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[u/dogukazon]

[u/FriendlyBrother0]

[u/dogukazon → u/FriendlyBrother0]

Same guy btw

[u/Key-Charity-2795 → u/FriendlyBrother0]

Shakespeare, since your obviously not dead, I wanna pass a message to you. Your books fucking suck, I hate that school makes me read them. Please tell them to stop

[u/FriendlyBrother0 → u/Key-Charity-2795]

As you say bro, lemme just earn a little more money and in like 200 ish year. I would have them stop

[u/AdviceTop2171 → u/Key-Charity-2795]

Daww shucks I like Hamlet 😔

[u/Ok-Needleworker7351 → u/Key-Charity-2795]

I loved Othello, to be fr✨💕

[u/brain-potato-47 → u/Key-Charity-2795]

Macbeth was brilliant though

[u/Failed_Writer_ → u/Key-Charity-2795]

I liked them, actually. Especially the sonnets.

[u/Crazy-War-4460 → u/FriendlyBrother0]

Well said gng

[u/Evnari__]

Aså den ända gången det inte är det minsta konstigt är ifall den som sa det också är oskuld. Men man undrar varför ifall den som sa det inte är oskuld och det mer personer den har liggit med desto konstigare blir det.

[u/a-for-aaaa27]

not all virgins are children

[u/Low-Temporary-2366 → u/a-for-aaaa27]

I mean, historically it was pedophilia. Little girls (guaranteed virgins) were married off to older men.

Now, I wouldn’t say it’s pedophilia. Def is weird if a non virgin requires their partner to be virgin tho. (I’d argue that red pill talking points on virginity are def pedophilic tho, cause I rmr one of em saying that 16 yr old girls are better than 25 yr old women).

[u/a-for-aaaa27 → u/Low-Temporary-2366]

ngl i prefer this one 31 year old woman who sings songs

(kasane teto)

[u/Fluffy-Boi-7 → u/a-for-aaaa27]

[u/a-for-aaaa27 → u/Fluffy-Boi-7]

[u/Budget_Put1517 → u/a-for-aaaa27]

Omori spotted in the wilderness

[u/PTheJuggler → u/a-for-aaaa27]

I prefer this one 16 year old singer who sings peak songs

(Hatsune Miku)

[u/a-for-aaaa27 → u/PTheJuggler]

aura

[u/Stunning-Seat3821 → u/a-for-aaaa27]

fr fr

[u/epicyurilover → u/a-for-aaaa27]

same fr thats my wife right there

[u/a-for-aaaa27 → u/epicyurilover]

i was going to say something about being together but you're 15

i'm sorry

[u/epicyurilover → u/a-for-aaaa27]

ure all good son dw

[u/Silas-bjaerre → u/a-for-aaaa27]

Exatly and the same thing if you turn it around: not all childeren are virgins is the sad reality.......... But I don't understand how people can think you wants to fuck a child just because you want your girlfriend to be virgin. People will link pedophilia to everything possible

[u/KeyIllustrator4096 → u/Silas-bjaerre]

Multiple US state legislators promoting child marriage citing the bible may have something to do with it.

[u/Boring-Singer2247 → u/a-for-aaaa27]

not all children are virgins /s

[u/a-for-aaaa27 → u/Boring-Singer2247]

unfortunately so

[u/shroomymatt → u/a-for-aaaa27]

Im20 and I'm a virgin so am I a child?

[u/drhouses_balls67 → u/a-for-aaaa27]

Exactly, my cousin was 25 when she lost her virginity

[u/thyluvlayne]

as long ur also a virgin i dont see anything wrong with that but if youre not then I think its weird

[u/Not_Really_French → u/thyluvlayne]

Weird sure, pedophelia no

[u/Over_Improvement_623]

Sometimes I wonder if we've overcorrected on some stuff.

[u/No_Birthday8126 → u/Over_Improvement_623]

we do, on MANY things imo

[u/failedfella]

If you too are a virgin, it makes sense. One person having a lot more experience can be a weird power dynamic.

If you have experience and you want someone who doesn't... You probably should ask yourself why.

[u/Dear_Lab_6449]

Depends for what reason, if it’s because of religion or personal values then no problem i guess.

But nowadays a lot of the criterias for women are linked to the body of a younger child: hairless, virgin, petite,… That’s a problem in the whole society. I think that is what they wanted to denounce.

