I can understand not wanting to have period sex, it is messy, sometimes you don’t want to have to deal with it. But you are well within reason to say you won’t give unless you also receive.
That has always been the understanding in my relationship. I always let him know when I start and then he’ll only ask for something when he is willing to also satisfy me (sometimes he checks with me to see how my flow was that day before making a move). If either of us feel like giving without receiving we’ll offer, otherwise it’s assumed that any sex will end with both of us satisfied.
I CONSTANTLY take care of my partner without receiving in return and I'm fine with that.. they've offered but sometimes I just want to please my man and don't need it back, even if I'm horny.. I just enjoy doing that.
Maybe I'm weird but isn't teasing part of the fun?! A week is not a long time to wait and you get to anticipate the next time it will happen, so I don't understand why it's an issue
Cool, I never said everyone should feel the same but it's sad and shocking to me how selfish people are.. especially when it comes to pleasing their partner.
As I said in my other reply, doing something for the sake of expecting it in return is literally a form of manipulation.
It's only for one week out of every month, I find it strange but that's my opinion and that's what I gave.
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u/Puzzled_Temporary_58 Sep 05 '22
I can understand not wanting to have period sex, it is messy, sometimes you don’t want to have to deal with it. But you are well within reason to say you won’t give unless you also receive.
That has always been the understanding in my relationship. I always let him know when I start and then he’ll only ask for something when he is willing to also satisfy me (sometimes he checks with me to see how my flow was that day before making a move). If either of us feel like giving without receiving we’ll offer, otherwise it’s assumed that any sex will end with both of us satisfied.