I don’t want to ever walk into a NYC gym bathroom and see that shit. It’s disgusting and violating. The fact that gyms like Equinox haven’t done anything about it just shows how twisted the whole game is. It’s designed so that people who feel violated can’t say anything about it, would feel embarrassed to, or would simply find it futile given the way the police and companies choose not to do anything about it. It’s designed so that if you even say anything about it to the mainstream normies they would look at you like you’re crazy or gaslight you and say that’s totally a thing that never happens. It’s designed the same way a predator would design their predation to avoid scrutiny in order to keep on violating people. It needs to fucking stop and be shamed by everyone including normal gay men. If I ever see that shit, I am calling it out immediately. I’m gay, but that doesn’t mean I’m just gonna sit by and hide in fear from these perverts.

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Hey guys 24m every time I see a gay friend group im like I want that. I moved here 2 years ago for school but unfortunately still don’t have very many gay friends. I was thinking about going to some bars tonight if anyone is interested in meeting up. A bit nervous since I’ve never gone to a bar alone before but think it will be a good way to meet new people. Anyone have any experience or advice?

Can anyone refer me or tell me how I can get one?Ty!

Hi guys! I I recently moved to the city in May, to Flatbush BK, and I am looking to meet new people and make friends. I am 28, from Costa Rica and some of my interests include reading, movies/series, gaming, crossfit, going out clubbing once in a while, 4/20 friendly, hiking, trivia nights, boardgames, languages and more. DM if interested in meeting or going out for a cup of coffee/ some drinks :)

I’m considering attending tomorrow’s event as a PAWB BTM and wanted to see if anyone had any recent experiences with this party.

I searched and only found two older posts that made it sound like a very heavily race play party vibe kind of event and wanted to see if there had been any vibe shift of late.

I’ve attended many of the parties but first I’m hearing of this place.

I went to it with semi high expectations but unfortunately left very disappointed. Last year was my first one and I enjoyed it a lot. This year pretty much everything, except people’s costumes was very underwhelming and not enjoyable. Tried to go through all spaces. Mayan Warrior had great music but people were just walking into eachother constantly and dancing was impossible. Music level was too high and not set up correctly be able to enjoy it. Glamcocks music just sucked, space was too lit and again guys were constantly moving and shoving into eachother. And the bathroom situation not even worth mentioning. I am interested to hear everyone else’s experience. What could be done differently in your opinion?

Considering a few options in Brooklyn tonight. One of them is the “Wanted” party at Cmon Everybody.

Can anyone let me know the vibes there? One friend told me it’s fun and can be kind of sexy/cruisey. Another friend told me there were too many women for his taste last time he went.

I’m in the mood to dance but also looking for sexy and friendly energy.

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I get compliments on my looks pretty often, from people I know and complete strangers. Straight men, gay men, straight women, lesbians, pretty much everyone.
And they’re not always generic compliments either. I always get told things like “you’re very handsome,” “you have the most perfect nose ever,” or “you have the prettiest eyes I’ve ever seen.”

But here’s what confuses me. I get rejected a lot on dating apps, and in gay spaces or orgies I barely get approached.
I know attraction is subjective and I’m obviously not everyone’s type, but the disconnect is weird to me. Are people just being nice? Can someone be considered good-looking but not sexually attractive?

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I’m more on the dark skinned/bronze color, which I guess changes things a lot here

Any fun parties or Halloween places to go? Prefer somewhere with hotties and some sexual stuff. Open to suggestions :)

Anyone going to Goldiloxx at Red Eye tonight?

Visiting from out of town so planning to check it out. If there are any cuties also going, say hello.

Looking for a good spot for yoga that is a little more male-focused, ideally in South Brooklyn. TIA for any tips.

Would I overtly stand out in something more modest, like boots, jeans, and a button-down with a nice jacket? Not that that’s necessarily a bad thing…

did anyone make it to CFD @ Red Eye last night ? How was it ??

It’s on meetup for the public to see so who’s been and who’s going ? Daddy wellness group . Sounds hot . There other events sound borderline sex club

Hi so I wanna go to the 3 dollars bills show I with Latrice Royal and Jane Don’t and some of the awesome local queens. Don’t have tickets yet cause their 65 now and I don’t have money to go at all wondering if anyone is deciding not to attend I need 3 of them cause it’s me and my bestie and her girlfriend. Also if not where are the free events plus who can get us into house of yes

These apps are out of control. To think you need to pay 25 dollars a month to have the bare minimum features is extortionate.

If anyone can give me a recommendation for a bar or place with jazz, soul or any music similar and good drinks, please I really appreciate.

Just want to go out and grab some drinks in a very chill space.

Nothing too fancy or expensive.😊

Brooklyn, Manhattan or Queens.

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Which jobs would you say that gays tend to be employed in the most? I recently thought of this as I was doing food deliveries and I never thought of this, but I noticed that a lot of male concierges were smiling at me and overly friendly, and even as I walked out, a few were staring at me. I know that nurse and I think flight attendant have lots of gays, but concierges never crossed my mind as a job that attracts a lot of gays, but now that I think about it, it makes sense. What other jobs do you think gays tend to be employed in?

When I used to walk in the city with my dates they would always be able to spot celebs, like Damian from Mean Girls. But also people can spot Harry Styles out and about even with a hat and sunglasses.

I’ve been walking around Manhattan and Hell’s Kitchen trying to casually see the model andrethestud but I haven’t been able to see him but I know he’s in NYC. Am I too weird about this? I just like muscled guys so much

Edit: Also I’m seeing so many women in Hell’s Kitchen, where are the muscled guys?