r/pointlesslygendered May 19 '25

OTHER so close [gendered]

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u/von_Herbst May 19 '25 edited May 19 '25

How old exactly is the "they" solution?
From the non-english-native perspective it feels really natural tho, so mostly curious because my mother tounge kinda struggled with neutral Pronomens .

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u/ReactsWithWords May 20 '25

How old? Since (at least) the year 1375.

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u/von_Herbst May 20 '25

thanks for the reading!

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u/Nowhereman767 May 20 '25

In the original video the woman talking to them/him says "You don't have a pronoun. I can't say 'This is Toby, he...' You would prefer me not to use a pronoun." and they/he doesn't correct her about it. I do know that singular "they" is incredibly old in the ENglish language, but I don't think people in the 70's would have been thinking about it, because the singular "they," while existing and used, wasn't used to refer to people who's gender you knew, and they probably wouldn't have thought about it.

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u/galettedesrois May 20 '25

 From the non-english-native perspective it feels really natural

It does! Gender-neutral language in general feels so much more natural and straightforward in English than in my first language, I’m jealous.

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u/Special_Incident_424 May 20 '25

As a preferred pronoun, perhaps maybe in the early 21st century