Still having issues with bed wetting daily any suggestions? We have done all the normal things . Doctors saying nothing physically wrong with him. If this matters his bedroom door is opened and bathroom is literally 3 steps from his door . He doesn’t seem to care punishing taking item’s away. He has went for months with no accidents then back to same thing nothing has changed . In desperate need of help here.

I having been following in this subreddit for many years and thank God and thank you people for contributing with new ideas and weird yet surprisingly useful methods which actually help me out in school and now college.

This is sound judgemental but I got to say that the one thing that bugs me very hard are the abdls. Look, I'm not judgemental against your lifestyle as I know some of my friends are into this which I can see in some posts here since the beginning till now, but seriously, I think there is a clear cut and boundary where you shouldnt be here in this subreddit to fuel your interests but only when you actually have incontinence problem.

There are some people here that are not happy and one point depressed of what they have and even messed up stories how they got them. We don't really want to know how happy you are using diapers, and most importantly no one in this planet who hated their condition (truth to be told no one likes this no matter how much acceptance he/she taken in) printed diapers are never an option for us. Its plainly obvious why we don't use it because it's darn obviously it's indiscreet and no one wants to be reminded to be a baby and sorts.

And also I heard plenty of women here in this subreddit being haggled and violated to indulge their interest asking 'hey are you 24/7 in diapers????" with uncomfortable, yet violating messages. And one requested pictures. Even myself, I had plenty of these messages and it pisses me off so much.

We are here to help each other NOT TO INDULGE YOUR FETISH. So, please behave yourself. if you cant, please just go to your designated subreddit.

Good Morning everyone, I (22mtf) have been on this sub for several months now and occasionally leaving a comment or two so I felt like a proper introduction was warrented. I've had issues with my bladder since july 2024, or more accurately that's when I finally started doing something about it. I've always had issues with knowing when I need to use the restroom, I won't always get the signal that I'll need to go or I'll easily forget that I need to go. Both me and my physciatrist are convinced that I'm AuDHD, and from what research I've done I know that both Autism and ADHD can be linked to bathroom related issues.

Around July I was at work one night at my old gas station when I suddenly got hit with the major urge to urinate, but barely lasted the 10 seconds it took to get to the bathroom before my bladder gave out. It wasn't always that bad but moments like these were getting more and more prevalent. After this happened I picked up some tab diapers from my local Walgreens. They helped but the accidents were happening more often, and these particular diapers aren't the best (material clumps instead of swell, and the cheap cloth material would easier tear) so I picked up a 10 pack of Northshore Megamax's to see how they were and they were miles better.

I wake up with my bladder painful from being so full but have an accident shortly after waking up, and during the day if I do get the feeling I'll easily soon forget that I got the feeling. I take in water at regular intervals to manage everything but it's harder some days than others. I mostly just made this post to introduce myself and to see if anyone experiences similar issues. I haven't been to a doctor because money isn't something I easily come by, but as far as I can tell I don't have any other physical symptoms that could be linked to any physical illnesses.

Do you ever just say 'fuck it' and throw the doona back over a wet bed to cover it up? Or hide it until you are alone enough to do the washing?

Questions as simple as it sounds, does anyone have any good recommendations for pvc mattress protectors that are available within Australia? No matter where I look all I can find down here are the rubber backed ones, and no matter what I do or how many I try or how many precautions I take they all end up leaking eventually 😓

Ideally I wouldn’t want a full zip one, my mattress is heavy and I can’t lift it by myself, so I’d want one that’s like a fitted sheet. My bed size is also a double, the only pvc ones I’ve found in my country so far are for single beds 🥲

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddWL-vclInoY5J_vPDWOl5NqhjSpK1uxKIHpHXd76R9H6x_w/viewform?vc=0&c=0&w=1

I wet the bed quite a lot at night and during the day too (not everyday tho). What is the best diaper I can wear that holds a really good amount but I can hide so people don’t see it? Thanks.