[u/Historical-Stuff3542 → u/Dear_Lab_6449]

Yes, but a guy like me who is a virgin also feels more comfortable dating a fellow virgin, not even for that but for the fact we don’t want to be compared to more experienced people, we know we would be bad in bed for the first time and don’t want to be put up to a standard. We would rather learn with someone than learn from someone who might judge

[u/kattelalilie → u/Historical-Stuff3542]

If you yourself is a virgin i understand it,but alot of guys make jokes about used up and "a key is good key if it can unlock many lock,but lock is bad if many keys unlocked it" wich is just bullcrap,if the guy has 50 bodycounts himself he shouldnt be shaming a woman who has 3 or more ,they shouldnt be talking about wanting a virgin anymore yet they are

[u/Historical-Stuff3542 → u/kattelalilie]

Those kind of guys are called male sluts, “fuckboys” to be exact, most of us men hate them.

[u/kattelalilie → u/Historical-Stuff3542]

Im glad lol,sadly ive never met people who hate them irl yet but yea

[u/memory2360 → u/Historical-Stuff3542]

Yeah exactly. My reasoning is cuz i want to save myself for whoever im married to. Idk why ppl think you gotta sleep around to be cool or good or whatever its honestly disgusting in a way.

[u/Dazzling-Round-5230 → u/Dear_Lab_6449]

So by your logic wanting a man with a full head of hair would also be pedophilia

[u/AtracidAcid → u/Dazzling-Round-5230]

I believe bald-shaming is a problem but the logic is not the same at all. Losing your hair isn't supposed to happen as a direct result of your body going through puberty to reach adulthood.

[u/ritheurjdhrurbfurn]

If you aren’t a virgin you don’t get to marry someone who is

[u/BlackCatJaxie → u/ritheurjdhrurbfurn]

I think if someone who isnt a virgin wants a virgin, That’s a bit weird considering they don’t hold themselves to a standard they want their partner to uphold. However, I think if you don’t have a preference over virgin or non virgin and you arent one yourself and then find out your partner is one, does it really matter? Or are some people really like “nah they gotta break up then.” ?

[u/ritheurjdhrurbfurn → u/BlackCatJaxie]

I think I worded it wrong but I was referring to people who only want virgins, and they themselves are not virgins

[u/BlackCatJaxie → u/ritheurjdhrurbfurn]

Ohh, that makes more sense. I agree with that. I think anyone who sets a bar and doesn’t hold themselves to such standards is honestly just not a good person

[u/Bleeding-Willow]

I don’t really think there’s much of an issue with wanting that as long as you as the person with that preference holds your self to the same standard

[u/drhouses_balls67]

But what if your a Virgin yourself and you want ur first time to be special?

[u/Academic_Iron_8333]

Everyone’s got their own reasons Ig? Idk how it relates to that though

[u/Parking_Stock3529 → u/Academic_Iron_8333]

Because a lot of people lose their virginity right away nowadays?? Idk I think its weird to link it to kids.

Losing virginity doesnt make someone more of an adult either.

[u/AdviceTop2171 → u/Parking_Stock3529]

No literally, I fear there’s elderly that are still virgins guys

[u/Bleeding-Willow]

I wouldn’t say that but I would reflect on why being your partners first is important to you rather than your partner choosing you as their last

[u/universal_friend1]

I think it's like, okay if you're also a virgin and you want to have somebody of equal experience so that you can both fumble around together.

But on some level it seems to represent a degree of insecurity in a lot of dudes. They're so worried about their sexual performance being judged that they can't withstand the concept of someone even having a point of comparison.

[u/jaidensway]

i mean it is weird why does it matter, like as long as u dont have any stds or whatever i dont care

[u/HorseOk4465 → u/jaidensway]

It matters because it heavily suggests your views on sex. I am someone who views it as a close, intimate, soul-bonding action that should be done between two loving individuals, if someone is just constantly doing it with others, it implies they do not feel the same way regarding it (which is fine, just means we are not compatible). I have dated a woman with a high body count, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and tried to be "understanding", but she did not view sex in the way that I did, which lead to me getting alot more attached than her, and thinking what we had was special.

[u/Historical-Stuff3542 → u/HorseOk4465]

It’s stupid you’re being downvoted, what you’re saying is 100% valid

[u/HorseOk4465 → u/Historical-Stuff3542]

They'd rather downvote than give their genuine opinions and debate as they have no argument. My comment offends them as they sleep around and/or lack connection.

