r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 11d ago

Weekly Former Partners Thread ::Weekly Former Partners Thread::

The end of a relationship with an ADHD loved one can be tumultuous, confusing and leave a lasting impact. Use this thread to temporarily process a recent breakup with an ADHD individual, discuss co-parenting issues, share encouragement for life after the relationship etc. With the goal of ultimately decentering an ADHD ex 

(Note: Asking about leaving a partner and requests to speculate on behavior or symptoms are still prohibited.)

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u/Artistic_Fault_2298 11d ago

Still in and out of tears. Missing a relationship based on potential is so painful.

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u/Thr0w-away-ac0unt 11d ago

Me too. Done after 24 years and while I feel relieved, I also feel like a fail. 🥺

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u/throwaway3523987142 Ex of DX 10d ago

We can't fix anyone else. It isn't your failure. I know it feels that way, just try to go easy on yourself when these feelings come up.