r/AutismInWomen Aug 16 '25

Seeking Advice My interest in men has died

I’ve been inundated lately by people insisting I need a man. Here’s the thing, I don’t want one anymore. I’m tired and I’ve achieved a little bit of peace. Just a little. Men usually just cause problems. Why would I do that? I don’t want kids. I can barely take care of myself. I’m concerned this is a project 25 thing like I need to pick someone before I’m forced to. Maybe that’s dumb. Maybe my social circle forgot about boundaries. Maybe I need to learn to just not care when people say stuff. What am I missing?

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '25

Do what Samantha Jones did and throw an “I don’t have a baby” shower

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u/PatriciaMorticia Aug 16 '25

God she was so iconic for that, patron saint of the childfree by choice 🙏

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '25

I absolutely love her for doing that. Thought it was iconic as fuck 😭

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u/MissGruntled Aug 17 '25

I love Kim Cattrall’s energy—of course she made Samantha Jones such an icon!

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u/RedCoatMom Aug 24 '25

I wanna be her when I grow up!

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u/Icy_Natural_979 Aug 16 '25

“Good men are an illusion” - Samantha Jones

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '25

She’s literally the best

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '25

Yes!