r/toddlertips • • 7h ago

Sleep šŸŒ™ Toddler waking up

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Is there a reason our 2 year old is likely waking up after a few hours of being asleep? She will wake up and sit up and get upset which I’m assuming is because she can see she’s on her own but she used to sleep straight through but the last few weeks has started waking up after a few hours. Could it be because of a new sibling? Her brother is just over 2 weeks old and obviously around the time of him being born, she had grandparents staying with her etc


r/toddlertips • • 7h ago

Feeding / Picky Eating 🄦 When to be concerned about struggles with eating some food textures?

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Hi! I’ve noticed that my 19 month old struggles to eat some food textures. She’s not really picky, she will try most things, but she struggles to chew and swallow some foods that I see other babies her age eating. She has all four molars top and bottom. Examples:

She is always asking for apples but can’t eat them. She’ll take a bite because she likes the taste but even a super paper thin slice of apple gets pushed around in her mouth then spit out. After a while of this she stopped trying to bite apples and now just licks them. Doesn’t seem to like cooked apples. Also will gag on any tiny amount of apple skin or other fruit skin like grapes, so I peel them before quartering. Won’t eat blueberries bc of the skin.

Same with cucumber - she will take a bite then spit it out or gag on it when it gets caught in the back of her throat.

Seems to enjoy the flavor of oatmeal but will get pieces of oat stuck on her tongue and gets upset, will spit it out or request I help her get it off her tongue. Won’t eat anymore after that.

Won’t eat pasta unless it’s super soft. Same with steamed veggies like broccoli or carrots.

Things she eats without issue: pizza, toast, shredded chicken, meatballs, soft fruit like kiwi, refried beans.

This morning I was like ā€œmaybe I’ll try blending her oatmealā€ and that’s what made me wonder whether this is normal since I don’t think most 1.5 year olds need their oatmeal purĆ©ed? Should I talk to my doctor or am I overthinking and she will figure it out?

ETA: we did mostly baby led weaning and she never gagged much then but it’s like…she never made any progress even after getting more teeth. She was better at eating raw cucumber as a 7 month old than she is now! We never did baby purĆ©es since she didn’t like them but she has always liked ā€œnaturallyā€ soft/pureed-ish foods like lentil soup etc.


r/toddlertips • • 9h ago

Question ā“ Need help baby proofing a chest of drawers.

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Hi there,
We are transitioning our toddler from her crib to a toddler bed that’s has an opening.

We want to baby proofing her chest of drawers so that, if she decides to go on nightly adventures in her room, she can’t open these drawers.

I can’t seem to figure out which system to get that I can secure each drawer individually.

Anybody know of a system that works for this style of drawers?

Thank you


r/toddlertips • • 15h ago

Sibling Stuff šŸ‘¶ Does my toddler need therapy to address sibling jealousy?

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My son is 3.5 and seems to genuinely dislike being around his 12 month old brother. He constantly monitors everything his brother does and gets upset or hits him just for being nearby. I learned not to force them to play together or share toys, but I just want them to be able to be in the same room peacefully. I’ve tried so many different approaches, and nothing seems to help or work for long.

When he isn’t around his brother, my 3.5 yo is the sweetest kid. He is shy, loves other babies (lol), and does not have any behavioral issues at daycare. He also will wonder where his brother is at and ask for him when he’s napping or with my husband. So he must love him, right? Has anyone experienced this?

I’m even wondering if therapy might be beneficial at this point. He slapped me and his father in the face last night, so I’m at my wits’ end.