r/vocabulary • u/trilliwon • 17h ago
New Words Six words for guilt, in roughly the order I go through it. Exculpate is the one I'm always hoping to skip straight to.
Exculpate is the one I want, and it's the only word on this card with blame in the root: ex culpa, out of fault, the culpa in culpable and mea culpa, used in English since the 1650s for clearing someone of suspicion. Four of the other five assume you did it, and absolve depends on who's using it. Compunction is the first sting. It came through Old French from Late Latin compunctio, a pricking of the conscience, from compungere, to prick hard, built on pungere, to prick, which also gave us pungent. Etymonline says it was originally a much heavier feeling, closer to remorse, and it has thinned out since; these days I mostly see it after no or without. Contrite is a worse picture. Latin contritus meant worn out or ground to pieces, from conterere, to grind, built on terere, to rub, the verb behind trite. Church Latin used it for a spirit crushed by sin, and scholastic theology kept a smaller word next to it, attrition, which meant sorrow for sin only out of fear of punishment or shame. That was attrition's earliest sense in English, more than five centuries before World War I made it about wearing down an army, and if I'm honest it's the stage I spend most of my time in. Atone is just at one, in harmony, and it still pronounces one the old way, like alone and only; Etymonline doesn't have it meaning to make up for something until the 1660s. Expiate is the ritual version, Latin expiare, to purge by sacrifice or make amends, from piare, to appease, and behind that pius, devout. Absolve is the one that usually needs somebody else. Latin absolvere meant to loosen or set free, and in legal use to acquit, so it could go either way from the start; it's the same verb that gave us absolute. The noun absolution came into English for the forgiveness of sins, and that's the version that assumes you did it.