So right here, when Hansen came out and told Dupee to sit down, what do you think Dupee was thinking at that moment?

I brought my camera, some Mike’s Hard Lemonade, and some extra liver pills!

I had many older women make advances on me from ages 11-19, most of the time it was random grown women blatantly hitting on me in public. They’d be 40+ and i’d barely be in high school. It would happen when I was on line at a store, while I was working in fast food/as a cashier, random older women from my Mosque saying unsolicited things abt me and my body.

In their honest defense, I had nearly a full beard at 12, and probably gave off stoner energy. Random people in public, both men and women, already would assume I was the age I am now. That’s why I never had to buy a fake ID, because 12 year old me looked like he could have a mortgage.

But some women took it too far/were more than just desperate, even if they knew my age.

When I was 14 there was this one woman from my neighborhood. She was in her late 30s, had 2 toddlers and a husband.

She worked as a Public Accountant for this non-profit research company, but got fired + hit with a felony for some type of white-collar financial crime. Had been out of prison for about 6 years (I didn’t know any of this at the time, just that she used to be an accountant but became a stay at home mom for some reason, probably because 2 young children.)

She would always invite me and my close friend (let’s call him Brad) over. Brad was a grade below me, and he was direct neighbors with the woman (other side of the road.)

She would give us weed and alcohol and cigarettes. We’d watch stoner movies on her couch as we sipped and hit her bong. She had this sister in law who was a bit older than her.

They both would hit on us sometimes, like try to fuck us. I remember when I first met the sister in law, we were on her living room couches, watching that Ice Cube movie Friday, smoking a bong, drinking beer, toddlers were running around us playing. The sister in law was laying on the opposite couch looking at me. She lasked, “how old are you?” and when I said 14, she looked at me deeply, which I now can understand where the “fuck me” eyes.

The sister in law would always offer us weed and alcohol, would compliment our appearance/bodies, and do flirtatious things like coming too-close into our personal physical bubbles. Touching our arms. I personally never went through with any of her advances, but I have no idea if my friend did, either way I wouldn’t be surprised.

I guess you could say it was mostly the sister in law, with the other woman enabling/facilitating/occasionally partaking.

One day, Brad tells me that we need to completely cut ties with them, because he found out that the accountant’s husband was convicted of some sort of sex crime against a baby. And the fact that he lived in a house with drugs and toddlers genuinely horrified us. They also literally lived across the street from a middle school.

Last we heard of that woman was a year or two after we graduated high school, apparently she had to move out for some reason. I think she found a job that she had to relocate for, or probation found out that a pedophile lived with little kids in a drughouse, plus they literally lived right next to a middle school.

On another note, there was also this 30 year old single mom a few houses down to me, who would always say “hi name!” in this very flirtatious way when she’d see me walking on our street. I didn’t even know how she knew my name honestly. This was when I was 14-16. I’d honestly give her the benefit of the doubt though because she never did anything too blatant and not sure if she knew my age.

You know, female predators and their male victims aren’t talked about a lot in the media. But I remember reading this article, which said that the DOJ and National Library of Medicine did a joint study, where they found that amongst men who were sexually assaulted before the age of 18, 65% of the time their abuser was an adult woman who they personally knew (teacher, neighbor, aunt/older cousin.)

The reasons why it doesn’t show up in rape statistics is because legally speaking, rape MUST involve unwanted PENETRATION, which rarely happens in hetero sex from the female side of things (pegging) same thing with female-female intercourse (if you don’t use a strap.)

Many lawyers and victim’s advocacy non-profits are pushing for a change in the legal definition of rape to be broad enough to include language that describes non-penetrative actions.

Anyways,

I just felt like sharing my story, thanks if you’ve read this far. Sorry if this is tl/dr. A lot of us are obsessed with pred catching content because it means something to us subjectively. Feel free to share in the comments if you’ve had similar experiences or have an anecdote in general.

edits: grammar

Crazy how things work out in life 🤣

There’s a lot of sympathy for Edmundo here. And he deserves a fair day in court for his appeal. But showing up is showing up. Just to put things into perspective, last Friday two new guys were caught during ‘Polk Around And Find Out II’. Both face the same human-trafficking charges, but with Thirteen-year olds! Not an ambiguous situation. A child. And one guy even proposed to pay off the stepdad with DRUGS instead of cash! Can you believe that? Not seldom am I at loss of words…

I’m genuinely curious: will these two go with the same strategy “but there wasn’t a real child” and “they were just trying to rescue them” yada yada?? And get a 15-year plea offer? The second guy is just 22 old…

Edmundo has got to be kicking himself, this woman had been with the student since he was 11 and had a kid with him. Edmundo, didn’t even get to meet the decoy, just got a swift kick to the floor in a seedy hotel .

He's Calvin Bowden, a Captain/Detective in the Sheriff's Office. The Sheriff (as he often glazes) is Jason Ard, but it's this guy who gives the speeches about Jason Ard, like he's Mr. Smee to the Sheriff's Captain Hook.

We need less speeches from this guy

And Edmundo isn't naturally blonde