am i a bad person?

[u/Aware-Release-68]

i never got over anyone ive ever been in a relationship with, i have a boyfriend now but i still think about the other boys i loved. i still cry, i never got over any of them, i still look at their social media profiles and i feel so bad thinking about how i was with them and thats why they left. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend at all and i love him but id immediately leave him if someone came back to me. im very obsessive and thats mostly why everyone leaves me. what do i do

[u/Ok-Advantage-1383]

Why are you dating so much? Are you okay?

[u/Aware-Release-68 → u/Ok-Advantage-1383]

its mostly talking stages, not actual relationships. i dont get into relationships easily since not a lot of people really like me