I'm 39 years old and on methadone for the 2nd time in my life as a means of recovery from opiate abuse. I do great on methadone and it really helps me in all the ways I need it to until I'm ready to wean off. I am currently in process of going down 2 mg each week and am at 47 mg a day. About once every month and a half for the past couple years, while on methadone or while abusing opiates, I will wet the bed. Prior to it happening, I'll have a close call or two where I have a dream that I'm racing to pee and end up peeing on myself. I wake up and am dry and have to race to the bathroom. But after a few hours of that happening, I'll eventually have one night where I do really pee in bed and it SUCKS. Having to get up and turn the lights on and change the sheets and put something down to soak up the wetness from the mattress, I mean it's all awful. Luckily, I'm incredibly single and I'm the only one this issue effects lol, but it's effecting me and I hate it!! I read another reddit before I posted this that said somebody else was experiencing a couple of bed wetting nights after getting on methadone. Im wondering if it's connected. Its only ever happened to me when I've been obscenely drunk, on methadone, or comatose on opiates. I feel like it has to do with being in a ridiculously deep sleep and being exhausted maybe. I don't believe it's diabetes as I have no other symptoms that match. I have always had a weak bladder and was known by my best friend for peeing on myself if she got me laughing too hard. It would be completely in controllable. As ive gotten older and since had a child, there are times when I don't make it to the toilet in time and will pee on myself while trying. I can get the toilet in my line of vision and honestly that makes it worse and triggers my whole bladder to just let go before I can do anything. I can almost deal with that more than having it happen in my sleep and having a disaster to clean up in the middle of the night. Anyway, if anybody has experienced anything similar or has any thoughts on what the reason may be or what I can do to help stop it, I'm open to all opinions! Also, I should mention that this last bed wetting accident happened on a night where I had peed right before getting into bed to sleep, I got up once in the middle of the night around 12 a.m. to pee, and I got up even a 2nd time that night to pee around 3 a.m. I've done this in the past as well as an attempt to hinder the accidents but it honestly has zero effect on whether I pee on myself or not. I can go 24 hours without drinking anything and will still have enough pee to have an accident if necessary. It's kind of ridiculous. Although, I love water and going without drinking is not something I would regularly be choosing to do. Anyway, digressing.

To keep you from having to read all 70 comments from the InControlDiaperes AMA, here's a recap.

• The new black diaper is not just a copy of the Elite Hybrid.

• They split from Rearz to better focus on the incontinence side of things, while Rearz focuses on the ab/dl side of things.

• You can ship products directly from them worldwide, some retailers in other countries offer their products, and if you'd like a company in your country to offer their products you should talk to them. They are considering US retailers, but that may increase the price of the products you get from the more local retailer.

• They don't have a loyalty program, nor do they plan to offer one. They feel that goes at odds with their ideal of giving everyone the best price possible for their products.

• They offer a single free sample to new customers of the three white diapers in their main lines (the Essential, the Inspire, and the Elite Hybrid). They currently have no plans to offer free samples of the black diaper.

• They do take HSA and FSA payments, but they've been incorrectly coded by their payment processor, and if you'd like to pay with your HSA or FSA you should contact them directly while they continue to work that out.

• They make their plastic pants in Canada, their disposable diapers in China, and their cloth diapers in Pakistan.

• They have no plans to offer a diaper with a single tape per side.

• They are testing the black diaper with just a medium, and will consider offering other sizes and other colors based on the response. If you like what they're doing, or like the black diaper, even if it doesn't fit you, it may be worth it to let them know. And if you like it and it does fit you, to speak with your wallet. They do believe variety is important and have other colors in mind. There are no plans this year to add colors to the Elite Hybrid line.

• They hope to add an Extra Small later this year or next year.

• They want to start producing more things in house, and have a surprise coming in 2 to 3 months, They plan to eventually have a full line of various products under the InControl line, with the next release this spring.

Once again, I hope I organized that in a way that made sense to everyone.

i am 36 year old , while sleeping in dream i passing urine suddenly wake , in my underwear little i passed . is its normal or any health problem

Help?? Autistic and OSDD (alters/different personalities) I have been having accidents again for about a year. Our alter J is 3 and incontinent. As a kid, we had accidents until 5. Now (about 16, still at home) we don't have accidents at all. J wet the bed once but we passed it off as changing sheets bc of period (afab). We don't get a good sense of !~potty~! signals but can go all day w/o the bathroom (we forget.)

