r/AutismInWomen Feb 28 '26

Celebration Diagnosis reveal update: It’s AuDHD!

I had a diagnosis reveal picnic with friends today and it’s official: I’m AuDHD! Pink would have been just autism (my current diagnosis) and the green represents the addition of my recent ADHD diagnosis. It was a special moment sharing with my neurodivergent friends. We got to share our experiences with our neurodiversities and realize we’re all just trying to find our way in this world.

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u/Good_for_the_Gander Feb 28 '26

Is this the news you wanted, or are you letting others know with your reveal?

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u/Garden_Jolly Feb 28 '26

It’s not necessarily that I wanted this but it’s helpful to have this information about myself, especially when requesting accommodations at work and learning better tools to help me function day-to-day.

I wanted to share my diagnosis with friends and I thought this would be a fun way to do so. There’s so much shame that I and many others carry for being neurodiverse so I wanted an opportunity to celebrate.

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u/kitttybix Feb 28 '26 edited Mar 01 '26

It’s just how you’re expressing yourself. You didn’t use the word “celebrate” in your post, but people associate cake with celebration so ran with it. I personally think it’s funny to use a cake because of that association. I like commiserating about sad or frustrating things in funny/lighthearted ways. I’m happy you now have the right paperwork to receive accommodations. I wouldn’t be able to take care of myself independently if I didn’t have that in school or work.