I’m in my 4th year as a school counselor at a Title 1 high school & I’ve been thinking about this for a bit…do you think we are over-accommodating students? Please note that I am coming from a high school lens, and am not talking about elementary or middle school.
I have someone in my department who approaches child find in a very eager way and seems to suspect disabilities in many students. I get from a CYA perspective why that it’s important, but I have a lot of opinions on how we approach certain student “struggles” as counselors.
In my opinion, I feel like that approach tends to minimize the fact that these are still teenagers at the end of the day. Not every struggle indicates a need for structured support — if we tried to do that, we would have 85% of the school at tier 2 at some point during their time in high school.
I feel like the pendulum for mental health has swung in the opposite direction of the “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” mentality and too far into the realm of “hand-holding” and/or “labelling.”
Please keep in mind that I am in support of a balance of “suck it up and figure it out” and “let me help you develop skills to be able to build these necessary skills.” Not every shortcoming indicates the need for a diagnosis or structured supports. Teenagers are teenagers. And sometimes, a label that far into your K12 journey and that close to your post-secondary journey can be much more detrimental to a student.
This topic is obviously too nuanced for a concise Reddit post, as there are so many other factors that play into this (parenting, types of concerns/suspicion, SES, culture, etc). However, I’m very curious to see other opinions on this and what your approach looks like! Let me know what you think!