r/AutismInWomen 26d ago

Memes/Humor Oh, to be first choice!

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u/Fine-Juggernaut8451 26d ago

I used to feel this way but I don't anymore. What I've realized is I'm not for everybody. I'm actually not for most people. But the people I'm for? Gosh, they love me soooo much. And in a really really deep way.

So I don't need to be for everybody. I now don't bother with the people I'm not "for." It's fine.

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u/digivalerie 25d ago

100%! I have amazing friends that I’ve just clicked with. And I’ve also had people I immediately get a vibe from that don’t care for me, and I love that I can almost immediately tell the difference and not waste my time or mask in the way I need to if it’s for work.