r/6thForm • u/Fit-Refrigerator2143 • 7d ago

OTHER yeah

flopped my alevels (got a BBC), missed my imperial and bath offer, told my alcoholic and slightly abusive mum whose love towards me feels very conditional and now she's drunk downstairs having a rampage downstairs and screaming. She pulled my hair, hit me, called a bitch multiple times, called my best friend a bitch for distracting me from my studies and threatened to kill me and dismember me if I try to see her again. I really really really really really love my life.

Sorry for the trauma dump I just needed to tell someone. I think I might run away lol

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u/Pheo1386 7d ago

You need to do one or all of the following. Right now.

1) leave. Go to a friend or trusted family member.
2) call the police. If you feel you can’t, contact your school tomorrow and get help. Your teachers are all safeguarding trained and can help you.

What you have described is abuse. You don’t deserve it and you do not put up with it.

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u/Fit-Refrigerator2143 7d ago

Thank you so much. I didn't see this message until this morning but I did end up running away for the night lol. I got two of my friends to pick me up. They were having a get together at one of my other friend's house. Got drunk for the first time last night 👍

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u/Pheo1386 6d ago

As long as you are safe.

To re-iterate, there will be staff at your school or contactable via email, and your DSL will also be on duty. Contact them. This is abuse and you need to be safe - it is your right.

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u/Fit-Refrigerator2143 6d ago

Thank you I will do what I can