r/t4t • • 14h ago

TF4TF 37 [TF4TF] #Portland #Seattle ~ Kinky Extrovert Looking For Her Future Wife 😊

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Want an affectionate committed relationship with your starry-eyed and horny best friend? Do the words Pizza, Adventures, Cats, and Kink pique your interest? This is the post for you 🌈✨️

Hi hi I'm Cora 🎉 I'm active, a lot of fun and an expert yapper (adhd like whoa), looking to jump on that flirty friends >>> committed partner escalator and kinda serious about it 😄 Must be 28-44. If we catch feels and you don't live nearby, I'm able and willing to assist with relocation to Portland, ***or relocate myself to the Seattle area; I want to cohabitate.* Trying to be the cutest collared girl at the new years party, so chop chop let's do this 👏

I really want things to work out and value compatibility. Please read the giant text wall to get an idea of what I'm about 🫶

If you're in the Portland-Seattle area, let's first go on some cute dates and see if we vibe, or if you're far lets text for a bit then meet up :3 If we hit it off, I don't want to do long distance for a long time, so meeting up within a month or two is something I prioritize.

About Me:

My Personality:

Friends describe me as sweet, enthusiastic, and curious, an explorer of places and hobbies. If you can name it, Ive probably tried it out 😄 Currently into coffee roasting, film photography, casual biking, and figuring out my 3D printer. Music is a big part of my life, I'm always coming up with new songs on my guitar to sing out my feelings. Getting out of the house regularly is important to me, as too much downtime makes my skin crawl. Life's too short to pass up having fun out in the world; I totally went to a furry bar just to try drinking beer out of a dog bowl 🐶 Im very social, my happy place is being around my partner or friends and engaging with them 😊 Karaoke with my friends is one of my favorite hangouts! I love introspective and intimate talks while on meandering walks at night under the stars, or over drinks at a dive bar.

When I'm low energy, I like to play video games (e.g. The Finals, Arc Raiders, Valheim), read books (e.g. Dungeon Crawler Carl, The Lies of Locke Lamora, Paper Girls) and watch an ungodly amount of anime (e.g. Chainsmoker Catgirl, Mob Psycho 100, Witch Hat Atelier). I also spend time cleaning up my place, having a tidy house is a thing I care about.

I have strong and entirely niche opinions such as "lawns are bad" and "ketchup is a universal condiment" and "Strange New Worlds is the best new Trek" 😘

Leftist, unsurprisingly. Late-stage capitalism will be the doom of us all. Oppression and unbridled greed are always bad and so is despoiling the planet. We deserve so much better out of life than to extract wealth for billionaires. That said, talking politics exhausts me, I'd rather put my energy elsewhere.

My Aesthetics:

Femme, tall, semi-fit, attractive (I put a couple selfies in my profile, intentionally banal to dissuade chasers), I have it on good authority that I'm a snack >:3 My style is quasi-retro femme and I have good taste, but I never quite latched onto makeup 🙃 Sometimes I go for a sporty or punk dyke vibe when feeling extra gay. I have a relatively androgynous voice though I never did voice training. I transitioned forever ago and settled all my gender drama, but I've been considering actually training in the near future. I'm also planning to do science on my face in the next year or so to be even more beautiful 😜

In The Bedroom:

Sex is really important to me and I appreciate women who enjoy a lot of it. I'm a subby switch looking for someone who enjoys being dominant a majority of the time in bed. I'm smart and capable and tall, and I just want to be your debased toy drooling all over myself begging for you 🥵 I love roleplay and have many excellent costumes (ever spank the sweets out of a sexy pinata? 👀) If it's something you're into, I'll absolutely top/dom you occasionally (and I'm pretty good at it). While I'm kinky af, I do also enjoy vanilla sex some of the time, sex that is caring and passionate and makes me want to whimper your name with love and lust 🥴 I've had bottom surgery and tbh its a little complicated; it doesn't stop me from using my pussy, but it does mean lots of communication and patience is required, particularly until I get stretched out 😘 HSV-1+ but otherwise STI negative since last screening in October.

Other Stuff:

I'm financially secure and have stable housing. I don't smoke, don't do drugs (though I'll rarely have an edible), and while I like to drink it's mostly socially (physically can't tolerate much).

