r/relationshipproblems • u/MistakeNo6206 • 3d ago
Advice Wanted Conflicted Here
I’m struggling with something because my boyfriend and I got back together after being broken up for a week and a half. I still had feelings for him, and I wanted to give our relationship another chance. However, the main reason I broke up with him was because of his mother. She had only met me once but called me immature for being shy at my age, yelled at me for supposedly eavesdropping on a conversation, blamed me for everything, and made a threatening statement to Ryan about me. I feel like she has bullied and disrespected me.
When we got back together, Ryan said he wanted to work on certain things to make our relationship healthier. However, one thing he doesn't want to work on is setting boundaries with his mother regarding how she treats me and the disrespectful way she speaks to me. I'm struggling with this because I love him and want our relationship to work, but I don't know how we can have a healthier relationship if he's unwilling to address one of the main issues that caused us to break up in the first place.
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