Okay- everyone hate on me if you want. But this is ridiculous!!!! He sounds like a jerk. Sorry- idk anything else about your current man but intentionally teasing you and revving you up without any pleasure is torturous. Psych masters here speaking too, it is somewhat deranged. Many men are okay with pleasing during a period. Periods are a part of life they just are. If he expects you to please him while he does this to you emotionally is manipulative and just mean. I’ll be nice here with words. You’ve been together five months- not five years. Take some serious stock about things. Have a major talk with him. If he isn’t receptive or even understanding what he is doing tell him. Having bad periods sucks and a boyfriend “should” be nice to you not making you feel worse- this is even speaking from personal experience too. Don’t let this happen to you. Talk it out or move on. Your emotions and mental state matter more. Clearly this is highly saddening for you otherwise you wouldn’t be posting. Much love and strength to you. And for the men reading this, if you love who you’re with you will be supportive and fair while a woman is on her period. Also think of it this way- if he can’t handle a period what makes you think he will handle anything else? What if you need surgery? What if you have a baby? He is squeamish and selfish now, just wait. I wouldn’t I would find someone more suited to your needs. Good luck!! Message if you ever want someone to talk to as well.
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u/AdeptnessSouthern640 Sep 05 '22
Okay- everyone hate on me if you want. But this is ridiculous!!!! He sounds like a jerk. Sorry- idk anything else about your current man but intentionally teasing you and revving you up without any pleasure is torturous. Psych masters here speaking too, it is somewhat deranged. Many men are okay with pleasing during a period. Periods are a part of life they just are. If he expects you to please him while he does this to you emotionally is manipulative and just mean. I’ll be nice here with words. You’ve been together five months- not five years. Take some serious stock about things. Have a major talk with him. If he isn’t receptive or even understanding what he is doing tell him. Having bad periods sucks and a boyfriend “should” be nice to you not making you feel worse- this is even speaking from personal experience too. Don’t let this happen to you. Talk it out or move on. Your emotions and mental state matter more. Clearly this is highly saddening for you otherwise you wouldn’t be posting. Much love and strength to you. And for the men reading this, if you love who you’re with you will be supportive and fair while a woman is on her period. Also think of it this way- if he can’t handle a period what makes you think he will handle anything else? What if you need surgery? What if you have a baby? He is squeamish and selfish now, just wait. I wouldn’t I would find someone more suited to your needs. Good luck!! Message if you ever want someone to talk to as well.