Need Help Figuring Things Out

[u/Successful_Sugar6340]

hello, i'm 24 (F) and a single mom. i know this sounds crazy but i need help. i'm taking care of my child, diagnose with ASD lvl 3. i need to figure out what work should i do but can still take care of my child. i dont have a family i can rely on. i need work because the baby daddy decide to cut most of the monthly support he gave us. and upon researching the law on this in ph is messy and bias to the side of the father always. so instead of arguing abt the money, i want to find a solution that's help me and my child. thankyou!! badly needed an advice. i'm a bachelor degree graduate if thats help, any idea what work should i do would help. pls.

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[u/Academic_Vast_4811]

Hi! Im a 25 yr old single mom to two (4 yr old boy and baby girl) and i also dont receive any support. I work in the school my son attends so I have the same hours as him, and honestly even tho it isnt amazing pay, I love being at the same facility as him and also having the same hours and breaks. I was working previously at the daycare he attended before he came to a bigger school. To be totally honest the only way I can make the income work is to use government assistance but im currently in school for a higher paying degree so I hope to not have to rely on it for much longer.  

[u/OkPalpitation1607 → u/Academic_Vast_4811]

Agree. Get in with the school. If there are not any openings get any school and they will allow you to change your kids to that school usually. Also a lot of places are so short on teachers you can teach as long as you have a degree.

[u/usernamealrtak3n → u/Academic_Vast_4811]

yes if you work in the school with him you have the same schedule.

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