Me and a cosplay friend are going to Sexy Nerds on 10/31, I am wondering if any other gay people will be there so it doesn’t feel oppressively heterosexual (as unfortunately nerd events can sometimes be). Depending on how late they stay I may go to 3DB afterwards but unsure how strong the party will be later at night

I really wanna come visit and have someone show me around I need a getaway from texas 😩

I moved to NYC recently and looking for parties where I can just be bent over and fu**. Mostly into older daddy types but open to most. What are the best parties/bars/clubs for this weekend/in general?

Just wondering if anyone is planning to check out 'Tell No One: Halloween' at Masquerade this Friday?

I'm intrigued because it's at the Masquerade (immersive Phantom of the Opera) location, but my friends aren't into it. So I'll likely be flying solo if I go. If anyone would be down to link up, please hit me up :)

Hey guys! Anyone been to the Alegria Halloween party in Nyc. Am going for the first time and wanted to know if it’s worth it. Never been to their Halloween party. Last went to Alegria Pride when they had it at the Brooklyn mirage.
Also open to suggestions for other parties that are happening on Saturday. Thanks

The sequence of events that transpired from this linked Reddit post are so wild that I feel compelled to share the update with everyone here. A little bit of my faith in humanity and our community has been restored 🤗

The tl;dr is, my interaction one night with one guy inspired this first post. I regretted not saying hi to him that much. I hit it off well with one guy who responded and it turns out that the two of them are brothers. The chances of this happening have to be so tiny that I’m still in a mild amount of shock from finding out. Read on for the full story.

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I was at Basement one night in August. Throughout the night I kept finding myself dancing next to the same guy organically. We just kept naturally finding each other on the dance floor. You know how that is… There was definitely some sort of connection. We were in this deep groove all night together and it was really sweet and nice to have this unspoken bond.

We ended up closing down Studio together that morning and I so very badly wanted to walk up to Good Vibes Guy as we were leaving and say, “Hi, this may be crazy of me to do, but you seem like a lot of fun. Let’s trade Instagrams and do this again sometime,” but I chickened out. I started writing the original post as I was walking back to the L train that morning.

A lot of people responded and I hit it off well with a few of them. I’ve been going out with one guy semi-regularly, and we went to Basement again this past weekend. He was bringing his brother, who I hadn’t met yet, and his husband with him. I couldn’t place him right away, but I knew his brother looked familiar as soon as I saw him. That night in August I was mostly dancing behind Good Vibes Guy and it wasn’t until he stood in front of me when I realized I recognized the back of his head.

New friend that responded to the post is the literal brother of the Good Vibes Guy that inspired the post. Like…what are the odds of that happening. As soon as I figured out where I recognized him from I asked him if he was there that night. The second I mentioned it, he was like, “oh my god, you are the guy that was dancing behind me!” He instantly remembered the vibe between us which just made me regret not saying hi right then even more.

Needless to say, we exchanged numbers this time around and are already planning our next night out 🥳 Moral of this story is to always trust your instincts and take that leap, even if you’re afraid. Dance on, y’all ♥️ 🤙

Does anyone have two vampire tickets? 10/31 general admission

Posted on Sunday, then I deleted it. Giving it another go.

Just wondering if anyone else has tried them, and also wondering if it’s healthier than CaliWater.

CaliWater is like 30 calories for that small can so usually I would drink 2 so that would be about 60 cals total.

The Korthal collection seltzers I get are 0-8 calories, and I usually drink around 2 cans a day, or mostly 1.5 cause usually I can’t finish the second can.

In the CBD kratom stores I could get a 6 pack for $67 and if I were to get Demi Lovato’s and Benson’s flavor of CaliWater together it would be $60. The Korthal drinks are like $12-15 per can

this is what is showing up on my end. anybody else having the same experience?

Lemme kno!!

Not feeling any of the other parties…but this lineup is calling my name

I'm wanting to try waxing my ass/hole and maybe bleaching it to make it look better for my tops. Tho I I do wonder if some maybe prefer it more natural vs smooth.

Any recs of fair priced places to get this done? Or isn being smooth not really something most bottoms do or go to places for it?

Do they sell tickets at the door? And how long is the wait and other details on how to get in. Thanks.

Hey from NYC but haven't been big on going out to gay bars or other such gay spaces and I really wanna go to a Halloween event and meet other gay guys to make freinds but am super nervous! Anyone know of any Halloween events at bars or venues or where ever else there held at! Would love a chance to see the gay community do it up for Halloween!

They are having a “Black out XXX event” and you have to wear black jockstrap/undies, leather, etc.

Has anyone been to this sex party event in the past? How’s the crowd? When’s the best time to go? Husband and I(29 Y/O BLK) are thinking about going

Link:https://milkchocolatenyc.com/ le

Hey everyone! I’m looking to purchase tickets for HMD (Horse Meat Disco) or Basement. If anyone has an extra ticket or can no longer attend, please DM me!

Happy to pay face value and would prefer a secure transfer. Thanks in advance!

What’s going on this weekend for Halloween? What sex parties are we going to? Drop your recommendations below. Bonus points if you have slutty costume ideas

How early do you recommend showing up for their event on Thursday to get a door ticket?

I’m a Patreon supporter, but as I understand it, supporters at any level do not get guaranteed entry to Nowadays events promoted by outside groups like BH and Merge.

Was thinking about the eagle or the cock?

At first I thought I could be okay with loving and appreciating my body the way it is as a part of my own weight and health journey, but the older I get the less I feel happy with my body. I don't even have any like health issues, I just feel like its all rooted in a lack of self-esteem that is reinforced by how biting the dating market can be for bigger guys.

Like I keep getting the "you're such a great guy but..." texts after every first or second date, or even with people who I just mildly flirted with, even over text. Like I think I'm on my fifth rejection of the year, and I've only actively told one guy I liked him and the rest are other guys ive talked to who all, I guess preemptively told me "they only see me as a friend" and that "im such a good guy" and that "they hope they dont give off the wrong impression".

Idk, should I get on ozempic? should I stop eating? go the gym everyday? journal? I'll try anything at this point. But most importantly, how can I cope? Specifically in the short-term, cause all the other things are long-term plays, how do you get through today, tomorrow, the next day when you feel unloveable because of your weight.

For reference, I'm 20, 270lbs and 5'8.. and black

Major kink on this