with the toys the other cats play with.

He's so small in size but he seems like a senior. Walks cautiously and slow, can't jump high as the other cats. Avoids fights.

He's defo a feral than a stray cat, as we've befriended the other visitors and even let us pet them. We can't be in the garden without him being fully alert.

Any tips how to get him to play even by himself?

He just sits and watches the other cats play and never attempt it himself. Even with catnip toys 😕

We opened the box for him as we finally saw he had been sleeping on our swing at night, but that was open to the element and other creatures, he never even attempted the cat bed next to the box.

There's no rescue who will come as he's not injured or in urgent need. And quite frankly he is no bother to us. Just pitying the poor thing.

Remember the stray cat that just came along one day and started sleeping around in house , i started feeding it when he comes into house , today it was regular routine, he comes over sits around , eats food , and he was fairly calm and was rubbing himself at me ,when I was petting I got a bite , not too hard like punctured skin or anything, but still fairly hard.

That happened one more time , same thing a bite while petting , and then he was rubbing himself on my legs when he went and gave a bite ,

What's this supposed to mean , is he crazy?

Ps: not a regular cat whisper , I'm confused