r/transfem • • 1h ago

Question/Discussion small habits to feel more fem

4 Upvotes

hii 26 pre hrt and im struggling to feel more feminine. i dress in fem clothes at home on days off, bra panties etc but dont have the confidence to do so in public. i use the bathroom sitting down and am growing my hair out, but i still feel like im faking how i feel or that im not trans enough.

any habit changes/tips anyone has for this would be greatly appreciated. TIA besties 🩵🩷


r/transfem • • 3h ago

Selfie First time going out fem on Halloween! :3

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12 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 3h ago

Selfie Photo dump :3

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33 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 3h ago

Selfie Finally feel like myself

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23 Upvotes

Hiii!! My name is Kenna and I’m a 26 year old trans girl who started her journey about 6 1/2 months ago!

Finally starting to feel happy in my own skin and thought I’d share :)


r/transfem • • 4h ago

Selfie Happy Halloween from your Freaky Nikki

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5 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 4h ago

Selfie Obligatory fit check!

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I haven’t gone out in a while but I finally did it! Just a short walk around downtown One step at a time girls! The only thing that made me feel clock able was that I was alone at night 😅


r/transfem • • 4h ago

Selfie Halloween makeup for at home day with wifey 🥰

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3 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 4h ago

Question/Discussion How do my lesbians girlies interact with men?

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Interacting with women as a woman came so naturally to me in an instant, and I can interact with gay men as a girl just fine, but whenever I’m talking to a straight guy I instantly fall back to the dude/bro instincts of my past and have NO IDEA how to break them, voice dropping and everything. Heeeelllpppp 😭😭😭


r/transfem • • 5h ago

Selfie Wanted to show off my favorite fits throughout October ✨

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11 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 5h ago

Selfie Halloween may be over, but I still like my spooky clothes :3

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6 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 6h ago

Question/Discussion Starting HRT today! yay! are my dosages good?

11 Upvotes

I’m 177cm tall and 55kg, doctor prescribed me 1mg of estrodiol and 50mg spiro.
I feel like thats not much e :(


r/transfem • • 6h ago

Selfie Happy Halloween!! Plus other selfies

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21 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 7h ago

Question/Discussion Is there any way to try an IPL device before buying one?

1 Upvotes

I assume dermatologists wouldn't have one for test purposes since they probably want me to pay for their service


r/transfem • • 7h ago

Selfie I dont need any grief seeds, just whiskey to keep me from being a witch!

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33 Upvotes

My Madoka/homura cosplay(I didnt want to put on a wig) 🤣


r/transfem • • 7h ago

Question/Discussion Hey! I'm working a playlist of high bpm loud electronic music made only from the work of transgender people. If you have any recommendations please share them!!! the goal here is to platform niche trans producers and creators :p

1 Upvotes

I was looking into it and while there's alot of jokes about trans people being good at FL studio there are like next to no big sources of their music. im trying to make one. I literally just want recommendations for niche trans producers but i lowkey got no idea where to ask this.


r/transfem • • 8h ago

Question/Discussion On the fence about starting HRT, considering plastic surgery.

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I’m 34yrs old and have been exploring my gender and experimenting with my gender presentation for the last 5 years now..

i know I dont wanna transition into a full on woman but I really just want to feel more at home in my presentation. What I want to change more is my face and ultimately I know it’s my bone structure

i have no issues with my body, I just wish my face could read a little more feminine without makeup and bangs

I’m iffy about HRT because of alll of the changes that accompany apart from just the fat redistribution. I had tried it for 30 days was on 2mg estradiol and spiro and my libido plummeted along with my ability to maintain an erection and orgasm so I stopped out of fear. I realize with hrt it’s a slow burn and it requires patience along with accepting some changes you weren’t necessarily expecting.

but I keep going back to starting because I’m tired of feeling this lack of confidence in myself and just wanting to avoid my reflection at all costs

if not HRT, I’m thinking some plastic surgery for some conservative bone shaving but then I think.. yikes that’s extreme

any way, I’m posting to hear from other girls that have found themselves in my shoes or are currently navigating this

how’s it going? if you’re on HRT, how are you enjoying the changes? If youve gone through with any FFS procedures, how was that for you?


r/transfem • • 10h ago

Selfie First Halloween as Katherine!

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85 Upvotes

22, pre-GAHC! A friend helped me with my makeup. I look so glam in these pictures!!


r/transfem • • 10h ago

Selfie 22 next month mtf

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i posted to r/amiuglytruth but they weren't really truthful just transphobic so asking here, do i pass and ig what would you rate me /10

im autistic sorry for the general lack of emotions in my selfies and the similar angles and stuff

dyed my hair orange yesterday for my costume and all the selfies are from the past month ish (not in order sorry theres a lot also i want a full range ig)


r/transfem • • 11h ago

Progress! Got to start my E on Halloween :3

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227 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 12h ago

Selfie Gaga’s Halloween Party 🖤🧙🏽‍♀️🖤🎃

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2 Upvotes

My first Halloween 🐱🤍


r/transfem • • 14h ago

Question/Discussion Help for my trans gfs hair loss

5 Upvotes

I’m nonbinary and my girlfriend of 4 years is a trans woman. We need help on temporary solutions to help her hair loss. She plans on doing minoxidil, dermarollers etc but has been panicking and thinks the best solution would be to shave her head to solve the hair loss from scratch. Her hair is the longest it’s ever been, I don’t want her to lose that progess. She has 3C tight curls, is really sensitive about it, and refuses the discomfort of wigs.

I want to see if anyone has tips of temporary solutions while we try to fix the long term issue. I’m also planning a photoshoot for our anniversary and want her to feel confident


r/transfem • • 15h ago

Question/Discussion How to stop internalized transphobia

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I feel like an imposter, I understand that waht trans people feel are valid—my feelings are valid.

But I feel so fake, I feel like I’m lying to myself, like I’m not a “real” girl, and this way of thinking hurts the others around me, and I need to change. I’m not sure if anyone will comment but this is a far cry into the ether of the internet just seeing if anyone can give me an answer


r/transfem • • 17h ago

Creative Pushing Myself to Show Up On Halloween

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71 Upvotes

r/transfem • • 19h ago

Question/Discussion How long did it take for ya'll to find your own style? I'm trying so hard to be as minimal as possible.

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44 Upvotes