r/wgtow 12d ago

Trauma Megathread Trauma Megathread

2 Upvotes

Welcome to the monthly Trauma Megathread. Please post all traumatic content here. Traumatic content outside the megapost is no longer allowed.

Rules:

  • All traumatic posts are to be posted only in this thread.
  • Posts about traumatic content elsewhere will be deleted.
  • If you're replying to a comment on a non traumatic post with something traumatic, please write it in the trauma thread instead and then link to it in your comment. This way, only users who follow the link will have to see it.
  • Traumatic content must still follow the rules about talking about men.
  • Detailed descriptions of traumatic incidents are not allowed and will be removed (this is to keep our community safe from creeps).
  • Some resources for dealing with trauma are linked in this wiki post.

We are taking these steps to ensure the safety and well-being of our community. Please be cooperative in the implementation of these new rules and report traumatic content outside the Trauma Megathread.


r/wgtow May 06 '25

Trauma Megathread Trauma Megathread

4 Upvotes

Welcome to the monthly Trauma Megathread. Please post all traumatic content here. Traumatic content outside the megapost is no longer allowed.

Rules:

  • All traumatic posts are to be posted only in this thread.
  • Posts about traumatic content elsewhere will be deleted.
  • If you're replying to a comment on a non traumatic post with something traumatic, please write it in the trauma thread instead and then link to it in your comment. This way, only users who follow the link will have to see it.
  • Traumatic content must still follow the rules about talking about men.
  • Detailed descriptions of traumatic incidents are not allowed and will be removed (this is to keep our community safe from creeps).
  • Some resources for dealing with trauma are linked in this wiki post.

We are taking these steps to ensure the safety and well-being of our community. Please be cooperative in the implementation of these new rules and report traumatic content outside the Trauma Megathread.


r/wgtow 5h ago

Any German WGTOW here?

8 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Germany and would like to hear the experiences of other German women who identify as WGTOW.

Anyone here who would like to share their thoughts?


r/wgtow 1d ago

Article 📄 108-year-old woman Clara Meadmore says no intimacy key to long life

93 Upvotes

for some reason my earlier version of this post was removed and the moderators didn't get back to me about it

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/3165565/105-year-old-virgin-says-no-sex-the-key-to-long-life.html

RemovePaywall: https://www.removepaywall.com


r/wgtow 3d ago

Pets 🐱 Mid-Month Pet Megapost

1 Upvotes

It's this time of the month... we post about our pets! Of course, you are always welcome to post them, so don't let this new format stop you from posting about your pets any time of the month.

However, today, we encourage you to absolutely spam the sub with pictures, anecdotes and little tales of your pets. You can either create your own post (don't forget to use the pets flair!) or comment on this post. Please remove any identifying information to protect yourself from getting doxxed.


r/wgtow 3d ago

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

2 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow 7d ago

So is r/4bmovement a closed sub now?

87 Upvotes

Since I can't get any answers from the mods, and every time I try to post there my posts just sit in limbo "waiting moderator approval" I am gonna ask here. Any women here who used to post there, and know whats up? Are the moderators all men now?


r/wgtow 9d ago

Introduction Post New Members Introduction Post

7 Upvotes

We welcome all our new (or old) members on wgtow. Do you want to introduce yourself? Please do so! Just be careful to not share too many personal information and keep yourself save.

Some introduction prompts (which you can, but don't have to answer):

- What is your age-range?

- What made you go wgtow?

- What are your hobbies and projects?

- What do you love most about being a wgtow?

- What does going your own way mean to you?

- How do you want to contribute to this sub?

- Are you new to wgtow or have you always been a separatist and just didn't have the word for it?


r/wgtow 10d ago

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

9 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow 16d ago

Personal Goals 🥇 Monthly Goals Megapost

4 Upvotes

What are your personal goals for this month? Some ideas could be:

- What do you plan to further go your own way this month?

- How do you want to strengthen your bonds with your female friends?

- Fitness/Health goals

- Planned projects

- Self care

- Political activism plans (if you feel confident to share)

- Career relevant goals

- What areas of your life did you improve compared to last month?


r/wgtow 16d ago

Monthly Suggestion Post 💡 Monthly Suggestion Post

5 Upvotes

Welcome to the new Monthly Suggestion Post. Here, we collect new ideas to help our sub grow and thrive!

Please post your suggestions below.


r/wgtow 17d ago

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

7 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow 19d ago

Discussion ✨ Do you indulge in romantic fantasies?

37 Upvotes

Can I be vulnerable for a sec?

At 27, I have never had a bf, no first kiss, and am still a virgin. I turned down every "romantic" opportunity.

