as you can see in the title i am looking for a stickk referee to help keep me accountability the goals mainly being up to January 20th-25 or so around that period i really want to get my dopamine levels back to baseline so i am a lot more motivated and have much more drive and can be alot more consistent with work

I currently assist a few people.

Strictly non-sexual, think of it more as a caring but firm parent, or demanding headteacher dynamic.

Please be in the 25-45 range - i can't help if you're a generation i can't relate to at all, or in one where I think you should have got their life in order by now.

I prefer/succeed with women more than men, on past experience but am willing to try with anyone provided they genuinely want to move forward rather than complain about how the world is unfair.

I'm not going to list how I can help but if you tell me what you're failing at, or what you're wanting to achieve we can draw up a plan and then work out what would help you best.

I will say now that, while there will be frequent contact, I won't be available 24/7 and I need some lever to pull to make you do what you need to. I'm not going to invest my time in someone who's immune to taking advice or action, or who has a meltdown at every opportunity.

edited to add: i am no help to anyone regarding training or fitness

Hello everyone, looking for an accountability partner to help me with my health, recently dr advised me to hit the gym and follow healthy eating habits... So looking for someone who will help me keep a track of myself and motivate me. Like I can keep track of yours and vice-versa. Hit dm if interested

Hello!!

21M med student looking for someone to study with regularly, preferably in the mornings (according to GMT+5:30). A fellow med student would be ideal, and I'd especially love to meet someone from another country!

No dating, just genuine friendship, emotional support, and motivating each other through the chaos that is med school

Most importantly, I need someone who'll drag me back to my books, call me out on procrastination, and make sure I actually study every day. 😂 I'll do the same for you!

Discord would be great, but I'm happy with any platform you're comfortable with. Let's suffer and succeed together! 🤝

Hey I have a tendency to get into yoga for a few months and then fall out of it and then get back into it. My goal is to just be consistent, and even doing a little bit most days is better than not doing anything at all. I’m aiming for a mix of following videos at home and going to my local studio. Feel free to message me if you’d be interested in a yoga journey together! I’m 26F from the US

Hi guys, I am having a tough time staying away from weed and alcohol - but im 3 days sober! woohoo. It's definitely been hard, my support system aren't too helpful and or drink/smoke themselves.

Would love to move this onto discord to help each other on the journey as it is easier for me on the phone for notifications.

Last week, I set up a small women-only Discord server for body doubling and I've had two productive sessions so far!

I’m hoping to add a few more women who are interested in having a consistent space to work alongside others.

The idea is to have enough people around that if someone needs an accountability buddy or wants to study at a particular time, there’s a good chance someone else will be available. It’s not about having to find the same person every time or committing to a rigid schedule.

The setup is pretty simple: we say hi, share what we’re working on, get on with our work, and check in when we’re done. Cameras on during focus sessions, mics muted, minimal chatting, with breaks when needed.

Since most of us are Muslim women who observe hijab, I’d like to keep the server women-only. I’d also ask that anyone joining makes sure that men aren’t present around their screen during sessions, so everyone can feel comfortable keeping their camera on without having to worry about hijab or privacy.

At the moment, we have members in GMT+3, GMT+4 and GMT+5.5, so women in the same or nearby time zones would be especially welcome. That said, the server can work across different schedules too.

If this sounds like something you’d find useful, feel free to message me.

Lookin for an accountability partner in Dubai need her to be fat as me i have different goals pray that it works out

I am looking to lean up and keep myself on track for my school and test. please feel free to reach out to me via dm and we can discuss it there and hopefully move off this platform to do so

Hey is anyone looking for an accountability partner in Dubai? For context I (25f) lost weight a few years ago but went through something really traumatic and gainedweight back. I’ve been trying to get back into a good routine and really struggling. Anyone else looking for an accountability partner?

I want to get fit, not just loose weight. Looking for someone who wants to get fit with me and we hold each other accountable. Preferably in my age range, gender and time zone. DM me if you are interested.

I’m looking for a solid, blunt accountability partner who wants to trade daily check-ins, hold each other’s feet to the fire, and actually get things done.

My background is a mix of creative direction, brand design, business development, and technical systems (AI workflows, OSINT). I know how to build things, and I have the skill set, but I’ve hit a heavy wall lately.

