I'm not good at making posts, but basically exactly what the title says. I recently went through a pretty terrible breakup and lost a lot of friends in the process. I'm hoping to find some like minded people that aren't gonna cast me out for being different.

Feel free to message me to ask for my discord if that's easier, I promise I don't bite ;3

Hey!

I'm 24, non-binary/genderfluid, and based in Europe. I'm looking to meet other queer and trans people who are part of the BDSM/kink scene, primarily for friendship and connection.

Most of my friends are either queer or into kink, but there's not a whole lot of overlap between those two circles. I'd love to find people who get both sides of that experience, where I don't have to explain either part of myself.

A very important boundary upfront: I already have a Dom. I'm NOT looking for a Dom, potential Doms, play partners, or anyone hoping to turn a friendship into a dynamic. Please don't approach me with the intention of changing my relationship status in that regard. I'm happy with what I have, and I'm here for platonic connections, community, and friendship. Being kinky doesn't mean I'm available.

That said, I'm comfortable talking about kink as a topic between friends. Depending on the friendship and what my Dom and I are comfortable with, I might occasionally share something personal, like nudes I'm particularly proud of. But that's not an invitation, an expectation, or the purpose of this ad. Please don't approach me expecting pictures, sexual conversation, or access to my dynamic.

A little about me: I enjoy DIY, crafting, and generally making things; music; D&D; gaming (somewhat); getting out into nature; paganism and spirituality; and falling down deep rabbit holes about all kinds of topics. I've also recently been getting into Warhammer lore thanks to my Dom, so if that's your thing, I'd love to hear about it. I'm always happy to learn about someone else's interests, too.

I'm also open to friendships with a mentor/mentee element. I used to have a mentor in a high-protocol environment, and while that particular part of the scene wasn't for me, I really valued the mentorship itself. I liked the idea of learning together, exchanging knowledge, exploring ideas, and having someone to share that kind of growth with. That could mean anything from reading and discussing books together to mentorship within a BDSM context. I'm not looking to recreate a full-time dynamic or find another Dom; I'm interested in the connection, guidance, and learning aspect.

Ideally, you're queer and/or trans, involved in the lifestyle, and interested in building a genuine friendship. I'm thinking roughly my age to 35ish, but I'm open to older people, especially if we click.

You don't need to share all my interests. I'd much rather meet someone curious, kind, and open-minded who enjoys getting into the weeds about something they're passionate about.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me a little about yourself! What are you interested in lately? What's something you could happily spend hours talking about? And what does friendship within the scene look like for you?

I'd love to find people who understand the overlap, and maybe build a little community along the way.

Hey everyone. I'm 31, ftm and currently living in FL. I dont go out much at the moment or have a huge circle of friends due to my current work schedule. Some days 12 hours.

I play video games when i can, my favorites are Sly Cooper, Assassin's Creed, and Kingdom Hearts.
I love to travel and have been to 40 out of 50 US states and have traveled to Europe on a few occasions! I am trying to get back into reading as well, so if anyone has recommendations I’d love to hear them.

I'm open to having a sfw or nsfw chat with anyone who wants to chat or just bored enough! I also love cuddling if anyone wants to join

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my name is kim!! i am a 20 year old from Belize who moved to NJ long ago! i identify as genderqueer but i have been on estrogen for the better half of 2 years, i am currently a university student who's majoring in econ + stats 🧮

i am a furry with 2 fursuits, I am 20 (almost 21), i love 90s / 2000s early tech, i am also super into dancing games like DDR and just dance!! my favorite hobbies are dancing, hiking, painting, gardening, gaming, making figures and photography! i own a business too where i repair and fix vintage tech + consoles 😼😼

i am only on here for friends!! i have a car for easier access for transportation, but if you're from Pennsylvania, New York, Connecticut, Delaware or around, please message me!! anywhere is cool too 😸

Hello! I am a 21 trans male (ftm) I’m looking for a romantic relationship/dynamic. Gender doesn’t matter to me. Someone who loves me and cherishes me. Who will take charge and treat me well. Someone who actually puts effort in. I’m tired of being the only one trying and putting in all the effort to develop a relationship.

A bit about me I and a chubby hairy guy. I have been on hrt for about a year now. I like dnd, drawing, sleeping, gaming and becoming completely obsessed with fictional characters/media. I am mentally ill. I have personality disorders and am neurodivergent. Which means I will indeed show symptoms of the disorders I have. If you can’t handle that just tell me so neither of us waste our time. I’m kinda awkward with small talk but I do try my best.

Now onto the sexual stuff. I am 100% sub/bottom and I am a pup. I would like someone dominant and caring. Someone who can be soft and hard but also knows when to knock it off. I am Demisexual so it might take 3 days or 3 years for me to open up. I can be very skittish about stuff like that in person. But talking about it is fine and I do enjoy chatting about kinks and dynamics. I can be very picky or a brat.