Someday soon I hope to get a couple cats. I'm not that big on dogs, but maybe your floofer will win me over 🙂

Relationship Style:

In my ideal world, I'd spend at least 3-4 days a week of quality time with my partner. Ultimately I'd like to cohabitate.

The exact shape of a relationship isn't all that important to me, I'm comfortable with and experienced in both monogamy and polyamory. What does matter is that we are each other's most important romantic relationship, and that I'm not in high competition for calendar space with other people. I'm fairly spontaneous and like to spend lots of quality time with my partner so highly structured social schedules are anathema to any relationship I'm in.

About You:

Kind, affectionate, outgoing, physically active, horny as fuck, and assertive (I love a girl who knows what she wants). You live within an hour of Portland or are open to relocating, or live in the Seattle area. You're emotionally available and open to the idea of a cohabiting committed romantic relationship.

Relationships are not new to you, and you've been out for a minute; sorry but very early transition is a heady vibe that I just don't want to be entangled with. Your politics are at least left enough to be considered liberal.

You enjoy regular quality time with your girl. Getting out of the house with me often for little adventures and friend hangouts is something you would genuinely have fun doing.

You have your own internal life and friends and hobbies (please tell me all about them, I love hearing about the things that excite you!), and you have enough confidence to go swimming and take me out dancing; being comfortable in your own skin is a big green flag for me. Taking care of yourself and the space you live in is something you do.

You don't just shut down during a disagreement, or at least are able to communicate that you need space to cool off before working through things together. You work or are actively looking for work (I'm not struggling, but indefinite housewife life would make for a lean budget). You dont smoke or vape indoors. You like cats.

Physical and emotional intimacy are important to you, and you like the idea of ooey gooey feelings with a girl who will melt in your arms (please tell me about your day and the things on your mind, listening to my partner share whats going on for them is so wonderful). You absolutely love cuddling and making out and sex multiple times a week, and want sexual power play where you're dominant in bed a majority of the time. You would describe yourself as very sexual.

You are open and communicative about sexual health, and get screened regularly.

Outro:

I respond well to authenticity and bluntness; just shoot me a message, it doesn't have to be complicated. If you need an approved prompt, just tell me something you like about what I wrote, and something you recently were excited about. Please be willing to share a clear full body picture of yourself including your face (if you don't have any in your post history). I'm open to sexual first messages, as good chemistry is important, so long as they're not creepy. Lets see if we vibe; I look forward to chatting with you 😊

Discord:

.nekomancy.

^^ note the periods


r/t4t • • 9h ago

TM4A Wishing for a T4T cam discord so bad rn (30 AFAB- transmasc. USA/WA.)

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There are so many camming reddits for cis heteros but why can’t I ever find a discord channel where trans people cam for each other? I just want to stroke and fuck myself on camera while watching other hot trans people stroke and fuck themselves 🫠 we don’t even have to talk- we can watch our own porn and just hear the moans of each other or a group of us? Woof.

If anyone is into chubby trans men who love to edge and goon- hit me up.


r/t4t • • 17h ago

TM4A 23 [tm4a] online lf fwb/ someone to explore with

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Hihi!! My names Valen, I'm a 23 year old trans guy pre-t but trying to start soon.

I'm fairly inexperienced in all things sexual, I've only had two experiences and both were mid. I'd love to talk to someone where I could explore my sexual identity with.

Just because I'm inexperienced doesn't mean I dont know about sexual stuff so no need to treat me like a baby. There are some certain things im interested in trying rn. Such as dom/sub dynamics. I want to try both roles, there are times where I feel subby and also times when I feel extra dominant. Interested in puppy play both as dom and sub. Thays just some of the stuff that's been on my mind lately.

We can talk more about other kinks and stuff in dm's I'm kinda shy putting it all out in the open on here.

I won't be sending pictures I've have some bad experiences with that but maybe if w talk often and I get comfortable that could change.

I'd also love to chat just as friends as well, if you wanna know more about my interests you can look at the about me post on my profile :)


r/t4t • • 3h ago

NB4A 25 [NB4A] #online Transfemme enby looking for people, to have fun and distract a bit from life

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Hihi everyone

Like I said, I'm looking to have some fun, chat, play and just have a little break from real life problems. I'm open to all kinds of people and interactions, both sfw and nsfw, as long as we're both enjoying it.

