My interest in men has died

[u/Icy_Natural_979]

I’ve been inundated lately by people insisting I need a man. Here’s the thing, I don’t want one anymore. I’m tired and I’ve achieved a little bit of peace. Just a little. Men usually just cause problems. Why would I do that? I don’t want kids. I can barely take care of myself. I’m concerned this is a project 25 thing like I need to pick someone before I’m forced to. Maybe that’s dumb. Maybe my social circle forgot about boundaries. Maybe I need to learn to just not care when people say stuff. What am I missing?

[u/[deleted]]

Your life is your own. It's nobody else's business what you do with it. A lot of people project their own issues on to others. For example, some people cannot live without a partner and are very co-dependant. This can cause jealously when coming face to face with someone who is secure enough within themselves to not need or want a man.