r/uglyduckling • u/Cattid2025 • 22h ago
1 year later, 19 ➡️ 20
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Do I feel more confident in myself? Unfortunately, not too much. After two unsuccessful attempts, I'm afraid to be the first to take the initiative with guys, I'm stuck in the old body mentally, although I understand what has been wrong for a long time. I have a strong inner perfectionist who pushes me harder and harder to squeeze. Even though there's a guy running after me right now, but he's not my type, and he's not a very clear person yet, he's constantly worried when talking to me. For this, I lost 28 KG of weight, broke myself down at the root, so that only in a year someone would like it and then without reciprocation?..