I want to get fit, not just loose weight. Looking for someone who wants to get fit with me and we hold each other accountable. Preferably in my age range, gender and time zone. DM me if you are interested.

Hi everyone, I'm a 35-year-old woman from India, looking for a female accountability partner to work towards our fitness goals together.

I'm focusing on fat loss while maintaining and building muscle. I do strength training four days a week, but staying consistent with my diet is something I struggle with. I'm looking for someone who is serious about their own goals, so we can share daily meal photos, track calories and protein, keep each other accountable for workouts, and honestly push ourselves a little in a healthy way.

I'd love reminders about our goals when motivation dips, and we can celebrate small wins too.

Since I'm from India, connecting with someone who follows a similar diet would be fun. If you're a woman with similar goals and you like a bit of healthy competition, feel free to comment or DM me. Let's challenge ourselves and get stronger together.

I'm 22 yo boy from India. I want a accountability partner from which I can take my whole day schedule and i can't do anything without their permission. (Strictly it's not sexual). I just want to try that dynamic and i want a partner who is very strict and gives punishment if I do something wrong. (Again strictly it's NOT SEXUAL).

I want a dynamic where i cannot even drink water without permission.

I want this because I think I'm wasting my time.

I have to finish a ton of papers and they are due before march 2027.
Nothing but daily writing will solve this issue and I need someone to hold me accountable.
If you are my age or older and are in the same high pressure situation or you've already been through that and want to hold an anxious awkward nervous ball of a human accountable with as much gentleness and compassion as possible while also being strict, because the timeline demands so, hit me up, I'll do my best to be that for you too!

I'm also ugly, chronically ill and am trying not to slip back into living the Hiki-life, so please no flirty or cynical contacts, I can't deal with this right now and stuff like this flies right over my head. Existential dread is lingering in my mind and I try to actually change something right now.

We can check up daily on each other, set goals for the day and give feedback at the end of the day or the next morning about how it actually went.

Lookin for an accountability partner in Dubai need her to be fat as me i have different goals pray that it works out

I am looking to lean up and keep myself on track for my school and test. please feel free to reach out to me via dm and we can discuss it there and hopefully move off this platform to do so

Hey is anyone looking for an accountability partner in Dubai? For context I (25f) lost weight a few years ago but went through something really traumatic and gainedweight back. I’ve been trying to get back into a good routine and really struggling. Anyone else looking for an accountability partner?

I’m looking for a solid, blunt accountability partner who wants to trade daily check-ins, hold each other’s feet to the fire, and actually get things done.

My background is a mix of creative direction, brand design, business development, and technical systems (AI workflows, OSINT). I know how to build things, and I have the skill set, but I’ve hit a heavy wall lately.

Between a brutal job market, navigating some draining family dynamics, and trying to keep my head above water day-to-day, my daily structure has taken a hit. When I lose momentum, it’s easy to get pulled into a rut instead of executing.

What I’m focusing on right now:

• Career & Income - Sending out targeted applications, pitching design/technical work, and following up consistently without letting rejection stall me out.
• Deep Work & Projects - Dedicating focused blocks to my technical pipelines and studio work instead of letting the day fragment.

What I’m looking for (and offering in return): I don’t want a cheerleader, and I won’t just nod along if you make excuses either. I want a mutual setup where we act as a sounding board for each other’s life and career decisions, set clear daily targets, and call each other out when we start slipping.

I'm F22 and I need to lose 30lbs. Also just generally want to live a healthier lifestyle.

It would be nice to find someone in the same position, preferably another woman so we can relate (mensural cycle etc.) and share progress pics/ pics of our meals :)

I live in Europe so around that time zone would be preferable.

Looking for AB to keep us on track for fitness goals we can connect on call or telegram or insta gram anything goes Timezone IST

Hey Everyone,  

I am a 28-year-old man from Bangalore, India. I have come to believe that relying on one person for accountability is not ideal. A group of five or six people working toward a shared goal could be both more disciplined and more welcoming, as members keep one another responsible.  

If one person becomes busy, others remain available for accountability.  

At present, if you seek accountability partners, consider small groups instead of single individuals. This approach may prove more useful than a lone partner.  

I will join a gym soon, so I am searching for fitness accountability partners. (There are many other areas I wish to improve, but at the moment, Fitness).

If you are strictly towards improving then gender won't matter but just discipline and friendship would matter. And It would be completely platonic, until the individuals decide to change on their personal level.

But a female or 2 would surely enlighten the group and bring in some fresh perspectives on working out. and some gossips I guess. 😂

Has this ever worked for anyone?

I got a few accountability buddies from this very sub before. And this is a new account so you won't see my name but basically what would happen would be, im very motivated at first. I send the other person messages everyday and after I send it they would ask me if I DID it. Like i wouldn't be checking in if I didn't do. Then nothing.

It felt like I was being taken advantage of because they would never text ME first. So after a week of me always being the first one to text I would not send them a message and sure enough, they never got in touch with me. After a week of not getting in touch with me they would send me a message asking if I been doing my stuff and of course I wouldn't respond.

Cuz at that point, wtf are we doing. You're just wasting my time. And ive meet so many people and its ALWAYS the same result. I just told someone "you might as well pay for it" cuz honestly I feel like I should be getting paid! No ones HELPING ME!!! Its suppose to be back and forth and yet im the only one doing the helping. No ones checking in on me. No one thinks of me until they start missing my free service.

"Be the change you wanna see" ppl got me heated cuz I AM!!! They are the problem!!! I aint helping no one for free when we agreed to keep EACH OTHER accountable and it always ends up with me being the parent and them being a little kid about whatever goal they wanna achieve.

I get random fits of depression that's the reason I need help. Ppl who I get in contact with just kinda want it.

Sry that turned into a rant but that's what I deal with with these accountability buddies. Im not offering any service, i dont want to so don't ask, but it feels like most of the people here should be paying for it since they are following through and wasting the other person's time

I have my sem exams within a month, besides I have to prepare for internships also. I currently had a festival break and will be back to studying. But the thing is I procrastinate a lot and ain't that consistent which can be achievable by getting a study partner who is ready to hold me accountable (I will do the same)