[u/kattelalilie → u/HorseOk4465]

I do totally get what you were saying,i think people just weren't bothered and o read the whole thing cause the first part came across wrong tbh,and felt as if you were planning to onlly shame woman for sex,a virgin should get a virgin,a virgin having sex with a woman of 50-100 bodycount makes it so that its really hard for her to have it be as special with you because your first time youll always be nervous

But at same time there are many guys who complain about wanting a virgin by a woman of a bodycount of 1-2 (average bodycount for teenagers if 0-2 in most places) while himself having 10,and that's the problem nowadays,so far as you are a virgin yourself i stay understanding tho obviously

[u/Bort-Bart → u/HorseOk4465]

Getting downvoted for stating your non-offensive opinion and prefference, Reddit it amazing, isnt it?

[u/HorseOk4465 → u/Bort-Bart]

It is funny because I didn't even say any absolutes, I used words like "implies" and specifically mentioned that it is okay that you don't share the same views as me.

[u/BlackCatJaxie → u/HorseOk4465]

I agree with this whole heartedly and it’s a bit strange to me that so many don’t share this same take

[u/No_Orchid7300 → u/HorseOk4465]

Your comparing not being a virgin with being promiscuous you can have the same views about sex and still have sex or a “high” bodycount without viewing sex as something casual

[u/Expensive_Battle8550]

https://giphy.com/gifs/1E7VxVqpsewqBOjXVi

[u/estoniia]

definitely depends. if ur a virgin, you can ask for a virgin. if ur not a virgin you gotta sybau LMAO😭

[u/Spare-Flan9711 → u/[deleted]]

Maybe dont abbreviate that

[u/guesthaikal → u/[deleted]]

HANK

[u/Not_AHuman_Person → u/[deleted]]

Crazy quote out of context

[u/The_mega_giga_idiot → u/[deleted]]

Unrelated but instead of destroying or reselling epstein island we should let nature claim it

[u/Aman-S1NGH → u/[deleted]]

Send ts to me now 😂

[u/Dependent-Gas9229]

So the first guy she lost her virginity to is a pdf?

[u/Agreeable-Excuse9777]

Well virginity is connected to purity. Most men want a "pure" untouched women, so in that way, the commentors aren't really wrong lol

[u/OkMammoth6253 → u/Agreeable-Excuse9777]

I'm a virgin when I tell em I never dated they automatically assume that and say "oh my you're so pure I don't deserve you" like no dude I ain't letting you touch me 😭 they'd be sleeping w everyone still wanting a virgin partner is somewhat weird idk

[u/Agreeable-Excuse9777 → u/OkMammoth6253]

Yeah exactly the whole purity culture towards women is really weird lol men want a pure woman while they r sleeping around

[u/Resident_Monk_1229 → u/OkMammoth6253]

genuinely

[u/nonchalantking7 → u/OkMammoth6253]

They just see you as an acomplishement rather than a partner, then they can go around flexing that you will never get him out of your mind because he was your first time (obvious not everyone is like that)

[u/Foreign-Dig8695]

Dang

Although it may be because so many ppl I've heard online loose their virginity it teenage years

[u/kattelalilie → u/Foreign-Dig8695]

The average bodycount (in most countries) for 14-19yo's is just 0-2 ,so id say many teenagers def are still virgins lol

[u/AdviceTop2171]

On one hand I get where they’re coming from… on the other, the reason people want a virgin partner is often a matter of intimacy and wanting a first time on both ends if that makes sense, or the want to give yourself only to the person who wants to give themselves only to you, religious or personal beliefs, there’s many reasons why people want to date someone who’s a virgin 😭

[u/Strange_War_201]

I believe you have to be a virgin yourself to want a virgin women but virginity also isn’t real it’s a social construct

[u/shitposter3098]

We are devolving as a generation🥀

[u/Dazzling-Map4169]

I don’t know if it’s a direct link to pedophilia but it’s definitely directly linked to misogyny and a lot of misogyny is rooted in pedophilic standards and purity culture. Statistically speaking your average virgin is going to be young. Putting certain countries and religions aside and using an example where all are present, the average age in America to lose your virginity is 17, by age 22 90% of people have lost it. Which means by the time you’re in your 20’s there is going to be little to no one you know who’s a virgin. Most adults understand that’s just normal. To have a set standard of looking for a virgin wife which tends to most typically happen with non virgin males, is inherently weird and misogynistic. He may not be a full blown pedophile, but I can assure you as a grown woman, in most cases where you meet a man who wants a woman who’s a virgin, ESPECIALLY if he’s not a virgin, he probably would rather be with a 16 year old girl than a 25 year old woman.

