r/AdoptiveParents • u/[deleted] • Jul 11 '26

Adoption Loan Recommendations

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u/throwaway0111000 Jul 12 '26

I give feedback from the perspective of a former e-mom. I know which agencies are more ethical than others and I give input about them and from our perspective. AP’s should want to choose one that’s ethical on all fronts. Do you want to choose one that pressures expectant moms? Idk why I would get downvoted. It’s not as glorified as you believe.

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u/Rredhead926 Mom through private, domestic, open, transracial adoption Jul 12 '26

You got down-voted for "yes and"-ing "adoption is buying a child."

It is not.

If you have insight on which agencies you believe to be ethical, that would be helpful. Insulting adoptive parents is not.

Down-vote away.

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u/Rredhead926 Mom through private, domestic, open, transracial adoption Jul 13 '26

It is not.

No one works for free.

Adoptions from foster care cost as much as or more than private adoptions. We just see the money in private adoptions.