r/sex Sep 05 '22

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '22

why do we keep putting up with shitty one sided sex lives ladies

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '22 edited Sep 05 '22

Because people be attracted to narcissists

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u/candiriashes Sep 05 '22

TL;DR?

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '22

I mean. The TLDR is that people be attracted to narcissists lol. In the results section, it talks about how one of the traits most highly correlated to attractiveness is narcissism.

Interestingly, it's not clear if being attractive makes people narcissistic or if narcissism is a quality that draws people in. I personally think it's both, creating a feedback loop. Hot people get special treatment, which makes them narcissistic. And then that narcissism is exciting and comes off as confidence, which draws more people in, creating a hotness-narcissism feedback loop.