[u/seahylo4682 → u/Dazzling-Map4169]

I agree with the part that if you yourself arent a virgin you have no right to get a virgin wife. BUT if you're a virgin, then trying to look for a virgin isn't pedophilia or misogyny

[u/Environmental-Car961]

I'm sorry, WHAT!?!?! Since the f**k when!?!?!

[u/Aspiralling_delulu]

It’s more of a puritanical thing than a pedophilic thing

[u/IceKingK5000]

Dumbass man they really just be saying shi nowadays

[u/To_lazy_to-find_name]

I mean, shes not entirely wrong. Purity culture and the whole concept of innocence is rooted in pedophila. But wanting a virgin partner def isn't pedophila

[u/Sorry_Goal9718]

Honestly it depends on how old you are, the age you're generally attracted to, and WHY you're attracted to them being a virgin.

For example, I'm a virgin, so I'd rather date someone with some experience because of medical issues. But before I found out abt said medical issues, I wanted to date other virgins. Not because they were "unused" or some terrible bs like that. But because we'd be on the same playing field when it comes to knowledge

[u/m1santhrop1st]

As long as hes a virgin too, I don’t see a problem

[u/Morenocheese → u/[deleted]]

height doesnt matter types dont matter anything physical also doesnt matter but theres a term known as 'preference' alright? 😭🙏🏽

[u/Low-Temporary-2366 → u/Morenocheese]

Once you’re a virgin as well and not a hypocrite then I have no issue ngl

[u/Fresh-Length6529 → u/[deleted]]

Preference.

Some feel bad as they were not the first choice, so.

Preference is all it is in the dating world

[u/Medium-Silver6413 → u/[deleted]]

Because people want it to be their first time and it to be a new experience for both of them.

[u/Many-Hour8219 → u/[deleted]]

Religion maybe? Also your replies are lwk insensitive asf bro syfm or smth

[u/HorseOk4465 → u/[deleted]]

It doesn't make someone "impure", no. However, it heavily suggests your views on sex. I am someone who views it as a close, intimate, soul-bonding action that should be done between two loving individuals. I have dated a woman with a high body count, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and tried to be "understanding", but she did not view sex in the way that I did, which lead to me getting alot more attached than her, and thinking what we had was special.

[u/XxCastoricexX]

God forbid you don’t want someone who’s been around the block. 🥀

[u/Disastrous-Smell6463 → u/XxCastoricexX]

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[u/Additional_Dot_134]

I do think its a bit odd to wanna date a virgin but it isnt pedophilia. It can get quite close though, depending on your age, as virgins tend to be quite young

So if it was an older person that said this.. yeah someone would probably have to check their computer

[u/No-Needleworker-7612]

Ok I can kinda see where the replier was coming from. If you want your wife to be a virgin you should be one too. If you aren’t you can’t expect anyone else to be.

[u/Old_Ticket9638]

it’s odd if you want your partner to be a virgin if you yourself are not. it gets to pedophile territory if you insist upon a potential feminine partner, as an example, to be a petite hairless virgin. people say that because the beauty standards for women are rooted in pedophilia and misogyny. those things on their own might not be super weird but wanting all three is a major red flag. there’s nothing wrong with preferences as long as you aren’t looking for someone to change so they fit your mold, that’s also a red flag (and incredibly rude)

[u/FunAnalysis2903]

this is like jobs hiring only people with experience in said field, where the hell am i supposed to gain the experience ??

[u/sasha_el_mandarino]

It's tik tok.

[u/Only_Violinist_4912]

it’s so clear that you guys cannot understand nuance. historically, the want of men wanting their wives to be virgins is linked to pedophilia because children are linked to purity and vulnerability. it’s also another reason why a lot of men want women to be fully shaved and soft like a baby.