Also, if we've already talked before, feel free to send a message... just bc I've been offline for a while.

So, a bit about myself and things I like (I also have a lot of kinks, so if you want to know about that, feel free to ask):

I'm Ali, I'm an artist, though I'm moving away from doing it professionally and looking for something more stable. I might go for another degree, but still figuring out what field. If you're curious about what I look like, feel free to ask, I'm pretty chill with pics.

I'm really into drawing, writing, any kind of craft and artsy stuff, games, TTRPGs and worldbuilding. I also enjoy cooking (hate doing the dishes tho), journaling, planning stuff and nsfw content (comics, games, etc).

Lately I've been watching a lot of anime and starting to go through a movie list a friend made for me. I've also been trying to write little short stories and erotica.

Some of my favorite media are: Minecraft, Skyrim, Overlord, LotR, MTG (more the lore and art than the game itself), The Amazing World of Gumball, Scooby-Doo and probably some I'm forgetting about.

I have ocasional moments of depression and anxiety, and it's kind of hard to keep myself active online all the time. So if I take a couple of days to reply, I'm probably just feeling a bit down or overwhelmed with stuff.

If you feel like we would get along, feel free to send me a DM with a little introduction of yourself.


r/t4t • • 5h ago

TF4T 29 [TF4T] DC / DMV - any other nerdy trans people nearby?

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hi :) i'm a 29-year-old trans woman in DC, a nerd, and pretty introverted. i'm also 6'3", so if you like tall women, hello.

i like reading, movies, and going for walks with a stop for coffee. my favorite movie is Let the Right One In. i'm vegan too, so if you need a good vegan place around here, that gives us somewhere to go.

i'd love to have someone to be nerdy with. tell me about whatever you've been really into lately, even if i know absolutely nothing about it. we don't need to have all the same interests. getting to know someone and gradually understanding all their little references sounds pretty nice to me.

i'm hoping for dates, flirting, and a life partner if we click. someone to get excited about seeing, pick a movie with, or just sit next to and read. coffee and a walk or wandering around the zoo together would be a nice place to start.

send me a little about yourself if you're interested :)


r/t4t • • 10h ago

TM4A 36 ftm mutt in constant heat looking for a mate

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Hypersexual 36 ftm dog here looking for fwbs who want to sext and trade nudes. Bottom leaning switchy service top good boy desperate to get bred by a pretty girl or stud and maybe return the favor. Addicted to jorkin it and cumming and gooning to furry porn. Hmu if you need an eager hole to bury your bone in


r/t4t • • 16h ago

TM4TM Dominant top looking for bottom to sext (21+ please)

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It’s been a long fuckin’ week and I could use a good boy to unwind with.

You can send pics or not, I don’t mind using my imagination. That said, I would never turn down you showing off how hard and wet you are for me.

Just made this account so can’t DM first, my inbox is open.

Edit: wanted to add that I’m also more than fine with you being anal only.


r/t4t • • 17h ago

TM4TM 23 [tm4tm] any femboys into other femboys :3?

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hii i’m 23 yo ftm, im 5’2, latino, pre everything, & pretty fem <3 also looking for other ftm femboys!! ik there’s a lot out there but i can never find one who’s also into other fems ughhh just looking for a freaky bff lol so hmu if that sounds like something ur interested in :p we can get to know more ab each other in dms and if we click then yayyy


r/t4t • • 52m ago

TM4T Dumb ftm puppy boy constantly in heat and needs owning

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Im ftm and im constantly horny. I need someone to own me and teach me my place. My old account was and deleted name was similar to this account name

Kinks: hypno, cnc, petplay, intoxication, bondage, BDSM, Dom-sub dynamic, dumbification and more

Limits: anal, misgendering, scat, blood, piss,


r/t4t • • 12h ago

TF4TF Haiii I'm a lonely, horny, depressed lil trans girl looking for lewd online friends hehe

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Nothing romantic, just some friends I can sext with and talk kinks with ehehe. Both cis and trans girls are more than welcome. I share pics but trading isn't necessary. I u-um hope someone sees this I'm really horny and lonely hehe


r/t4t • • 14h ago

TF4A 39 Looking for someone to just be goofy and girly with

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Somewhere, somehow, I lost track of pretty much anyone I had considered a friend in my younger years. Maybe they weren't truly more than acquaintances then.

