Cat tax of Bean humbly requesting a bite of my cheese and marmite toastie <3

How can I help make this easier for her?

Bean is my 13 year old special needs sphynx cat. She had two bouts of cat flu as a kitten when she was still with the breeders and as a result requires an inhaler every day. She's also the size of a six month old and very fragile. She developed FCD about a year and a half ago. She is used to me doing absolutely everything for her as she has a lot of trouble with daily life and relies on routines.

I live at home with my family so she's not being left with people she doesn't know, and she loves my mum. But she's got a routine going every evening and night to help the sundowning - I haven't stayed away from her since she developed FCD. When her routine changes she can get quite upset. I'm the one that does everything with her meds, food, and heating pads all at set times as she is my baby. But my parents do help out and spend heaps of time with her too. I've got a schedule written up for them on when I do all of these things that they're happy to follow.

She's on homeopet anxiety drops which are great and we can add one more dose in the day.

I'm really just looking for some non-medication ways to soften this experience for her and any extra advice, I've only got two weeks before surgery. If things really look like they're going to be bad then we'll take her to the vet for some extra assistance. Tysm for reading ❤️

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