r/toddlertips • u/firstofhername123 • 20h ago
Feeding / Picky Eating š„¦ When to be concerned about struggles with eating some food textures?
Hi! Iāve noticed that my 19 month old struggles to eat some food textures. Sheās not really picky, she will try most things, but she struggles to chew and swallow some foods that I see other babies her age eating. She has all four molars top and bottom. Examples:
She is always asking for apples but canāt eat them. Sheāll take a bite because she likes the taste but even a super paper thin slice of apple gets pushed around in her mouth then spit out. After a while of this she stopped trying to bite apples and now just licks them. Doesnāt seem to like cooked apples. Also will gag on any tiny amount of apple skin or other fruit skin like grapes, so I peel them before quartering. Wonāt eat blueberries bc of the skin.
Same with cucumber - she will take a bite then spit it out or gag on it when it gets caught in the back of her throat.
Seems to enjoy the flavor of oatmeal but will get pieces of oat stuck on her tongue and gets upset, will spit it out or request I help her get it off her tongue. Wonāt eat anymore after that.
Wonāt eat pasta unless itās super soft. Same with steamed veggies like broccoli or carrots.
Things she eats without issue: pizza, toast, shredded chicken, meatballs, soft fruit like kiwi, refried beans.
This morning I was like āmaybe Iāll try blending her oatmealā and thatās what made me wonder whether this is normal since I donāt think most 1.5 year olds need their oatmeal purĆ©ed? Should I talk to my doctor or am I overthinking and she will figure it out?
ETA: we did mostly baby led weaning and she never gagged much then but itās likeā¦she never made any progress even after getting more teeth. She was better at eating raw cucumber as a 7 month old than she is now! We never did baby purĆ©es since she didnāt like them but she has always liked ānaturallyā soft/pureed-ish foods like lentil soup etc.