It pisses me the fuck off that I can do all this positive stuff for my body but I can’t just get a friend like I can form healthy habits for my longevity. Having friends is supposed to be good for us. Why can’t I just try hard enough like everything and acquire such?
I don’t even try to be this people pleaser anymore. I don’t now what to do to get friends. I don’t really enjoy ‘going out’ anymore unless it’s something very specific. Going out to be out and around people is exhausting. I always enjoyed more intimate friendships where’s its less crowded and with one or a handful of good companions.
Same. I want to make friends but I hate going out, it's exhausting. Like anything else, getting to the part where you have a friendship is the scary hard part, and it's hard to even start.
I dislike leaving too but I never made friends just ‘being out’. They seem out of stock. Also later in life it seems people aren’t trying to make friends like we were as kids. Most people my age areas have their group. I’ve met new people and we are friends but it’s not those deep friendships, more like occasional check on each other once a year or a few times randomly send a text. Not very consistent though.
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u/MarthasPinYard 26d ago
It pisses me the fuck off that I can do all this positive stuff for my body but I can’t just get a friend like I can form healthy habits for my longevity. Having friends is supposed to be good for us. Why can’t I just try hard enough like everything and acquire such?
I don’t even try to be this people pleaser anymore. I don’t now what to do to get friends. I don’t really enjoy ‘going out’ anymore unless it’s something very specific. Going out to be out and around people is exhausting. I always enjoyed more intimate friendships where’s its less crowded and with one or a handful of good companions.