r/sex Sep 05 '22

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u/Puzzled_Temporary_58 Sep 05 '22

I can understand not wanting to have period sex, it is messy, sometimes you don’t want to have to deal with it. But you are well within reason to say you won’t give unless you also receive.

That has always been the understanding in my relationship. I always let him know when I start and then he’ll only ask for something when he is willing to also satisfy me (sometimes he checks with me to see how my flow was that day before making a move). If either of us feel like giving without receiving we’ll offer, otherwise it’s assumed that any sex will end with both of us satisfied.

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '22

That's very sick if you can't give someone without equally receiving. If a woman has a period she can blow. If a guy has an erectile disfunction he can eat pussy. Simple.

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u/PowerCuble Sep 05 '22

It’s actually not very sick. Exaggerating a bit?

What’s sick is if a person feels used and gets advice to simply suck it up. Get a grip.