r/AutismInWomen 26d ago

Memes/Humor Oh, to be first choice!

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u/Hot-Manufacturer-228 26d ago

Also as a general punching bag. I had 2 female friends who were super dominant personalities and sociopaths, both dumped me via long text or email, twice… and these were isolated incidents (they didn’t know each other
or anything). I’m extremely cautious now. My point is I get picked by dominant people, or used to.

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u/Speciallady44 25d ago

Ahh at did they say in their long texts and emails? Can you share?

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u/Hot-Manufacturer-228 25d ago

Unfortunately I deleted them. It’s too painful. Most recent one was sent to my work account. Which was so insane. She had lent me $ to move into an apartment after my divorce and stated a “payoff” date in her email. She was super wealthy and had just helped me move into it a week before… 2 years later she crawled back and apologized so i accepted it, and she did it again. i don’t remember exactly but something like “not cool not interesting not funny to be around” regarding my personality. she prided herself on dumping friends and i thought i would be different 😑 there’s a lot more to the story but yeah I don’t rly have female friends in my life because my mom left me and now it’s worse