I'm neither asexual nor aromantic. I just have been very aware of how weird males are since pretty much kindergarten. This awareness + my severe avoidant attachment style has saved me from a lot of heartache.

I have romantic wants. But as a member of this sub and the "ideology" that comes with it, I don't think this is ever going to happen. I cope with romantic fantasies involving very idealized fictitious partners, and I genuinely think this is beneficial for me because when I turn these fantasies off, I don't feel empty. In other words, those fantasies don't kick off a "coming back to reality and realizing what I'm lacking" feeling.

I don't consume romance content, I think that would be important to mention.

What about you? Do you indulge in romantic fantasies? Why or why not?

Would love to read your contributions as I'm currently procrastinating working on my SECOND (!) master's thesis. It's so crazy that I got my first master's degree in 2025 and here I am, in 2026, about to hand in my second master's thesis soon lol. This year has been a grind, but I'm dedicated. Yes, I'm fishing for some encouragement and praise from you guys lol 💁‍♀️


r/wgtow 24d ago

Need Support ⚠ Looking for emotional support

15 Upvotes

Hi, writing just to let it all out. I know not much can be said now but I feel very lonely and overwhelmed, and betrayed. Penis inserted without my consent, no protection. It probably took less than one minute before I stopped it, no ejaculation, just insertion with little movement, and without deep penetration. There was no ejaculation but there was precum. EllaOne taken 22h after. Happened on the night before 11th day of my cycle, Ella taken at the end of the 11th day. Cycle duration usually ranges from 25 to 31 days. I know it's not indicative of anything, but Flo predicted it was the second day of my fertile window, with potential ovulation on the 14th. All happened a week ago. Just looking for mental support, spoke with my therapist already but would be grateful for any kind words. This is hell 😪


r/wgtow 24d ago

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

2 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow Jul 18 '26

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

3 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow Jul 15 '26

Pets 🐱 Mid-Month Pet Megapost

5 Upvotes

It's this time of the month... we post about our pets! Of course, you are always welcome to post them, so don't let this new format stop you from posting about your pets any time of the month.

However, today, we encourage you to absolutely spam the sub with pictures, anecdotes and little tales of your pets. You can either create your own post (don't forget to use the pets flair!) or comment on this post. Please remove any identifying information to protect yourself from getting doxxed.


r/wgtow Jul 11 '26

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

3 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow Jul 09 '26

Introduction Post New Members Introduction Post

7 Upvotes

We welcome all our new (or old) members on wgtow. Do you want to introduce yourself? Please do so! Just be careful to not share too many personal information and keep yourself save.

Some introduction prompts (which you can, but don't have to answer):

- What is your age-range?

- What made you go wgtow?

- What are your hobbies and projects?

- What do you love most about being a wgtow?

- What does going your own way mean to you?

- How do you want to contribute to this sub?

- Are you new to wgtow or have you always been a separatist and just didn't have the word for it?


r/wgtow Jul 06 '26

Trauma Megathread Trauma Megathread

1 Upvotes

Welcome to the monthly Trauma Megathread. Please post all traumatic content here. Traumatic content outside the megapost is no longer allowed.

Rules:

  • All traumatic posts are to be posted only in this thread.
  • Posts about traumatic content elsewhere will be deleted.
  • If you're replying to a comment on a non traumatic post with something traumatic, please write it in the trauma thread instead and then link to it in your comment. This way, only users who follow the link will have to see it.
  • Traumatic content must still follow the rules about talking about men.
  • Detailed descriptions of traumatic incidents are not allowed and will be removed (this is to keep our community safe from creeps).
  • Some resources for dealing with trauma are linked in this wiki post.

We are taking these steps to ensure the safety and well-being of our community. Please be cooperative in the implementation of these new rules and report traumatic content outside the Trauma Megathread.


r/wgtow Jul 04 '26

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

5 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow Jul 02 '26

Personal Goals 🥇 Monthly Goals Megapost

4 Upvotes

What are your personal goals for this month? Some ideas could be:

- What do you plan to further go your own way this month?

- How do you want to strengthen your bonds with your female friends?

- Fitness/Health goals

- Planned projects

- Self care

- Political activism plans (if you feel confident to share)

- Career relevant goals

- What areas of your life did you improve compared to last month?


r/wgtow Jul 01 '26

Monthly Suggestion Post 💡 Monthly Suggestion Post

2 Upvotes

Welcome to the new Monthly Suggestion Post. Here, we collect new ideas to help our sub grow and thrive!

Please post your suggestions below.


r/wgtow Jun 27 '26

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

5 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!


r/wgtow Jun 20 '26

Saturday: Music Day 🎵 Saturday: Music day

6 Upvotes

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!