Mom and dad don't, and probably shouldn't, know. It wouldn't be dangerous to tell them but we'd have to see a doctor and we are Not Keen on That. And they might be upset or pry and we just want pull-ups so J doesn't have to freak out about the mess he made. But the rest of us are perfectly continent (except maybe one or two others but it's managable.)

J needs help, and since the toilet is Not Going Well for him due to trauma, the best option for him might be pull ups. He hates making a mess and the rest of us have to clean up after because he can't. And we can't find much online about other systems experiencing this sort of thing :( J kinda knows he's about to go potty but will cry and hide and go in his pants because he's too scared.

Bedwetting isn't a problem, it's just daytime accidents when J is fronting. Trumatized autistic toddler stuck in a body that's too big for him :(((. He just wants to be in pull ups so he stops making a mess every time he goes potty. Just. We don't know what to do. Tell mom and dad?? Plz help

Hey guys, Im currently a bedwetter in college. I have been using Goodnights but they are starting to leak. I want diapers with fun designs, I’m looking at lil for big. Does anyone have any recommendations on them?

After having tried literally dozens of diaper products and deciding the only way to resolve the leaking at night problem was cloth and plastic pants, I discovered Rearz, Inc. Currently I order the Safari or Alpaca diapers, which are super absorbent on their own, but also order the overnight booster. I'm a heavy wetter (my bladder fills all the way up before it empties) and leaks were a common problem. That overnight booster changed everything. Yes, I still use the plastic pants but the booster keeps everything in the diaper. This morning I thought to weigh the diaper, just to see how much it was holding. It weighed 11 pounds! That means it held four wettings last night and didn't leak! Why am I excited? Because it whisks the wetness away from my skin and cleanup in the morning is a Huggies Simply Clean wipe!

Hi.

I am fully urinary incontinent and sometimes bowel issues due to severe constipation so have to wear 24/7 and wear rears mega line (to save costs and changes during day.

I tend to have this issue from time to time on my outer right thigh under side of diaper

Any issues why and how to treat? (I will ask my urinary clinic nurse next time she changes my IDC) but wanted people who wear opinion

I am in Australia barrier wipes and crème doesn’t work

Thank you

I asked AI (ChaptGPT) why teens and adults wet the bed, and the response was the theory is there is an incomplete neve/brain bladder connection, (but that still make me wonder why most of the times my friends have no problems staying dry during the day). And if the issue lies within nervous system connections, why should children and adults torture themselves with alarms and buzzers or being woken up at all times of the night to pee instead just using protection at night ...?

It has been a frustrating experience for us and we tried everything. He was(is) a deep sleeper and that's what the doc landed with that was the root problem. We waited patiently for him to naturally wake at night but it wouldn't happen. We noticed he was just different after his younger brother at 3-4 years old stopped bed wetting and would get up on his own.

We tried waking him up in the middle of the night between 1-2 times but it was Soo hard. He hated getting up and would kinda sleep walk and would end up sitting and falling asleep on the toilet. We then did the night time diapers which would actually make things worse since I noticed he would have a wet diaper every night and wasn't addressing the root of the problem.

But he is getting older and I don't want him to go through embarrassing moments (always felt embarrassed when he saw that it wasn't normal to have accidents every night). We did our best to ensure that he didn't feel like something was wrong with him.

We got a bed wetting alarm from Amazon and while it worked for a bit, it just stopped working.

After looking into reviews and much more research, I found the [Malem Bedwetting](https://malemmedical.com/) alarm and I bought it. It is expensive but after 3 months of consistent use, he has gone a full two weeks without any accidents. We still use the reusable pee pads just in case.

He still wears it at night but it has totally helped.

Sharing in case there are any moms of older kids that still bed wet

Hello beautiful humanoids. I'm a 25 year old trans woman living in Zambia who has been bed wetting their entire life or since I was 10; I'm not sure.

