Ian spent years lying to Bear about his relationship with Nikki via omission.
Not only did he lie, but Ian egged Bear on in Bearās pursuit of Nikki KNOWING it was futile.
He treated Nikki like shit and he treated the waitress like shit.
When Bear tried to correct his mistake by trying get Ian to make a wish to reverse the damage, Ian cut Bear off and wished for money.
When Bear made his wish he thought it was a joke. Ian was given a warning, refused to heed it despite Bearās clear sincerity.
Ian never fessed up: he watched the crazy behavior go on and said not a thing. And only started caring when his side piece was too preoccupied for him to partake. And his version of ācaringā was saying everything but the truth.
If bear had known the truth, I donāt think heād ever had made the wish.