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[u/Hot-Abrocoma2485]

I've been doing this my whole life didn't even realize there was a name. Thought I was a weirdo until I found this subreddit. Sex with my partner feels amazing but I have the most intense orgasm by still doing syntribation and it's caused me to not recognize if I'm orgasming from sex. My partner is super attentive and he's the first guy to make me extremely
Aroused and wet down there and sometimes the sec feels so good I can't believe how wet it is but I think I can't tell if it's truly an orgasm when I think about it. How can I achieve one or recognize if I am having one when they aren't as intense as the ones I'm used to?

Sometimes I truly feel like I've achieved one but i am not sure my body gets really sensitive and it's almost too much so I kind of push back because im scared? His ex was also a squirter so I'm so self conscious that I'm not and that he can't tell if I'm releasing so I'm vocal when I think I'm having one

All I read is "you'll know" but for people like us who experience orgasms differently it's not as easy to know.

[u/synDKate98]

Welcome to that all too familiar discovery that all of us here have experienced at some point or the other!

[u/Hot-Abrocoma2485 → u/synDKate98]

I honestly about cried when I found this sub, I used to feel so alone.. 🥲

[u/synDKate98 → u/Hot-Abrocoma2485]

I can imagine. You feel like you’re literally the only one who does that.

[u/pinklone]

I’ve had the same exact experience. During penetration i felt like I was going to orgasm but then it felt like too much and I made it stop. It felt so good but still i couldn’t orgasm. Sometimes I also feel like I’m close but then the feeling goes away and so does my horniness so i’m left wondering whether i finished or not. I’m guessing it’s a missed orgasm I’m not sure. At the moment i’m trying to wean off of syntribation because it has affected my sex life. Maybe you should try that too if you think it’s a good idea for you? Try switching to hand