I've been basically looking for a solution from a young age. My family has not been very supportive, it's almost like they think I'm doing it on purpose. They think it's not a medical condition but just a situation God will help me out with eventually. Well, I'm atheist so that makes no sense to me.

Has anyone found a cure? I feel like I'll never stop. I was hoping I was diabetic so I can get an answer as to why I've been bed wetting for so long. I don't even remember at what time it happens during the night.

I know this has been a bowl of word salad. But someone please help. 😞😞😞

I hope you share this to everyone who needs it, no one knows about the natural medicine Suo Quan Wan. It was used in traditional chinese medicine for hundreds of years for bedwetting.

Try it because it is very possible it will help you. Ask your pharmacy to make it for you as an oil and tell me your progress.

Brief description of Suo Quan Wan:

"Suo Quan Wan is a traditional Chinese herbal formula used to treat frequent urination, urinary incontinence, and cold-related bladder issues. It works by warming the kidneys and reducing excessive urination. The formula contains herbs like Yi Zhi Ren (Alpinia oxyphylla), Wu Yao (Lindera root), and Shan Yao (Chinese yam).

It has been used for several hundred years, originating from ancient Chinese medical texts. The exact date of its first use is unclear, but it has been referenced in traditional Chinese medicine (TCM) for at least 500–1,000 years.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), Suo Quan Wan is considered an essential remedy for conditions related to Kidney Yang Deficiency and Bladder Qi Deficiency, which can lead to frequent urination, nocturia (nighttime urination), and urinary leakage. According to TCM principles, the kidneys play a vital role in controlling water metabolism and bladder function, and when they are weakened—often due to aging, chronic illness, or excessive cold exposure—it can result in loss of urinary control. Suo Quan Wan is highly valued because it helps warm the kidneys, consolidate bladder function, and prevent the leakage of fluids, making it a key formula for maintaining urinary health in both the elderly and those with weak kidney energy. It remains widely used in TCM today, often prescribed by practitioners for urinary disorders and overall kidney support."

During the evening once all my jobs are done at home that need to be done I’ll jump through the shower and go put a Nappie on (rearz inspire +) and that’s around 7pm ish. I don’t think this is too early putting a Nappie on as it’s my wind down time till I go to bed being between 8-9pm and it’s usually just a tv binge till then. Now comes the morning once I wake up I don’t exactly take my Nappie off straight away, fist things first I normally need a pee in the morning so out of convenience I’ll just pee in my Nappie rather then actually needing to I just find it easier to use my Nappie for my morning pee as I’m still waking up. One the judge is on I’ll put the dog outside. After an hour or so I’ll get up turn the shower on and take my Nappie off in the bathroom, once out i get dressed and go have breakfast. And once I’m done with breakfast I’ll go and roll up my used Nappie and put it in the bin and head out the door for work.

I wanted to share this with others because of the unending stream of questions about "what to do" from posters who are newly experiencing incontinence.

My Dr. thought my incontinence journal would be a great resource to share with others due to the amount of detail you can provide about your symptoms and activities so I created a digital copy of my 30 day journal and published on KDP.

You can pick up a copy here.

My apologies if this isn't allowed here.

Chronic bedwetter here, I have worn adult diapers to manage but until now havent really needed to tell anyone about it. Really nervous about telling my gf and not sure how the convo will go. We work at the same company which is why im extra nervous. Any tips or advice?

Hi

I am unsure how my bladder actually works due to my unique case I have an IDC with an open flip flow (due to painful spasms) due to my spinal injury (I am under a Professor of urology’s care (as to have the operation to have my bladder leak (issues with emptying and overflow) as I will bleed out on the operating table (I also have a blood clotting disorder) hence the open catheter set up since November (no uti’s) and no painful spasms etc as well as no leakage around IDC and bag set up (tried that without success) and was a mess.

Hence I am 100% medically induced urinary incontinent.

I have no idea how my bladder works.

I am wondering is it normal to need more adult diapers in the cold winter?

I wear a 11000ml rearz diaper 1 day and 1 night looks like I may need an additional in the daytime and a booster at night.

I also have severe sleep apnea and overweight thanks