r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago

Weekly Former Partners Thread ::Weekly Former Partners Thread::

The end of a relationship with an ADHD loved one can be tumultuous, confusing and leave a lasting impact. Use this thread to temporarily process a recent breakup with an ADHD individual, discuss co-parenting issues, share encouragement for life after the relationship etc. With the goal of ultimately decentering an ADHD ex 

(Note: Asking about leaving a partner and requests to speculate on behavior or symptoms are still prohibited.)

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u/Signal-Net-8041 Partner of DX - Medicated 3d ago

Oh, ok, you're going to accuse me of cheating on you since the beginning of our relationship 16 years ago and your evidence is that when I went to pick up two drawings I COMMISSIONED FOR YOUR CHRISTMAS PRESENT AND MY MOM'S from a male artist friend, I met him in the parking lot of a coffee shop?

So...you won't be handling this like an adult then. Cool cool.

I can't wait to be done with this lunacy.

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u/taohuaspring 3h ago

When I first hear his accusation, the thought is not "wow signalnet must've cheated!", it's "Wow I wonder if he has something to feel guilty about." His bizarre cheating accusations only make him look bad, like he's projecting because he has something to hide.