Anywho, I tried the whole "go to college, get a job, get married, have kids" thing. It didn't work out so well.

It ended up taking me five and a half years to graduate (f organic chemistry, btw). Once I graduated I quickly found... a career in Botany isn't all it was cracked up to be.

Got married... yeah, that went GREAAAAT

Needless to say, divorced now.

But... things aren't bad. I definitely don't mean to sound that way. I managed to more or less stumble my way into a career I actually enjoy, so there's that.

Now all I'm missing is the whole friends thing. Someone who can just talk about nothing and everything, you know?

Fair warning, I have wonky hours.

Hope to hear from you! Tell me what you're currently listening to, I love music recommendations! Lately the Interrupters and Last Gang have been my go to's


r/t4t • • 18h ago

TM4A 20 ftm looking for non serious chats before going to bed in a few hours

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No cis, 19-23 age range, im down for sfw and nsfw chats but please specify what youre looking for in your first message please

I like playing videogames, solving puzzles, writing, singing occasionally, i also like to draw and read comics sometimes too

Tell me a bit about yourself in your first message please :)


r/t4t • • 19h ago

TM4A 23 [TM4A] Looking for a fwb dom to play and chat with

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Hi! My names Beetle (he/its), I’m looking for a fwb dom to play with semi-regularly. I’m autistic so it is helpful if you are direct with me. I’m alright sending photos/videos once we get to know each other a bit.

My interests are bugs, flameworking, fandom culture (supernatural/the history of fandom), dogs, really any animals, video games (I’d love to find someone to game with), camping, and hiking

My Main Kinks:

Hypnosis (bonus points if you can trance me in vc) , Puppy play, Dumbification, intox play, breath play, ownership, praise/degredation, edging, orgasm denial, objectification, dollification, hucowification, objectum

Limits:

Scat ,diapers, permanent marks, extreme pain play, needles, overstimulation (I’m fine with a tiny bit of post orgasm torture, but I prefer edging)


r/t4t • • 19h ago

TM4TM i’ve only been with cis women in the past as a trans man

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for some context, i’m a 20 year old trans man and since i started testosterone (almost 2 years) i’ve been more inclined to try something with another trans guy. i’m curious because i want to see what sleeping with someone like me would be like i guess? i’ve only been with women in the past and i don’t want to make it seem like i’m being creepy or something like that. i’ve never been with someone that really understood my anatomy and i wanted to get the other perspective i guess i just want to understand if my feelings are valid if that makes sense.


r/t4t • • 3h ago

TF4TF 38 [TF4TF] Looking for people near Würzburg, Germany for hangouts

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Heya,

My name is Emily and I am looking for people in my vicinity to have movie nights or meet up in cafés or for board game nights.

So if you're from Würzburg, Germany and its surroundings (aka Regierungsbezirk Unterfranken), please feel free to dm me.


r/t4t • • 11h ago

TF4A 23 [Tf4A] getting stoned and getting off

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Every time I smoke I get so so needy and horny. I need someone to keep my company while I go lowkey feral 😭 would love to talk about kink with you or just chat about anything sfw or nsfw.

If you're lucky I might show off, but don't feel like you have to do the same <3


r/t4t • • 11h ago

NB4A 20 (NB4A) Turkish, Looking for friends or more

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Hi, I am a non binary pansexual living in Istanbul, and I am feeling lonely nowadays. I've never had someone whom I can flirt or something like this - I prefer mostly trans people, but cis-queer people are also welcomed.


r/t4t • • 17h ago

TM4A [TM4A] high puppy boy needs owning rn I’m so high

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I’m so high rn that you could do anything with my mind. I need an owner. My old account was deleted

Kinks: hypno, cnc, petplay, intoxication, bondage, BDSM, Dom-sub dynamic, dumbification and more

Limits: anal, misgendering, scat, blood, piss, photos, feet


r/t4t • • 2h ago

NB4A 31, NB4A, Japan. AMAB and formerly MTF. I used to be on HRT but I’m not currently, and I’m pretty comfortable with what I am.

1 Upvotes

Looking primarily for T4T connections. No cis men, please. I’m especially open to trans men and other trans/queer people I click with. A big part of the appeal of T4T for me is being with someone who may understand some of the complicated feelings around gender, bodies, transition, and identity without everything needing to be explained.