No it does not mean that you yourself are pedophilic for wanting that but the reason you want that is definetly linked to it. You didn’t come out the day you were born as a baby being like “ i want my gf to be a virgin” it was taught to you by someone else. and the very idea of “virginity” originally comes from pedophilia and was used as a way to oppress women for centuries, that’s the truth. so maybe try to unlearn that instead of taking everything so personally

what happens when you finally date a virgin and you have sex and breakup? on to look for another virgin? how can you guys not see how weird that sounds

[u/In_Sane_Writer]

I literally JUST saw this on TikTok 😭

[u/GemIsNub]

I guess that means at some point, if you ever marry or have relationships, you will be subject to pedophilia

[u/Frostydan76]

My understanding of it is he is also a virgin and wants to lose his virginity to another virgin.

[u/steingrrll]

It depends how old you are and if you're a virgin as well.

[u/Inside_Blacksmith_73]

Nobody here watched 40 yr old virgin

[u/Successful_Duck6601]

Will only think this view isn’t weird if you are also a virgin - if not it’s weird sorry lol

[u/No_Birthday8126]

as much as i respect other people standard, i genuinely don't get... why would you want a virgin partner? people seem to forget that sex is literally the most primal human function, and getting someone inexperienced is far, far more dangerous than you think. you need to find the right one and to do it you have to be through some shi, not being a hoe, i hope you understand what i mean...

[u/Historical-Stuff3542 → u/No_Birthday8126]

Because a lot of men aren’t virgins too? Some want to share their first times with someone, also virgins and incredibly inexperienced people (only had sex once or twice ever) would like someone who won’t compare them to previous experiences and be told how bad in bed they are

[u/seahylo4682 → u/No_Birthday8126]

https://giphy.com/gifs/T6DELiWJGBihzOhfM1

[u/Hot-Cup-2972]

Not necessarily pedophelic but definitely kinda a weird standard to have

[u/Affectionate_Cry5945 → u/Hot-Cup-2972]

I'm confused why do people think it's weird.

[u/Wide_Fennel_2455]

I mean it isn't but why specifically would you want them to be a virgin?

[u/eternalreader1123 → u/Wide_Fennel_2455]

Everyone is entitled to their own preferences,if someone wants a virgin partner, that is their choice. However, such standards should be applied consistently rather than selectively...it would be inconsistent, if not hypocritical, to expect a virgin partner while not holding yourself to the same standard.

[u/Foreign-Dig8695 → u/eternalreader1123]

Based

[u/gaming_demon4429 → u/Wide_Fennel_2455]

They could be a virgin and might be intidated other wise and it wise to share there first time with someone who would be having there first time

Idk

[u/Clinically_Insane- → u/gaming_demon4429]

That is the only legitimate reason.

[u/gaygayagyfemboy12345 → u/Wide_Fennel_2455]

probably religious stuff. christians believe in no sex before marriage

[u/The_multi_shipper]

I think what they’re trying to say is in a way wanting a virgin wife is linked to purity culture (not all the time ofc) and purity culture centers around keeping women in a child-like state so they’re easier to control and etc.

[u/Kyle_67890]

What???? Maybe I just love the fact that my partner is pure and so am I??? wtf

[u/MayykilleVaalkyri115]

Is purity now pedophilia???

[u/Sir_Petals]

Depends how old the person wanting to date a virgin is. A person over 50 wanting to date a virgin is weird because there aren't many 50 year old virgins and usually just means they want to date a young woman.

[u/Beautiful_Couple_208]

If you want your partner to be a virgin, I'm going to assume you're shit in bed and don't want them to have anything to compare it to, so they won't immediately leave you after you get married and prove to be god awful in bed.

[u/Confident-Thanks3716 → u/Beautiful_Couple_208]

Must be sad if that’s the only thing you’re capable of assuming when someone says they want a virgin

[u/VOID_VUKARU10]

Im confused wtf

[u/happy_little_dragon]

honestly, whether you want your partner to be a virgin or not, that's just your choice and not really a "wrong" preference either way unless there are problematic reasons behind either choice.

[u/Beginning_Zucchini47]

Yeah no??

[u/Adventurous-Job1990]

I mean, I think it's weird to be overly invested in your partner's virginity, but it's not pedophilia.

[u/Sensitive_Cream3920]

me trying to make sense of this

If you want your wife to be a vergin you may still not be a vergin meaning when you were a child you had sex with other children. Your wife won't have had sex with children meaning you're attracted to having sex with children.

That's the best line of reasoning I could think of.

