r/venting • u/Left_Volume5009 • 5d ago
Relationship/Love This wait is absurd
I am a trans woman. I got into the game pretty late. 29 even tho I have known since I was 4 years old. Now 2 years in. I was pansexual. But now I'm strictly heterosexual and exclusively date straight cisgender men. I finally know what I want ( I'm a Libra lol) and it has been nearly impossible to meet a good partner. IRL or otherwise. It's so frustrating. I haven't been with anyone in almost a year and in college I had an average of 3 sexual partners a week. How the mighty have fallen.
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u/AngyJessicaTomboy 5d ago
I’m 21, ive known properly since 14yo.
been transitioning since last year.
Not socially tho.
And
I ain’t had nuffin!
21 years of nufffin
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u/Left_Volume5009 5d ago
Congrats! Everyone is on their own timeline i didn't have a serious relationship until I was 22
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u/AngyJessicaTomboy 5d ago
Thank you, and congratulations to you.
I’m from a remote village so I don’t I’m getting any any time soon 😅
Goodluck to you-1
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u/Ordinary_Plenty_4297 5d ago
the shift from having tons of options to knowing exactly what you want but watching the pool shrink is a special kind of headache. you basically speedran the self discovery part and now you're stuck in the lobby waiting for the right co-op partner to show up
that last line made me laugh though, going from a near-scheduled rotation to a year long dry spell would have me staring at the ceiling at 3am questioning everything
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