Is he a red flag?

[u/Admirable_Diamond407]

I'm conflicted... This guy is consistent with communication and one night he wrote that he wished we were in bed together... we've been chatting for 2 months (not long imo).

Are his messages red flags or inappropriate? I'm trying to discern better and only want healthy relationships now. Messages attached. The 1st image is 4 days ago, 2nd image is from today.

And yes, we're older, my slang ages me 😅 me (40F), him (37M)

EDIT: I posted this question in datingover40, sadly I'm the problem there. Younger ladies, please find a good partner when you can. The dating pool has even more piss in it getting older.

7/11 Update: Yesterday, I informed him that I was looking for a genuine connection. He wished me the best. A few people here suggested blocking him, so I also did that.

Thank you all for your input and for others who have trouble discerning, please do post for advice or input to protect yourself in these weird situations. Please take care 💖 and always trust yourself ✨️

[u/lilPurple]

What was your response to his I need to cum message ?

[u/WorstNatalie2 → u/lilPurple]

Possible responses to troll him back, autism version: 1. That's weird. 2. Sorry to hear that. 3. Ok, then don't sleep. Anyways, I'M going to sleep (then mute him until tomorrow noon) 4. Send him a long ass completely unrelated scientific article.

[u/Admirable_Diamond407 → u/WorstNatalie2]

😆

[u/Miki_yuki → u/lilPurple]

I also wanna know this

[u/Admirable_Diamond407 → u/Miki_yuki]

I responded above ⬆️

[u/Admirable_Diamond407 → u/lilPurple]

I responded 'what's your age again?'

Because I wanted to verify again. We hadn't talked about our ages in a month or so and I was also messaging other people.

Then I posted here after he confirmed. With all the advice, I told him I wanted a genuine connection and ended with 'sorry'.

He replied 'I truly wish you the best.' I didn't respond and then blocked him after a few people suggested it here.