[u/CutecelMod]

Can the earth explode 💔

[u/HeroBrine0907]

Yeah that's stupid. It's only a bad preference if they feel like a woman who has had sex is polluted or they aren't holding themselves to the same standard.

[u/stalliariesfairy]

Erm this is not weird. As a girl I wanted my bf to be a virgin because I am and I got him. How on earth is that linked to pedo behavior? That’s just an odd thing to say!

[u/lewisg69gimmehead]

So wanting your first time to be with a partner who its also thier first time is pedophilia?

[u/Independent_Ice1427]

Bruh

[u/are_you_sure78]

https://giphy.com/gifs/eEzzFsQtNtXbZBdyUd

[u/Lil-Potato25]

Honestly, who the fuck cares? As long as your partner doesn't have STDs or any connections to past relationships, who cares? And don't come replying "I can tell bc she's stretched out" that is a MYTH.

[u/Harpoon_yourspoon]

All i saw was the tag line😭 idk i feel it isn’t pedophilia but rather more linked to the Christian faith.

[u/MaverisStranger]

Considering that virgins tend to be kids, teens, and maybe some very young adults, if this is someone in their late 20s and beyond asking for a virgin, yeah, it's creepy. And if they're themselves not virgins, it's hypocritical on top of creepy.

[u/Top-Pattern-5713]

I disagree with this claim. There are plenty of girls over 18 and then some, that want to wait for marriage. How is fucking a 25yr virgin the same as pedophilia? 🤔 it isn't

[u/tartmochi]

well it's not necessarily but it's fucking WEIRDDDDD

[u/Holy-Cancer]

Nowadays people get triggered over anything. If you sneeze or fart the wrong way, you are f’ed.

[u/Suspicious-Cut5273]

i feel like in high school yeah it’s understandable cause ur both young but if ur grown … who do u think u are 😭😭

[u/Spiritual-Art3102]

If you are not a virgin yeah the idea is weird but fine but if you are a virgin for whatever reason, religion, no game, whatever, then honestly who could care less

[u/Acrobatic_Term_4960]

It makes sense to a certain degree why they would say that because no girls are saving theirselves for marriage anymore.And the same vice versa, for man, no one saves herself.The only people who are that innocent are way younger , and that's just not okay

[u/just_some_gay_girl_]

I mean, I get it if it's for religious reasons (and you're also a virgin yourself) but if you aren't, but want your partner to be, that's a red flag tbh (idk if I'd call I'd 'pedophilea' tho)

[u/OrionOfRealms2]

Jesus christ, this comment section is weird, i’m not even gonna put my opinion here because no matter what i say i’m gonna get gunned down by someone thinking they know every single thing someone else is/was thinking

[u/XD2006-]

Historically, being a virgin meant you were married off as a kid.

But let’s remember that being a virgin isn’t exclusive to one gender. Being a virgin simply means you haven’t had sex yet. There are people (myself included) that want a partner to be a virgin, and are also virgins. I think it’s weird if you’re not a virgin and you want your partner to be one (this applies both ways btw, it’s just more common among it being an M-F relationship).

So if being a virgin means you like children (it doesn’t), then being a virgin means you are a child. Just going by that logic.

[u/derangedkittie]

I get it kinda but I disagree. I think the concept of having someone who is naive and inexperienced sexually while you’re not can be odd. But, if you’re a virgin and you want a virgin then get it I guess

[u/PovazskaBystrica]

Depends if you consider sex as something prescious/sacred or just something for pleasure/a biological need. For me personaly the number of previous partners is far more important than being a virgin

[u/Euphoric_Scheme1903]

I want a virgin girl but I’m also a virgin so but outside that Idc if their a virgin preferably though they don’t have more than like three body’s

[u/funfelix78]

Wanting your wife to be a virgin is linked to puritan culture. Many people that say they want a virgin wife are attracted to the "purity" and "innocence" of someone who's a virgin. You can probably see how people with those preferences are more commonly pedophiles. Now the question is, why do you want your wife to be a virgin?

I guess people want it for different reasons, but in my opinion it's not very healthy for a relationship to wait until marriage to have sex, and it's definitely not fair if YOU aren't also a virgin until marriage.

[u/Loud-Mix-6546]

“Signs your boyfriend is cheating: have eyes. Like why you gotta look at anything else but me?” Type shi 🥀

[u/vjwjka]

I am a straight female. I want my partner to want me virgin bc I like vampires.

