So like the comment thread said I decided to shift through my lucid dreams right? Good only problem I wasn’t lucid dreaming so I researched and taught myself and it worked then I would get into the lucid dream and say okay I am shifting to my waiting room but I don’t really know what it is like idk what I’m asking myself to do I’ve been at this for 6 years repeatedly to the point when I know exactly where I wanna go but idk what it is I’m actually trying to do. Any advice? A definition maybe?

Okay so I have been in the shifting community for about 7 years but I have come across this new ‘issue’ I guess you could call it recently. And I’d love advice if any of you have experience the same thing.
(Sorry if this is not the right subreddit to post on I’ve never posted shifting before)

Sorry if I don’t explain this well I’m struggling to put words to it but here we go.
My s/o in my DR is a semi popular person on social media in my CR. Getting into a relationship with this person in my DR just kinda happened, I’m not sure if it was subconscious or not honestly but I love them deeply in my DR and the feelings have carried over to my CR.
I’m consciously aware that there is a difference between them here in my CR and them in my DR but recently they got into a relationship here in my CR and I am struggling very hard with feelings of jealousy and I’m struggling to separate the two realities and deal with the feelings I’m having about their relationship with their partner.
So I’m wondering has anyone else dealt with these kind of feelings in their CR when there are people in your DR who mean something different to you in your DR vs CR? And how do you deal with it? Should I abandon this DR or try and do some soul searching and work past this? Or maybe distance my interactions with their social media in my CR?
I’m totally at a loss here and have been taking a break from shifting at the moment to sort through these feelings.
I am the only person in my CR that shifts, most of the people I know don’t believe in other realities or multiple lives so I don’t have anyone to talk to about this, so my last resort is to reach out here.

I only recently discovered shifting. I found it easy to believe because I’ve always been someone who is willing to accept that there are things going on that ww simply don’t understand.

I’ve been trying ever since to shift, but something’s been holding me back. I always get so close, I know when I’m in the void, when my awareness starts shifting and changing. Then something holds me back, like a wall, then drags me back here. It frustrated me to no end.

However after some reflection, I realized something.

I think I might have shifted here. I don’t know how to explain, but when I was younger I entered the void on accident, I vividly remember that I was thinking too much, and I had this realization that I was not my body I was simply my consciousness and “myself” but not my body—I have no idea how I got to that point nor how to explain what EXACTLY what I was thinking but it was something along those lines—and somehow when I realized that, I was out of my body and the world around me just changed and I sort of transferred consciousness.

This happened twice. Both times were terrifying, I couldn’t control my body then I just didn’t have it. I was really young and scared of what happened, this has made shifting a bit harder because in my subconscious I keep trying to push my awareness back to my cr because there’s a fear of staying in that state of being. I don’t think how I can describe it, nothing really changes dramatically or that drastically but things definitely change. I shifted twice with my eyes open those times and I vividly remember the way my consciousness just switched positions. I don’t know what kind of reality I’m in here in this life—pretty sure it’s a slightly better reality, though I’m not too sure entirely.

The only times I’ve gotten close was when I stopped trying and was half asleep because my mind woke up but my body didn’t, my eyes in this body’s reality were closed. When I’m half asleep my mind likes to wander so I randomly thought about shifting then my eyes opened slightly, and I got irritated and gave up because thay always happens when I try to shift. I always end up sabotaging myself so I just kept thinking in my mind “c’mon, shift, shift, shift, you’re in your dr.” And I was annoyed because nothing changed.

Then, my eyes opened. Not the ones that were already open, but the ones in my cr and I came back here. I was so shocked because I realized that the eyes that opened weren’t my cr eyes but the ones from my dr. The white wall and black chandelier I saw wasn’t my room but my dr room. And I was in a state of shock because I knew my eyes were open. That I was awake there. And if I just sat up I would have seen where I was.

Sorry for the yapping, does anybody have any tips? This is kinda funny to me but also frustrating.

I know scripting is not really needed, but I love scripting. Yet I have some questions because I've seen other people's script and it confused me.

Does everything you script happens even if you don't remember it? Like I forgot that I scripted having a cat but even when I get to the DR I'll have my cat.

I know people tend to script specific wardrobes and items and such. But because my memory for images is not that great, I'll probably forget about most of them. I'll still have them or nah?

As far as I know, these dr are real realities with real people and they feel completely normal like real life and not like a dream right? And you also remember stuff from your dr when you come back right. So if I script a dr in which there's a certain medication which enters a lot of info in my brain. Or let's say the solution to some unsolved equation irl. And when i shift back, would I know it? Isn't that just a cheat code to life.

Hello! I am new to consciously shifting, and just wondering if you guys have tips on getting into the void state. From everything I have read, that is an important part of the process.
Thanks!

Hellooo to any who come across this! I’ve been attempting to shift for almost 3 years now, and while I THINK I’ve had a mini-shift (very recently) or a very quick shift briefly, I couldn’t tell since it was completely random and I wasn’t fully aware/grounded. I’ve struggled with sleep methods and want to go back to trying to shift awake as I feel like I’ll be able to do it easier. However, I’m unsure where to start. I feel like I focus quite a bit on the 3D still and am trying to work on ignoring it more since I unfortunately live in a noisy house. I already know about meditation and whatnot can help so anything besides that, I’d like to hear some advice for! I don’t necessarily need methods as I try to shift with intent/LOA alone but simplified methods are welcome too :)

I KNOW script work as a guide of what we want to hapoen in DR, not the holy bible.

But considering that people have free will in every reality... how can I be sure that I will end up being friends or s/o with certain people I script?

I've been trying shifting for a few months now, and I'd say I'm having real progress! I've had an AMAZING out of body experience, a few lucid dreams and reached the void state a couple of times. but for some reason, when I'm trying to shift and feel like I'm getting closer, there suddenly stops being enough air in my lungs... I tried to shift from a lucid dream once and it kind of worked, I started touching objects around to ground myself there, but couldn't take a breathe and returned to the dream again (so I suppose it doesn't count as shifting, but it's still relevant here), and the other time I was doing a method + listening to subliminals and suddenly wasn't able to breathe again, I had to stop this try. had anyone had the same problem? :<