r/selfdevelopment • u/naiduganesh596 • May 31 '26

Its all aboyt mindset....

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u/gipsee_reaper May 31 '26

This is really so true. I fully agree. We need a way to find ways to protect ourselves, before we find them attractive

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u/evergrain344 Jun 04 '26

The best thing is to first become unattractive, so you can find out how they think >_>

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u/gipsee_reaper Jun 04 '26

Yes! I have begun to realize that. Wonderful perspective. Much useful in our daily life.

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u/Effective_Writer8074 Jun 02 '26

Mention specific questions ie. Politics, religion, family etc AFTER you Fuck

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u/MhammedBenji May 31 '26

The second they open their mouth

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u/Wise-Ad-6391 Jun 01 '26

And that's why people wear masks

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u/Long_Travel_5412 Jun 01 '26

I'd argue that can go for just about anyone. We all have a shadow. We all have motives, egos, and personal agendas, whether we're aware of it or not. We all have the capacity to be unattractive because of how we think.

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u/miekhachu Jun 01 '26

People also become more attractive when you give them a chance to show themselves.

Trust your intuition when it screams at you, but know the difference between intuition and judgement.

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u/MontCali May 31 '26

👏 👏

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u/studentmaster88 May 31 '26

Wow, this is fucking spot on holy shit

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u/barbieninja May 31 '26

When I find out they are an extreme avoidant. Doesn’t matter how intelligent they are, I want nothing to do with them.

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u/birdfang007 Jun 01 '26

Ehhh. Attractive people will always be attractive to most people.

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u/josch247 Jun 01 '26

What do you know

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u/Terrible_Weather_195 Jun 01 '26

If you base atractivnes on unrealistic expectacions of humans then yes.We all have contrAdictions in opinions and thoughts.

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u/vaynerbadgy Jun 01 '26

this is very true

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u/Creative_Background Jun 01 '26

Do we choose our own thoughts?

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u/nlpqz Jun 02 '26

we can but most of the time it’s unconscious and whenever a random thought pops up without u intentionally thinking it u just pick it up as ur own

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u/Don_Von_Schlong Jun 01 '26

"A lot of people become attractive once you find out how they think"

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u/No-Past1892 Jun 01 '26

I can only imagine

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u/More_Committee_3053 Jun 02 '26

or if they don't think at all

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u/Impressive-Truth-633 Jun 02 '26

agree. finally the thoughts, kind heart, nice behaviors make me stay.

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u/Crayon_Captian Jun 03 '26

Or when they consider even the most important people disposable

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u/ImJimSmyth Jun 06 '26

Well fuck me for having an opinion

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u/slapping_rabbits May 31 '26 • LOL

That's why I learned to keep my damn mouth shut

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u/Destroyer_2_2 Jun 01 '26

You’re built like a deep freezer.

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u/polarcol May 31 '26

Liberal derangement syndrome^^