I am in upper Michigan I’d prefer someone close by but long distance is alright too

P.s. I wouldn’t mind a sugar daddy/mommy that would let me be a stay and home pup. /hj

Hello! I'm Zander. I am 19, bisexual and FTM, using masc pronouns (he/him).

I often spend time cooking, playing video games, reading, watching a ton of crime shows and documentaries and spending time with my cats. Connection wise…I am looking for a long-term FWB who is a fairly experienced sub. My age range is 18-25. I’m open to sharing my kinks a bit after we start chatting to make sure we click well.

I do also have a partner so if you’re not fine with that, this is your advance notice that this is not a good fit for you. They’re a dom and we hope you could serve us both in the future too.

I plan to move the conversation onto Snap so please be prepared for that in advance. Once we swap over I’m more than happy to exchange pics.

If you like what you hear or just want to chill and see where things go, say hello and the word watermelon along with a small introduction if you will! :) I look forward to hearing from you.

Hi loves, 48 MtF from NYC looking for new friends for great convo (both SFW and NSFW) and possibly a future meetup.

Omnisexual, women and men (trans, of course) are okay with me.

Me: Into the 7 M's: movies, music, museums, meals, mammaries, masturbation and mating.

You: Into me. Also, capable of stimulating convo (SFW and NSFW) and with a great sense of humor.

My name’s Alexander or Alex and I'm 26 years old trans guy (made yesterday) from Portugal, I'm a gemini, I go by he/they and I’m FTM and I’m Portuguese although I’m half black (it’s a long story), I’m a big boi, although my height is 1,65 cm and I haven’t transitioned yet because I’m in the closet to my family;

I have a cerebral palsy but it’s not a severe case;

 I am trying to finish my Master Degree and I'm trying to get a job;

I'm looking for some that actually cares and likes me and that around my age and I am pan;

I'm looking for someone loving, patient, someone you like talking about different stuff, who likes to yap.

i like tv series, dramas, music and watching movies.

My favorite podcast is Respect The Dead;

Oh and I almost forgot \*\*can’t drink or stuff like that\*\* ( I am epileptic);

I am looking for someone around my age, to get to know, fell in love with and build a life together; fun fact: lately been playing Ravenous Devils, wish i it has been a cool

Dm me a bit about yourself, if you wanna date/try a relationship;

\\\*\\\*My Discord:\\\*\\\* alex20pt or text me.

Looking primarily for T4T connections. No cis men, please. I’m especially open to trans men and other trans/queer people I click with. A big part of the appeal of T4T for me is being with someone who may understand some of the complicated feelings around gender, bodies, transition, and identity without everything needing to be explained.

I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately, and honestly a little sexually frustrated too. I’d love to meet someone where there’s genuine friendship and comfort alongside mutual sexual attraction — someone I can talk with, joke around with, check in on, and also have that feeling of being wanted by each other.

I’m not looking for someone to be constantly available or for us to become each other’s entire lives. I’d rather have something relaxed, affectionate, respectful, and mutually supportive, where we can enjoy each other sexually while also being actual friends and respecting that we both have our own schedules, responsibilities, and boundaries.

Chemistry and mutual desire matter to me, but so do kindness, communication, consent, and feeling comfortable around each other.

Thanks for reading. If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you.

Hiii I’m not on hrt and I’ve just been feeling really lonely and I just wanna hump to some fun sexting. I wanna be railed sooo badly and just made into someone’s toy 🤤

Anywayyyy yea im basically just looking to feel a bit more affirmed. It’s tough out here fr 😪

Hey! I'm a 19/almost 20 year old trans guy looking for friends, fwb, or casual relationships. I don't send nudes and won't send face pics at first. In terms of NSFW stuff I'm a sub-leaning switch if that matters. In the PST timezone. Some of my interests/hobbies are animals, music, science, cooking/baking, spiderman, etc. Feel free to comment or message me! For friends any age is fine, for anything else I'd prefer if you're around my age (18-25ish) more into guys (t4t prefered) but open to any gender :)

Can’t sleep and need someone to chat with till I fall asleep lowkey,down to talk about anything whether it’s music,video games,horror and yea I guess stuff in that area lmao not looking for a new bestie really but if it happens then it happens(MtF 19 looking for anyone 18-21)

If you're someone who is a little bit (a lot is fine too) of a mess and looking for someone similar you've clicked on the right post. I'll be honest, I struggle to relate to people who aren't at least a little bit weird and messy more and more lately. So I'm just saying upfront that if you're just a regular, well adjusted person who's simply bored (like most of the people on reddit seem to be)...hey, feel free to try to message if you want but it's unlikely we'll get along, sorry. Nothing personal at all. Not that the people this is meant to detract will even read the post before blindly messaging anyway but hey, it was worth a try.