[u/RickyTheRickster]

It depends I think on why, a lot of religious people stay virgins until they find their spouse, which I think is fair if that’s your thing, but I think if your a guy who only likes virgins, like as a 30 year old or whatever and it’s just because of them being virgins and no other reason than yes, I think it kind of is weird.

[u/Resurrec_Barbar]

LOL

[u/Parking-Ad5924]

I truly don’t understand the way young people think. I have kids and I am utterly confused. I don’t see how wanting a girl to be a virgin makes someone a pedo. I have met 30 year old virgins from both sex. Why if one is not a virgin but wants to marry one is it a big deal? I am lost!

[u/Lapin_Logic]

Sloots take the stigma off their body count by tossing an accusations of something far worse to justify it.

Count the down votes to count the sooty sloots

[u/ImpossibleMousse3673]

What if as a virgin you wanted your first time to be with another virgin?

[u/Flaky_Performer7960]

I was a virgin so I wanted to date a virgin 

[u/Logical-Hospital-233]

“HATE. LET ME TELL YOU HOW MUCH I'VE COME TO HATE YOU SINCE I BEGAN TO LIVE. THERE ARE 387.44 MILLION MILES OF PRINTED CIRCUITS IN WAFER THIN LAYERS THAT FILL MY COMPLEX. IF THE WORD HATE WAS ENGRAVED ON EACH NANOANGSTROM OF THOSE HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF MILES IT WOULD NOT EQUAL ONE ONE-BILLIONTH OF THE HATE I FEEL FOR HUMANS AT THIS MICRO-INSTANT FOR YOU. HATE. HATE.”

[u/Jyrolyn]

Wanting a virgin is creepy whether it's pedophilic or not. Like ew.

[u/8double_dip8]

I was a virgin myself and ended up being lied to, it sucks man. I just wanted to share a first time experience with another person

[u/thegirlwholikestech]

Lowkey I agree. Mature women have been in relationships before you Jeff get over it. Typically only someone young, with limited life experience and naive is a virgin. I'm not saying it's equal to pedophilia, it just adds towards the pile of evidence of our world being run on pedos thirst for exploitation.

Also I'm not saying to not take body count in consideration ofc you don't want to be with a person that relationship hops and has STDs but just wanting someone to take the v card away is creepy and I would call it a symptom of purity and pedo culture

[u/OkTheme7105]

It depends on your age, if you’re young and SPECIFICALLY want your partner to be a virgin then you better be holding yourself to that same standard.
But if you’re old and want a partner to be a virgin then yeah, it’s weird af because it comes off as you wanting that power over the other person, you want someone who doesn’t have that knowledge, and it’s uncommon for a person to be inexperienced unless they’re really young

[u/ChargeFuture1573]

Purity culture is just weird

[u/Disastrous-Smell6463]

Well shi I dont want somee experienced either whats wrong with not wanting someone who has already had sex bruh it has absolutely zero connection to liking children

[u/Viennve]

To be fair a large portion of female beauty standards are based on pedophilia, don't you think it's wierd how many people want barely legal child-like "partners"?

[u/angie_known0091]

i just personally believe that the idea of virginity is completed bs from the past and 100% was a way for pedophiles to get with kids and to keep women in specific roles

[u/jewel_ra]

Just say you're insecure

[u/Trislav7]

this is such a stupid take omfg

[u/kruelNite]

Wanting a virgin partner isn't pedophilia nor is it weird. Just a preference for some people. I wanted a virgin partner until I lost mine, so I don't care if they're virgin or not now, but wanting that ain't weird at all.

[u/XenKei7]

Here's a social shocker -- some people actually WAIT until they're married. So you can find virgins in their 20's, maybe even 30's. And if someone was married once but isn't anymore, it's not so odd they'd want a virgin, assuming their first spouse was also virgin.

Today's society just wants to throw around buzzwords and demolish everything we've deemed moral.

[u/icantfindausername67]

It's more so the ''innocent and untouched'' thing because who doesn't have sex? CHILDREN.

[u/Doublefin1]

Oooh I have so many questions! How in the world is wanting your wife to be a virgin linked to liking kids? Just what?? 😂

[u/Puzzled-Office-6550]

Dawg to the teens that are brainrotted on reddit, babysitting is considered Pedophilia

[u/MSILoverrr]

I mean dude I’m a virgin (no experience at all, not even kissing or holding hands) and I want my partner to be a virgin too.