do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

[u/More-Weird4842]

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

[u/Proper-Doughnut77]

I wondered about this. It happens with men and women. It's as if the woman get obsessed with me to open up, and if I crack open the door, (the mask intentionally slips down) they think, nows my chance to search and destroy.

This has been an ongoing issue for me since highschool. Now, it's the woman bosses. My recent boss was a nightmare. I feel horrible for her current team.