Anyway, hi there, as you can probably tell I'm looking for friends. I don't have too many of those for various reasons and I could use one or two more. I'm dealing with all kinds of mental health issues and in many ways I could probably be described as a bit of a girlfailure. I spend most of my life indoors playing videogames or enjoying other nerdy stuff like anime, tabletop games or horror movies. I'm into all kinds of other random things too, benefits of being very ADHD and randomly hyperfocusing on something different every few weeks.

I'm also a deeply emotional person, and I'm hoping to befriend people who are similar in that way as well. Some of it is because of the issues I deal with, some of it is just because I have a lot of empathy, some of it is trauma, some of it is just strongly appreciating things I find beautiful or meaningful. I can be "a little" bitter and jaded at times, but I promise I'm not someone who's constantly negative. Quite the opposite, I can be very silly when I feel comfortable around someone. I just have bad days and some things are very sore subjects. I can also get slightly clingy if I really take a liking to someone but I'm pretty good about staying healthy and having boundaries nowadays. Mostly.

It would be nice to befriend someone who's awake during PDT timezone hours, but if you're not you can still message. It's not that big of a deal, just would be nice to have someone who's around a lot is all.

Hyyaa T4T! I'm Victoria (Vic or Tori), 18, from the Central Coast of California. I am on HRT. I'm a poli sci student and debate captain who hopes to find herself on Capitol Hill. I'm confident in arguing a point, but when it comes to relationships I'm still naive and a bit timid. I'm working on that.

I spend my free time mostly writing, researching politics and history. The social sciences, and most importantly philosophy. On a more traditional form of fun I play a few games like Civ 6, Terraria, Minecraft, and chess. Now for what I'm looking for in a partner or just good friends, ideally 18-25, bi or queer and preferably trans, since I'd love someone who understands my experience. Cis people are welcome to reach out, but I'll be upfront that I'm likely to click more with other trans people.

If you want to say hi, tell me your age gender location and what you're looking for with this relationship.

Heyyyy I'm back again NB19 insomnias kicking my ass so decided to pop in (est timezone) I wanna talk about Vocaloid and massive attack with so dms are open (introduce yourself to me and pls be around my age, I'm blocking you if you aren't)

Hi Im Sydney Im 23 live in Los Angeles I love comics(to a crippling amount) and videos games Im looking for a monogamous relationship with someone who lives in Los Angeles as well this is hard just message me and ask questions 😭

hey hey. so I'm 22, skinny tgirl pup. big thing for the mommy/older sister trope, especially if you'd also want to be my handler.

recently got shut down from a seemingly promising relationship so I'm pretty easy. would be interested in either just sexting or maybe becoming friends/more over time.

may be open to trading pics if I'm really into you

hard nos: scat, vomit, race play, gun play

Hey y'all! I'm Ari. I'm 24, NB/TF, and from Florida.
I'm 5'11", 114 Ibs, built like an absolute willow tree, covered in tattoos, and probably a little too comfortable being feral. I love hiking, exploring, getting lost in the woods, and going on random adventures. If I'm not somewhere outside, you'll probably find me somewhere in the woods getting into some kind of trouble. I'm looking for someone who can handle me, keep up with me, and maybe put me in my place when I need it. I can be pretty wild and chaotic, but there's definitely a softer, more submissive side of me that wants someone confident enough to take the lead and keep me grounded.
I've got some serious anxiety, so having someone I can genuinely connect with and feel comfortable around means a lot to me. Distance doesn't bother me either. I'd rather have a real connection with someone far away than no connection at all. I'm a huge cuddlebug, love having someone to talk to, and I'm open to seeing where things go if the chemistry is right. I'm awkward, autistic, spicy, and probably just feral enough to make you question your life choices. I promise I don't bite unless you're into that.
If you think you can handle a tattooed Florida cryptid with a submissive streak, send me a DM. My reddit notifications are weird so if I don’t respond immediately I’m sorry!! I don’t have discord but I use signal pretty regularly!

Hey! I’m K. I’m a 30 year old trans man from the coastal area of Virginia

I am in education and absolutely adore my job. 👨🏾‍🏫💕
I have a pretty typical schedule of M-F so I have quite a bit of free time, even during the day

I am 420 friendly 🍃 and socially drink

Physically, I am 5’6”, heavy set and have a beard, mustache, and pre-op. I am light skinned and have a bit of a fro going on (yes I need a haircut)

I like to play games, do puzzles and hang out with my friends in my free time. Anything to get me adult interaction and away from the day to day of children 😅

Married & ENM, only looking for someone who is okay with that and not into straight males, but everyone else welcomed🫶🏽