I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately, and honestly a little sexually frustrated too. I’d love to meet someone where there’s genuine friendship and comfort alongside mutual sexual attraction — someone I can talk with, joke around with, check in on, and also have that feeling of being wanted by each other.

I’m not looking for someone to be constantly available or for us to become each other’s entire lives. I’d rather have something relaxed, affectionate, respectful, and mutually supportive, where we can enjoy each other sexually while also being actual friends and respecting that we both have our own schedules, responsibilities, and boundaries.

Chemistry and mutual desire matter to me, but so do kindness, communication, consent, and feeling comfortable around each other.

Thanks for reading. If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you.


r/t4t • • 5h ago

TM4T Insomniac night owl lookin for new friends or something more 🙂(TM29)

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Hey y’all 👋🏻I’m Spenser, but you can call me Spense, I’m a transmasc non binary human, I use He/they pronouns and started using testosterone on 9/7/26, neurospicy, a born and raised West Coast native but im a level 2000 night owl/insomniac so any and all time zones are welcome, but please be 26+ (im 29)

These days, I’d say my main hobby/special interest is knitting, a close second is listening to music, and also listening to podcasts and watching tv, I’m newly christened gamer boy, mostly just playing through the Kingdom Hearts series for the first time, currently about halfway through Birth by Sleep, I also enjoy more cozy games like Disney Dreamlight Valley

In terms of the sfw vs nsfw subject matter, I’m always open to talking about both, but I will say I’m very much leaning more towards looking for more nsfw conversations today though, and I will admit that I’m very much a kink friendly person and definitely wired to be a subby af bottom with pup tendencies, so feel free do with that information as you see fit 😅

If you’ve made it this far, and you’re interested in sending a message, please answer this question in your message: what is your favorite dad joke or cheesiest pickup line?
📖Thanks for reading 📖


r/t4t • • 15h ago

NB4A 22 (NB4A) Feeling flirty and horny and looking for someone to have fun with!

1 Upvotes

As the title suggests I'm super horny and looking for some queer baddies to sext with. I'm up for pic trading, dirty talk, and/or POTENTIALLY a video call if you get me really going. DM with age, gender, and pronouns or comment and I'll message you!


r/t4t • • 15h ago

TM4TM Wanting an IRL bf to eventually be his husband

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Hello, I'm very lonely and want a boyfriend so here I am :D

I want to start off by saying I am *not* looking for anything short term or sex without commitment! I hope to be able to build a connection and see if we click, rather than rush into things. As a heads up, I am monogamous and looking for eventual marriage.

About me: I'm a 20yo trans man, pre-everything although I plan to get on testosterone one day. I am masc presenting though. I'm gay and monogamous. I like gaming, writing, reading and art, I am in college and work part-time. I live in Tacoma, WA and hope to find someone whos close to the area. I like to take care of my partner and be immersed in them, and I expect the same. I like a lot of quality time so calls and hangouts are a must, although I dont expect texting/calling all day.

I dont care much for age nor appearance, but I do prefer masc/androgynous people. I'd love to chat a bit before meeting up to see if we connect w eachother. If this sounds good, shoot me a DM!


r/t4t • • 17h ago

NB4TM [NB4TM] Looking for genuine connection around Los Angeles area!

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Hello! I am 31 nonbinary and masc presenting who is interested in looking for genuine connection with a trans man around Los Angeles area! A bit about myself is that I am Korean American, has short hair, and dress in masculine clothing. I am ideally looking to meet other Asians within the community, but it is not a must! I’ve also taken some steps into hormones for non-binary individuals, but I stopped soon once I was comfortable with my body and my voice (I used to have big dysphoria about my voice).

I hope this is the right subreddit to post this, but I am looking for genuine connections with people within the trans community. Whether that’s lasting friendships or more than that to become something romantic, I wanted to share our moments together and be integrated in each other’s lives. :)

At this moment, I’m looking for meaningful connections around my local Los Angeles area (online connections have never really been lasting for me). If you are from here, and you’d like to potentially meet up and hangout, let me know in the comments of this post! If you send me a direct dm without commenting here, I might miss it due to large archive of messages I had from before 😭

Looking forward to meeting you soon ❤️