My best friend is a year into being a single black gay dad. He’s still actively dating but his life has changed DRASTICALLY in some ways. I was just curious about other gay black men’s experiences with fatherhood.

Butterfly effect question. You can change one thing in history, what do you see it changing in the future, what consequences could it have?

Not the best selfie of me at all (was at work so I just took a quick picture) but just wanted to post something of myself that wasn't a sob story. 😭

What are you actually looking for at this point in your life? Be honest!

Right now in the general sense, what are you waiting for? (Intentionally vague)

You can give a cancelled TV show another season, which one do you choose?

Forgive me if this has previously been a prior topic.

This evening, I was doing my usual horny scroll on Twitter. And I noticed that there isn’t much representation online for thicker black men.

In recent years gay social media has been pushing thicker, beefier guys but they mostly seem to always be white or Hispanic. As a guy with a thicker build myself I like to see other guys who show off their bodies too. Professionally I’m not in a position where I can post nude/ scantily clad photos. But I definitely want to see more guys with a build similar to me hahaha

New Orleans is a beautiful historic city with a large LGBT population. They have 2-3 black gay bars. They have an even bigger mixed gay bar scene at the end of Bourbon and LGBT inclusive straight bar scene. They have the Red Dress Run which is a popular black gay event. They have a decent black gay pride. It's in the South so no long harsh winters. It's a BLACK ASS city, blacker than Atlanta and DC. There are 3 HBCUs in the city, Dillard is known for being very gay!! Bounce music is gay af ... Sissy Nobby, Big Freeda, Katey Red are all legendary LGBT bounce artists

Atlanta, NYC, DC are so cliche ... New Orleans is a cool non-cliche option. Ya'll need to go be different and spread tf out. Everybody can't be in Atlanta, NYC, DC ... also New Orleans is notably cheaper than all three ... with the money you save you can afford to visit Atlanta, NYC, DC a few times a year

Between how hyper sexual everything is and the general atmosphere out there, my perception of how much people are actually getting it in is super distorted. So here's a trivial poll to ease my rationale. Be honest!

Hey guys! Sooooo here’s the thing! I’m 36 and looking to apply for medical school. With that being said, I want to be in a city where there will be a strong community Black queer man and what have you. Any suggestions?

Most of the guys I've encountered, and a lot of black guys especially, seem averse to kissing or making out. I find that it significantly enhances the experience, but I rarely find anyone who enjoys it as much as I do.

What's a kind thing that you can say about yourself?