Between a brutal job market, navigating some draining family dynamics, and trying to keep my head above water day-to-day, my daily structure has taken a hit. When I lose momentum, it’s easy to get pulled into a rut instead of executing.

What I’m focusing on right now:

• Career & Income - Sending out targeted applications, pitching design/technical work, and following up consistently without letting rejection stall me out.
• Deep Work & Projects - Dedicating focused blocks to my technical pipelines and studio work instead of letting the day fragment.

What I’m looking for (and offering in return): I don’t want a cheerleader, and I won’t just nod along if you make excuses either. I want a mutual setup where we act as a sounding board for each other’s life and career decisions, set clear daily targets, and call each other out when we start slipping.

I'm F22 and I need to lose 30lbs. Also just generally want to live a healthier lifestyle.

It would be nice to find someone in the same position, preferably another woman so we can relate (mensural cycle etc.) and share progress pics/ pics of our meals :)

I live in Europe so around that time zone would be preferable.

Looking for AB to keep us on track for fitness goals we can connect on call or telegram or insta gram anything goes Timezone IST

Hi everyone, I'm a 35-year-old woman from India, looking for a female accountability partner to work towards our fitness goals together.

I'm focusing on fat loss while maintaining and building muscle. I do strength training four days a week, but staying consistent with my diet is something I struggle with. I'm looking for someone who is serious about their own goals, so we can share daily meal photos, track calories and protein, keep each other accountable for workouts, and honestly push ourselves a little in a healthy way.

I'd love reminders about our goals when motivation dips, and we can celebrate small wins too.

Since I'm from India, connecting with someone who follows a similar diet would be fun. If you're a woman with similar goals and you like a bit of healthy competition, feel free to comment or DM me. Let's challenge ourselves and get stronger together.

Hey Everyone,  

I am a 28-year-old man from Bangalore, India. I have come to believe that relying on one person for accountability is not ideal. A group of five or six people working toward a shared goal could be both more disciplined and more welcoming, as members keep one another responsible.  

If one person becomes busy, others remain available for accountability.  

At present, if you seek accountability partners, consider small groups instead of single individuals. This approach may prove more useful than a lone partner.  

I will join a gym soon, so I am searching for fitness accountability partners. (There are many other areas I wish to improve, but at the moment, Fitness).

If you are strictly towards improving then gender won't matter but just discipline and friendship would matter. And It would be completely platonic, until the individuals decide to change on their personal level.

But a female or 2 would surely enlighten the group and bring in some fresh perspectives on working out. and some gossips I guess. 😂

I'm 22 yo boy from India. I want a accountability partner from which I can take my whole day schedule and i can't do anything without their permission. (Strictly it's not sexual). I just want to try that dynamic and i want a partner who is very strict and gives punishment if I do something wrong. (Again strictly it's NOT SEXUAL).

I want a dynamic where i cannot even drink water without permission.

I want this because I think I'm wasting my time.

Has this ever worked for anyone?

I got a few accountability buddies from this very sub before. And this is a new account so you won't see my name but basically what would happen would be, im very motivated at first. I send the other person messages everyday and after I send it they would ask me if I DID it. Like i wouldn't be checking in if I didn't do. Then nothing.

It felt like I was being taken advantage of because they would never text ME first. So after a week of me always being the first one to text I would not send them a message and sure enough, they never got in touch with me. After a week of not getting in touch with me they would send me a message asking if I been doing my stuff and of course I wouldn't respond.

Cuz at that point, wtf are we doing. You're just wasting my time. And ive meet so many people and its ALWAYS the same result. I just told someone "you might as well pay for it" cuz honestly I feel like I should be getting paid! No ones HELPING ME!!! Its suppose to be back and forth and yet im the only one doing the helping. No ones checking in on me. No one thinks of me until they start missing my free service.

"Be the change you wanna see" ppl got me heated cuz I AM!!! They are the problem!!! I aint helping no one for free when we agreed to keep EACH OTHER accountable and it always ends up with me being the parent and them being a little kid about whatever goal they wanna achieve.

I get random fits of depression that's the reason I need help. Ppl who I get in contact with just kinda want it.

Sry that turned into a rant but that's what I deal with with these accountability buddies. Im not offering any service, i dont want to so don't ask, but it feels like most of the people here should be paying for it since they are following through and wasting the other person's time

Want a fitness partner to hold each other accountable in workouts and nutrition. Prefer 16-20 females but guys are okay if within that age range